Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, OP. I'm also in my 30s and think these would be pretty:

https://www.shopbop.com/margot-maxi-dress-runaway-label/vp/v=1/1505713389.htm

https://www.revolve.com/nbd-gal-gown-in-oxblood/dp/NBDR-WD3420

https://www.shopbop.com/halter-drape-bias-gown-norma/vp/v=1/1508286323.htm

https://www.revolve.com/norma-kamali-halter-fishtail-gown-in-black/dp/NKAM-WD677

https://www.revolve.com/nbd-amira-gown-in-black/dp/NBDR-WD3274

https://www.shopbop.com/sleeveless-low-back-drape-gown/vp/v=1/1558319414.htm

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-us/shop/product/rhea-costa/dresses/gowns/kira-belted-satin-gown/1647597345568786

https://www.revolve.com/alc-lara-gown-in-ivy/dp/ALX-WD592

Love these.

Agree, these are good for revenge dresses (if you like your arms).

Does a silver dress violate wedding etiquette?

I posted those dresses and I thought about that after. Should've put a caveat on it.

I wouldn't care, my sister wouldn't care, my best friend wouldn't care...I think it is pretty clearly not white in the photograph. Could be whiter in real life. But if it looks like the pic I wouldn't care.

That being said, OP, you know your social circle better than I do. If someone would care, don't do it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, OP. I'm also in my 30s and think these would be pretty:

https://www.shopbop.com/margot-maxi-dress-runaway-label/vp/v=1/1505713389.htm

https://www.revolve.com/nbd-gal-gown-in-oxblood/dp/NBDR-WD3420

https://www.shopbop.com/halter-drape-bias-gown-norma/vp/v=1/1508286323.htm

https://www.revolve.com/norma-kamali-halter-fishtail-gown-in-black/dp/NKAM-WD677

https://www.revolve.com/nbd-amira-gown-in-black/dp/NBDR-WD3274

https://www.shopbop.com/sleeveless-low-back-drape-gown/vp/v=1/1558319414.htm

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-us/shop/product/rhea-costa/dresses/gowns/kira-belted-satin-gown/1647597345568786

https://www.revolve.com/alc-lara-gown-in-ivy/dp/ALX-WD592

Love these.

Agree, these are good for revenge dresses (if you like your arms).

Does a silver dress violate wedding etiquette?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.nordstrom.com/s/dress-the-population-maxwell-square-neck-long-sleeve-gown/7961151?color=BLACK&size=large&country=US¤cy=USD&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=seo_shopping&utm_channel=low_nd_seo_shopping&srsltid=AfmBOoo5MHCjAv3X82P4b2uv9ZxFstbyS29uk5bB9PdXYljSELHQUKnRG7w

Morticia Addams vibes.

They're not bad, per se, they just are kinda plain. If I were trying to impress my current bf's frum parents, I would pick those. If I were trying to make my ex-husband miss me, I would pick one of the other ones.

lol I was also thinking most of these dresses look from 😂

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.nordstrom.com/s/dress-the-population-maxwell-square-neck-long-sleeve-gown/7961151?color=BLACK&size=large&country=US¤cy=USD&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=seo_shopping&utm_channel=low_nd_seo_shopping&srsltid=AfmBOoo5MHCjAv3X82P4b2uv9ZxFstbyS29uk5bB9PdXYljSELHQUKnRG7w

Morticia Addams vibes.

They're not bad, per se, they just are kinda plain. If I were trying to impress my current bf's frum parents, I would pick those. If I were trying to make my ex-husband miss me, I would pick one of the other ones.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM really has bad taste today.

If you like prints: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/dress_the_population/carlita_dress

If you want to go a little more plain: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/rosetta_getty_x_rtr/off_the_shoulder_ruched_bodice_dress

For a little more drama and structure: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/aidan_mattox/floral_jacquard_midi_dress

Pair with the highest heels you can handle plus a shrug or shawl for the church.

These are yucky. Really not good.

Agree, and at 5’10 I have no desire to wear five inch heels so I’m the tallest person in the room! I’m stately already.

OP is 5-6, pear shaped and wants to look good. Post your suggestions or gtfo.

