Anonymous wrote:The grass is rarely greener on the other side.

This.
And pendulum is always swing. Always.

Ride it out!

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Anonymous wrote:But my partner (my daughter’s father) won’t go or let her go with me. The country I want to move to is safer (no Trump as they hate him, no guns, etc). I’m so extremely depressed because the USA is at an all time low. I don’t want to raise my daughter here if I have another option. Any advice? A judge would deny this I’m sure. Anyone gone through a similar situation?

This is why the world is in the state that it is. People don’t like where their country is headed so they leave. Then they don’t want to assimilate in the new country. So naturally tensions develop between immigrants and the native population.

It is simple, if you perceive a problem, stay home and fix it.

All the scientists fleeing to other countries are likely to encounter considerable resentment from native graduates who expected to fill those research positions.

Academics are quite open-minded. Also, wouldn't that same situation occur here in the US since there's so many foreign PhDs here?

This. Research scientists do tend to be open-minded and don’t really think with boundaries. Almost every lab has people from everywhere.

Anonymous wrote:My Dad's a dual citizen and I have mixed feelings. There's some aspect that this is my country and I refuse to just give in. But I also do want to prioritize my kid's wellbeing. My sister is already leaving because of the research cuts have hurt her field too badly.

This is actually a legitimate reason to leave. Research has truly been gutted here and it is very sad.

Take partner with you. Cant imagine anybody wanting to stay here. Also travel often with your daughter. At some point she gets to decide.
Also let them off hook with child support. Sadly thats normally the issue.

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Anonymous wrote:For all this country’s flaws, there is nowhere else that offers the same opportunities and nowhere without equal or greater flaws. There’s a reason millions try to immigrate here.

Whatever are you in about? Plenty of countries offer the same or better opportunities. Denmark, Sweden and Finland all rank higher than the US in the Global Opportunity Index created by the Milken Institute. And I would venture their flaws pale compared to the structural issues plaguing this country.

Far fewer job opportunities for the ambitious, salaries are typically much lower. Very unwelcoming to non natives. Not to mention long, dark, depressing winters.

I love Denmark but I'm not kidding myself either. There are virtues to Denmark, if you are Danish, and there are virtues to the US. And especially if you're not a "native" American.

Like this country is welcoming to non-natives? Come on, now.

And half the country has long, hot, miserably humid summers.

Just stop. You sound stupid.

America, with its original sins of slavery and genocide, is not a great country.

The US is a country based on immigration. Even the original native Americans were immigrants themselves. And the diversity of the modern US cannot be matched by most peer nations. We have absorbed large numbers of non white immigrants with remarkable, dare shall I say it, ease. Of course it's not been without tensions but by and large migrants and people of recent immigrant heritages are far more absorbed into American society than they will ever be in Denmark or France or Germany or most other western countries.

I can tell you have an agenda so it's probably wise to end of the conversation here.

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Anonymous wrote:What country?

PS - Saying you want to move because of Trump makes one sound crazy. (FTR, I’m a very liberal Democrat.)

What Trump is doing to the country is insane. Who wants to live in the USA now if they don’t have to?

Um…people who recognize our country is still the best and intend to fight for our democracy instead of throwing in the towel?

I’ll never understand the mentality of those who think peacing out is an appropriate response to Trump’s nonsense.

Similarly, I’ll never understand why so many immigrants from elsewhere opt to abandon their homeland in droves rather than work to fix their country. Nothing will ever improve when the prevailing mentality is “Screw you! I’m outta here!”

This country was never the best.

Watch the Jeff Daniels monologue in the opening of “The Newsroom.”

No other country in the world runs around thumping its chest, declaring it is the best. The fact that we so automatically disqualifies us for candidacy for that label.

Um, I’m pretty sure a lot of countries do that. Or, their variation of it. I was lectured by my BIL who argued that Pakistan is filled with the most logical thinkers in the world. While I’m sure there are plenty of logical thinkers there, it’s a bit grandiose.

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Anonymous wrote:For all this country’s flaws, there is nowhere else that offers the same opportunities and nowhere without equal or greater flaws. There’s a reason millions try to immigrate here.

