Anonymous
08/27/2025 19:38
Subject: Re:Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
wrong. you and pp are incredibly rude.
Hard disagree. It is absolutely acceptable to include plus ones only for guests in long-term relationships. We are working with a very high- end wedding planner in DC right now who said this is not at all unusual. When you are hosting a wedding with limited space and/or that is “luxury” many of you will rethink this.
Anonymous
08/27/2025 18:42
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
OP how much is each bridesmaid spending to be a part of your wedding?
Anonymous
08/27/2025 08:20
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
Anonymous wrote:Original Poster here. Only those married or engaged got plus ones. She wanted to bring her tinderella.
Why didn’t you budget for plus ones for everyone in your bridal party? They are people too, not just your wedding accessories. After all the time and money they’ve committed to your nuptials, it’s very rude of you to deny them a plus one.
Anonymous
08/27/2025 08:19
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
Anonymous wrote:She's in your wedding party? The right thing to do would be to let her bring a +1.
+1. Hope she didn’t already pay for her dress. I hope this is a troll post
Anonymous
08/27/2025 08:17
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
Anonymous wrote:Yall are wild for thinking she’s a brideszilla, or being tacky. If a bridesmaid isn’t allowed a plus one then she’s not allowed a plus one. That simple. Karens of the world think the bridesmaid is “entitled” to a plus one on someone else’s day.
It’s surprising that people like you even have anyone in their lives who would agree to be their bridesmaid.
Anonymous
08/27/2025 07:48
Subject: Re:Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am going against the masses here to say that no one is entitled to a plus one, including a member of the wedding party. That’s definitely not a hard and fast rule - have the DCUM masses not heard of the common trope of bridesmaids/groomsmen hooking up at a wedding? That’s because they came without dates! As long as bride applies same rule to all people it’s absolutely fine. Weddings are not sorority date parties and guests should be people the bridal couple actually have met.
Yes this.
wrong. you and pp are incredibly rude.
Anonymous
08/26/2025 22:02
Subject: Re:Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
Anonymous wrote:I am going against the masses here to say that no one is entitled to a plus one, including a member of the wedding party. That’s definitely not a hard and fast rule - have the DCUM masses not heard of the common trope of bridesmaids/groomsmen hooking up at a wedding? That’s because they came without dates! As long as bride applies same rule to all people it’s absolutely fine. Weddings are not sorority date parties and guests should be people the bridal couple actually have met.
Yes this.
Anonymous
08/26/2025 21:44
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Anonymous wrote:You’re all a disaster.
😩
Anonymous
08/26/2025 21:23
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Anonymous wrote:OP sounds horrid.
Also, the wedding is not "your day." It's a communal event. If it were just your day, you would do it alone, just you, your betrothed, and the officiant. You include other people because you're making a public statement in front of your loved ones and they're acknowledging it, affirming it, and committing to support you in it. Your exclusionary behavior is quite troubling and bodes ill.
THIS! Your wedding is a day to celebrate you and your new spouse. As such, your preferences should be considered. But this ridiculous IT'S MY DAYYYY!!!! nonsense is complete garbage. If you want your day, your way, pp is 100% correct: do it alone.
You send out invitations because it's supposed to be inviting, and fun. Get a grip, OP.
Anonymous
08/26/2025 17:39
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
OP sounds horrid.
Also, the wedding is not "your day." It's a communal event. If it were just your day, you would do it alone, just you, your betrothed, and the officiant. You include other people because you're making a public statement in front of your loved ones and they're acknowledging it, affirming it, and committing to support you in it. Your exclusionary behavior is quite troubling and bodes ill.
Also, the wedding is not "your day." It's a communal event. If it were just your day, you would do it alone, just you, your betrothed, and the officiant. You include other people because you're making a public statement in front of your loved ones and they're acknowledging it, affirming it, and committing to support you in it. Your exclusionary behavior is quite troubling and bodes ill.
Anonymous
08/26/2025 17:38
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
Ridiculous, OP.
It's not fair to discriminate by marital or engaged status. One of my aunts, and a friend of my mother's, have been living with their boyfriends all their adult lives. They're part of a group of women who came to adulthood during the sexual revolution and did not think it important to be married. But their boyfriends are their life partners, and need to be respected as such.
It's not fair to discriminate by marital or engaged status. One of my aunts, and a friend of my mother's, have been living with their boyfriends all their adult lives. They're part of a group of women who came to adulthood during the sexual revolution and did not think it important to be married. But their boyfriends are their life partners, and need to be respected as such.
Anonymous
08/26/2025 17:34
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
The tone of the sock puppeteer is unhinged. OP did you go off your meds?
Anonymous
08/26/2025 16:28
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Anonymous wrote:I love that a missing bridesmaid would probably throw the whole wedding party off balance and ruin the pretty pretty princess photos. But there’s now way this is real because normal people don’t treat their friends like this.
But what about my pinterest-perfect pics?! How am I ever going to be a wedding influencer on the 'gram?!
-OP, probably
Anonymous
08/26/2025 16:28
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
Anonymous wrote:The sockpuppeted response wording is weird…I feel like we’re being trolled from a nursing home
It's pit bull troll. Same tone, same weird repetitions, same violently nasty, aggressive comments with no substance. They're also pro-drugs, but the relationship forum is where they troll hardest.
Anonymous
08/26/2025 16:26
Subject: Wedding Party Guest Goes Silent
Anonymous wrote:You Urban Moms are witches (with a b) for saying this person is a bridezilla. You have someone come on your big day and dictate how everything goes. It’s not your wedding, no one cares what you think.
OP, sockpuppeting means you know your point is shite. Just take your L (to the altar) and sod off.