Anonymous wrote:Unless your kid's topic is something completely insane...like writing about her heroin habit (not kicking her habit, but how much she loves her active habit) or how she fantasizes shooting up college campuses...the topic really doesn't matter.

Anonymous wrote:Does she use the expression "tippity top" in her essay?

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Anonymous wrote:Tell us the topic.

OP here. I won't get specific, but she mentions a popular childhood book series she enjoyed. And she relates it back to her own life in a cheesy way. I can't think of a way to make it less cheesy, and I also don't think it relates to her life in a in a helpful or interesting way.

The actual writing/grammar is fine. The college counselor and teacher had her add more personal details, but I think the topic is just really cringey.

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Anonymous wrote:Step up and pay a professional for their opinion.

Don't be an a** to your kid about the topic. It is one thing to do it early on in the process but now it is too late.

Completely unnecessary and ridiculous. The point of the essay is to see how a kid can write, in their own voice. OP’s kid did that. If everything else in their package is “tippity top,” a cringey topic won’t make or break anything. And if it’s really that bad, then maybe the kid just isn’t that tippity top after all.

We are saying the same thing. Leave it alone unless you pay a professional and find out that it truly is a lousy essay. If you don't get a professional opinion, then you can't tell you kid that it is a bad essay when the kid has finished it and been to see his teacher and counselor and discussed it.

OP here. I AM paying a professional. She didn't give topic advice whatsoever. She just dove in and started editing what DD already had written.

So you paid somebody and it’s been reviewed by her teacher(s)? You’re done here. Step away.

OP here. Hoping you are right. The woman we hired used to be an AO for one of the schools DD is considering. Hopefully she would tell us if the topic seems canned/cheesy to her and not spare our feelings. Or maybe she knows that it doesn't actually matter that much. Anyway, I'm going to make some minor editing suggestions and otherwise leave it be. Thanks all.

Anonymous wrote:I’m imagining the essay is “I thought I was a Ravenclaw but in HS I learned I’m actually a Hufflepuff.” Which could actually be a good essay.

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Anonymous wrote:Colleges expect teens to write like teens. AOs are not looking for essays ghost written by parents in their forties and fifties.

Do yourself a favor and find some of those "50 successful Harvard admissions essays" type books or look up the best admissions essays included in various alumni magazines at top colleges. Read the essays and you'll be astonished. It is rare to read one that looks like the polished writing of a future Nobel Prize in literature winner. They are kids. They write like kids.

Haven't read those, but I've read a bunch of the NYT ones and the topics were surprisingly bad. One was about judging people based on their car bumper stickers!

DP. That’s sounds like it could be funny. Remember that humans have to read hundreds if not thousands of these. Entertain them.

It's quite political and disparaging.

I remember that one. I loved it.

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Anonymous wrote:Colleges expect teens to write like teens. AOs are not looking for essays ghost written by parents in their forties and fifties.

Do yourself a favor and find some of those "50 successful Harvard admissions essays" type books or look up the best admissions essays included in various alumni magazines at top colleges. Read the essays and you'll be astonished. It is rare to read one that looks like the polished writing of a future Nobel Prize in literature winner. They are kids. They write like kids.

Haven't read those, but I've read a bunch of the NYT ones and the topics were surprisingly bad. One was about judging people based on their car bumper stickers!

DP. That’s sounds like it could be funny. Remember that humans have to read hundreds if not thousands of these. Entertain them.

It's quite political and disparaging.

Anonymous wrote:She is going to be mad and cry.

But it's really really bad. Her grades/SATs/rigor are tippity top. Her essay is terrible and doesn't say that much about her.

Do we just rip the bandaid and tell her? Any tips on phrasing or what to say?

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Anonymous wrote:Tell us the topic.

OP here. I won't get specific, but she mentions a popular childhood book series she enjoyed. And she relates it back to her own life in a cheesy way. I can't think of a way to make it less cheesy, and I also don't think it relates to her life in a in a helpful or interesting way.

The actual writing/grammar is fine. The college counselor and teacher had her add more personal details, but I think the topic is just really cringey.

Okay, on this one I can help, my kid did a short answer essay that keyed off a favorite childhood book. His high school counselor said, "sweet, but trite," very common and they aren't looking to admit 4 year old you. She went on to list other topics/themes that have the same problems- 1) high school athletics interrupted by injury and 2) my grandma/grandpa is my hero (they also aren't looking to admit your grandpa). I wouldn't have thought of it that way but it made sense, they are trying to understand/compare 17 year old to see how they might grow and contribute in a field of other 17/18 YO's so topics highlight childhood or other people rather than current/future person are starting off at a big disadvantage. Sorry your school counselor didn't help you out on this one

My (non athleic) kid wrote about a fairly minor sports injury that changed their life. It was a great essay, funny, with a twist that tied into their future major.

They got into nearly every school they applied to, including several top 10 schools.

Interesting. Sports Injury is on the top of most lists about what NOT to write about, along with death of a loved one, making or not making a team, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:Colleges expect teens to write like teens. AOs are not looking for essays ghost written by parents in their forties and fifties.

Do yourself a favor and find some of those "50 successful Harvard admissions essays" type books or look up the best admissions essays included in various alumni magazines at top colleges. Read the essays and you'll be astonished. It is rare to read one that looks like the polished writing of a future Nobel Prize in literature winner. They are kids. They write like kids.

Haven't read those, but I've read a bunch of the NYT ones and the topics were surprisingly bad. One was about judging people based on their car bumper stickers!

DP. That’s sounds like it could be funny. Remember that humans have to read hundreds if not thousands of these. Entertain them.

It's quite political and disparaging.

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Anonymous wrote:Colleges expect teens to write like teens. AOs are not looking for essays ghost written by parents in their forties and fifties.

Do yourself a favor and find some of those "50 successful Harvard admissions essays" type books or look up the best admissions essays included in various alumni magazines at top colleges. Read the essays and you'll be astonished. It is rare to read one that looks like the polished writing of a future Nobel Prize in literature winner. They are kids. They write like kids.

Haven't read those, but I've read a bunch of the NYT ones and the topics were surprisingly bad. One was about judging people based on their car bumper stickers!

DP. That’s sounds like it could be funny. Remember that humans have to read hundreds if not thousands of these. Entertain them.

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Anonymous wrote:Step up and pay a professional for their opinion.

Don't be an a** to your kid about the topic. It is one thing to do it early on in the process but now it is too late.

Completely unnecessary and ridiculous. The point of the essay is to see how a kid can write, in their own voice. OP’s kid did that. If everything else in their package is “tippity top,” a cringey topic won’t make or break anything. And if it’s really that bad, then maybe the kid just isn’t that tippity top after all.

We are saying the same thing. Leave it alone unless you pay a professional and find out that it truly is a lousy essay. If you don't get a professional opinion, then you can't tell you kid that it is a bad essay when the kid has finished it and been to see his teacher and counselor and discussed it.

OP here. I AM paying a professional. She didn't give topic advice whatsoever. She just dove in and started editing what DD already had written.

So you paid somebody and it’s been reviewed by her teacher(s)? You’re done here. Step away.