Whatever are you in about? Plenty of countries offer the same or better opportunities. Denmark, Sweden and Finland all rank higher than the US in the Global Opportunity Index created by the Milken Institute. And I would venture their flaws pale compared to the structural issues plaguing this country.

Far fewer job opportunities for the ambitious, salaries are typically much lower. Very unwelcoming to non natives. Not to mention long, dark, depressing winters.

I love Denmark but I'm not kidding myself either. There are virtues to Denmark, if you are Danish, and there are virtues to the US. And especially if you're not a "native" American.

Like this country is welcoming to non-natives? Come on, now.

And half the country has long, hot, miserably humid summers.

Just stop. You sound stupid.

America, with its original sins of slavery and genocide, is not a great country.

It's so bizarre when anyone posts as if the United States was unique in respect to slavery. Most countries participated in slavery at some point. Yes, even Denmark.

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Anonymous wrote:For all this country’s flaws, there is nowhere else that offers the same opportunities and nowhere without equal or greater flaws. There’s a reason millions try to immigrate here.

Whatever are you in about? Plenty of countries offer the same or better opportunities. Denmark, Sweden and Finland all rank higher than the US in the Global Opportunity Index created by the Milken Institute. And I would venture their flaws pale compared to the structural issues plaguing this country.

Far fewer job opportunities for the ambitious, salaries are typically much lower. Very unwelcoming to non natives. Not to mention long, dark, depressing winters.

I love Denmark but I'm not kidding myself either. There are virtues to Denmark, if you are Danish, and there are virtues to the US. And especially if you're not a "native" American.

Like this country is welcoming to non-natives? Come on, now.

And half the country has long, hot, miserably humid summers.

Just stop. You sound stupid.

America, with its original sins of slavery and genocide, is not a great country.

I just want to know what country doesn’t have any guns.

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Anonymous wrote:For all this country’s flaws, there is nowhere else that offers the same opportunities and nowhere without equal or greater flaws. There’s a reason millions try to immigrate here.

Whatever are you in about? Plenty of countries offer the same or better opportunities. Denmark, Sweden and Finland all rank higher than the US in the Global Opportunity Index created by the Milken Institute. And I would venture their flaws pale compared to the structural issues plaguing this country.

Far fewer job opportunities for the ambitious, salaries are typically much lower. Very unwelcoming to non natives. Not to mention long, dark, depressing winters.

I love Denmark but I'm not kidding myself either. There are virtues to Denmark, if you are Danish, and there are virtues to the US. And especially if you're not a "native" American.

Anonymous wrote:For all this country’s flaws, there is nowhere else that offers the same opportunities and nowhere without equal or greater flaws. There’s a reason millions try to immigrate here.

Whatever are you in about? Plenty of countries offer the same or better opportunities. Denmark, Sweden and Finland all rank higher than the US in the Global Opportunity Index created by the Milken Institute. And I would venture their flaws pale compared to the structural issues plaguing this country.

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Anonymous wrote:What country?

PS - Saying you want to move because of Trump makes one sound crazy. (FTR, I’m a very liberal Democrat.)

What Trump is doing to the country is insane. Who wants to live in the USA now if they don’t have to?

Um…people who recognize our country is still the best and intend to fight for our democracy instead of throwing in the towel?

I’ll never understand the mentality of those who think peacing out is an appropriate response to Trump’s nonsense.

Similarly, I’ll never understand why so many immigrants from elsewhere opt to abandon their homeland in droves rather than work to fix their country. Nothing will ever improve when the prevailing mentality is “Screw you! I’m outta here!”

This country was never the best.

Watch the Jeff Daniels monologue in the opening of “The Newsroom.”

No other country in the world runs around thumping its chest, declaring it is the best. The fact that we so automatically disqualifies us for candidacy for that label.

Anonymous wrote:What country?

PS - Saying you want to move because of Trump makes one sound crazy. (FTR, I’m a very liberal Democrat.)

No you’re not

OP did you post this same scenario on Mumsnet recently by any chance?

You need to speak to an attorney specializing in international custody. As people said above just leaving with your kid could cause issues. There are international treaties that regulate international custody issues, you will not just be able to move your kid without triggering them.