Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would have a hard time supporting a friend who is so incredibly selfish.
Joke will be on her. The DH is wealthy and will have no problem attracting a much younger woman if he wants.
Anonymous wrote:Stay out of it. Not your business. She will do well financially. He won't be able to "make her life difficult." She has a reason to go to court. They have money. And he knows it. She will get 50/50 of martial assets.
The only thing I would tell her is this: do not count on meeting someone else. That is not a reason to divorce. If she would rather be single permanently vs. stay in a situation that makes her sad, then she should divorce. But have eyes wide open that "love" is not likely to be found. That ship has sailed.
Anonymous wrote:OP here - thank you all for the advice. Her DH is not at all abusive and I think she had some doubts going into the marriage but she didn’t trust herself to know what love was supposed to feel like. She loved her DH like a friend, but that was it, but she didn’t know better. And no affair, I don’t think she would cross that line, but I do feel like she’s felt connections when chatting with people which maybe opened up to her the idea that love should feel different than it does.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would have a hard time supporting a friend who is so incredibly selfish.
Some people have interesting friendships ( giving OP the side eye here). As a friend, I would tell her that it's the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Lol
Anonymous wrote:I would have a hard time supporting a friend who is so incredibly selfish.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would have a hard time supporting a friend who is so incredibly selfish.
Joke will be on her. The DH is wealthy and will have no problem attracting a much younger woman if he wants.
Anonymous wrote:I would have a hard time supporting a friend who is so incredibly selfish.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here . . .I think she had some doubts going into the marriage but she didn’t trust herself to know what love was supposed to feel like. She loved her DH like a friend, but that was it, but she didn’t know better.
She was immature when she got married and I suspect she's immature now. She doesn't know what she wants other than not to come second to the job. I get the last part, but why change now?
Maybe because she’s not dead yet and still wants to live some of her life the way SHE wants? Jfc there’s a lot of people telling a very unhappy person to stay with the person making them unhappy. I don’t get it. We get one life. If she’s sick of being treated like an indentured servant she should take her half and go live her life.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here . . .I think she had some doubts going into the marriage but she didn’t trust herself to know what love was supposed to feel like. She loved her DH like a friend, but that was it, but she didn’t know better.
She was immature when she got married and I suspect she's immature now. She doesn't know what she wants other than not to come second to the job. I get the last part, but why change now?
Maybe because she’s not dead yet and still wants to live some of her life the way SHE wants? Jfc there’s a lot of people telling a very unhappy person to stay with the person making them unhappy. I don’t get it. We get one life. If she’s sick of being treated like an indentured servant she should take her half and go live her life.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here . . .I think she had some doubts going into the marriage but she didn’t trust herself to know what love was supposed to feel like. She loved her DH like a friend, but that was it, but she didn’t know better.
She was immature when she got married and I suspect she's immature now. She doesn't know what she wants other than not to come second to the job. I get the last part, but why change now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here . . .I think she had some doubts going into the marriage but she didn’t trust herself to know what love was supposed to feel like. She loved her DH like a friend, but that was it, but she didn’t know better.
She was immature when she got married and I suspect she's immature now. She doesn't know what she wants other than not to come second to the job. I get the last part, but why change now?
Anonymous wrote:OP here . . .I think she had some doubts going into the marriage but she didn’t trust herself to know what love was supposed to feel like. She loved her DH like a friend, but that was it, but she didn’t know better.