Except she's not pear shaped, she's hourglass shaped. She said so in her OP.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, OP. I'm also in my 30s and think these would be pretty:

https://www.shopbop.com/margot-maxi-dress-runaway-label/vp/v=1/1505713389.htm

https://www.revolve.com/nbd-gal-gown-in-oxblood/dp/NBDR-WD3420

https://www.shopbop.com/halter-drape-bias-gown-norma/vp/v=1/1508286323.htm

https://www.revolve.com/norma-kamali-halter-fishtail-gown-in-black/dp/NKAM-WD677

https://www.revolve.com/nbd-amira-gown-in-black/dp/NBDR-WD3274

https://www.shopbop.com/sleeveless-low-back-drape-gown/vp/v=1/1558319414.htm

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-us/shop/product/rhea-costa/dresses/gowns/kira-belted-satin-gown/1647597345568786

https://www.revolve.com/alc-lara-gown-in-ivy/dp/ALX-WD592

Love these.

Agree, these are good for revenge dresses (if you like your arms).

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM really has bad taste today.

If you like prints: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/dress_the_population/carlita_dress

If you want to go a little more plain: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/rosetta_getty_x_rtr/off_the_shoulder_ruched_bodice_dress

For a little more drama and structure: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/aidan_mattox/floral_jacquard_midi_dress

Pair with the highest heels you can handle plus a shrug or shawl for the church.

These are yucky. Really not good.

Agree, and at 5’10 I have no desire to wear five inch heels so I’m the tallest person in the room! I’m stately already.

OP is 5-6, pear shaped and wants to look good. Post your suggestions or gtfo.

Anonymous wrote:https://www.nordstrom.com/s/long-evening-dress-with-wrap-style-neckline/8276136?origin=coordinating-8276136-0-2-PDP_1-recbot-vertex_ymal_v3&recs_placement=PDP_1&recs_strategy=vertex_ymal_v3&recs_source=recbot&recs_page_type=product&recs_seed=8152515&color=Black

OP wants to look attractive and stylish, not like she is covering up chronic psoriasis.

Anonymous wrote:https://www.nordstrom.com/s/dress-the-population-maxwell-square-neck-long-sleeve-gown/7961151?color=BLACK&size=large&country=US¤cy=USD&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=seo_shopping&utm_channel=low_nd_seo_shopping&srsltid=AfmBOoo5MHCjAv3X82P4b2uv9ZxFstbyS29uk5bB9PdXYljSELHQUKnRG7w

Morticia Addams vibes.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM really has bad taste today.

If you like prints: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/dress_the_population/carlita_dress

If you want to go a little more plain: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/rosetta_getty_x_rtr/off_the_shoulder_ruched_bodice_dress

For a little more drama and structure: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/aidan_mattox/floral_jacquard_midi_dress

Pair with the highest heels you can handle plus a shrug or shawl for the church.

These are hideous.

No they aren’t.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM really has bad taste today.

If you like prints: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/dress_the_population/carlita_dress

If you want to go a little more plain: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/rosetta_getty_x_rtr/off_the_shoulder_ruched_bodice_dress

For a little more drama and structure: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/aidan_mattox/floral_jacquard_midi_dress

Pair with the highest heels you can handle plus a shrug or shawl for the church.

These are yucky. Really not good.

Agree, and at 5’10 I have no desire to wear five inch heels so I’m the tallest person in the room! I’m stately already.

Anonymous wrote:DCUM really has bad taste today.

If you like prints: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/dress_the_population/carlita_dress

If you want to go a little more plain: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/rosetta_getty_x_rtr/off_the_shoulder_ruched_bodice_dress

For a little more drama and structure: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/aidan_mattox/floral_jacquard_midi_dress

Pair with the highest heels you can handle plus a shrug or shawl for the church.

These are hideous.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi, OP. I'm also in my 30s and think these would be pretty:

https://www.shopbop.com/margot-maxi-dress-runaway-label/vp/v=1/1505713389.htm

https://www.revolve.com/nbd-gal-gown-in-oxblood/dp/NBDR-WD3420

https://www.shopbop.com/halter-drape-bias-gown-norma/vp/v=1/1508286323.htm

https://www.revolve.com/norma-kamali-halter-fishtail-gown-in-black/dp/NKAM-WD677

https://www.revolve.com/nbd-amira-gown-in-black/dp/NBDR-WD3274

https://www.shopbop.com/sleeveless-low-back-drape-gown/vp/v=1/1558319414.htm

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-us/shop/product/rhea-costa/dresses/gowns/kira-belted-satin-gown/1647597345568786

https://www.revolve.com/alc-lara-gown-in-ivy/dp/ALX-WD592

Love these.

+1

I’m not a big fan of floor length for a trendy city wedding with dancing.