Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:p.s. striking somebody in the testicles is not ok and the motive is irrelevant
No, but it’s not sexual assault and it’s not a crime with an 11 year old. Context is very important before you ruin an 11 year olds life. I haven’t read all the pages here maybe OP has shared more detail.
Anonymous wrote:p.s. striking somebody in the testicles is not ok and the motive is irrelevant
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:p.s. striking somebody in the testicles is not ok and the motive is irrelevant
No one said its OK. But it's a parental disciplinary issue, not a CPS issue. Isn't that obvious?
It is WILD to me how many people would rather call the police than have a potentially uncomfortable conversation about parenting.
OP, I have had occasion to talk to a few parents about their misbehaving kids. It's fine. It's what it means to have a village. Remember that? It takes a village? All that pining for the days of having community support, someone to watch your six? This is what that looks like in real life. It's not always roses and dropped-off casseroles. Sometimes it's saying "your kid is being a jerk, kindly fix that." It's also hearing that your kid is being a jerk, and then fixing it instead of lashing out at the messenger.
Seems like a lot of DCUMs have totally rejected this model, and prefer to have jackbooted thugs involved. Please don't be one of them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Call CPS or the police.
Oh FFS, boys grab each other's balls to squeeze them as a sign of dominance to overpower another all the time. It's shown quite often in movies and kids emulate that.
No reason to get police involved, just teach the kid how to protect and defend himself.
Hell no
I raised six boys none did this not one.
The boys will be boys is crap and wrong.
Did my boys fight yes physically yes touching genitalia no.
This is why Churches thrive ugh
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Call CPS or the police.
Oh FFS, boys grab each other's balls to squeeze them as a sign of dominance to overpower another all the time. It's shown quite often in movies and kids emulate that.
No reason to get police involved, just teach the kid how to protect and defend himself.
Hell no
I raised six boys none did this not one.
The boys will be boys is crap and wrong.
Did my boys fight yes physically yes touching genitalia no.
This is why Churches thrive ugh
Hah? What a bizarre thing to say.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Call CPS or the police.
Oh FFS, boys grab each other's balls to squeeze them as a sign of dominance to overpower another all the time. It's shown quite often in movies and kids emulate that.
No reason to get police involved, just teach the kid how to protect and defend himself.
Hell no
I raised six boys none did this not one.
The boys will be boys is crap and wrong.
Did my boys fight yes physically yes touching genitalia no.
This is why Churches thrive ugh
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Call CPS or the police.
Oh FFS, boys grab each other's balls to squeeze them as a sign of dominance to overpower another all the time. It's shown quite often in movies and kids emulate that.
No reason to get police involved, just teach the kid how to protect and defend himself.
Anonymous wrote:I know my child was assaulted. I want to confront the kid. Is that appropriate or do I confront the parents?