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Anonymous wrote:OP, have you considered Duck, NC? It is 4.5 hr drive if you time it right, which if you owned a place (so aren’t subject to the Sat-Sat rental hours), you could do. I think the beaches are so much nicer and quieter there than DE. Also, town of Duck is small but cute. Before the haters come in, it is definitely a quieter scene than DE, no boardwalk, mini golf, less restaurants. But the beaches are quiet and nice, the area is great for biking, the sound is fun for paddle boarding, kayaking, etc., and there are a handful decent to good restaurants, plenty of options for ice cream, coffee, etc.

If you’re going to drive that far you might as well just get a place in the Hamptons. Hamptons beaches are nicer than the Outer Banks and you can do day trips to NYC on the LIRR.

Anonymous wrote:OP, have you considered Duck, NC? It is 4.5 hr drive if you time it right, which if you owned a place (so aren’t subject to the Sat-Sat rental hours), you could do. I think the beaches are so much nicer and quieter there than DE. Also, town of Duck is small but cute. Before the haters come in, it is definitely a quieter scene than DE, no boardwalk, mini golf, less restaurants. But the beaches are quiet and nice, the area is great for biking, the sound is fun for paddle boarding, kayaking, etc., and there are a handful decent to good restaurants, plenty of options for ice cream, coffee, etc.

Anonymous wrote:OP, have you considered Duck, NC? It is 4.5 hr drive if you time it right, which if you owned a place (so aren’t subject to the Sat-Sat rental hours), you could do. I think the beaches are so much nicer and quieter there than DE. Also, town of Duck is small but cute. Before the haters come in, it is definitely a quieter scene than DE, no boardwalk, mini golf, less restaurants. But the beaches are quiet and nice, the area is great for biking, the sound is fun for paddle boarding, kayaking, etc., and there are a handful decent to good restaurants, plenty of options for ice cream, coffee, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:Bethany already has a flooding problem downtown. Also the beach is very narrow and easily gets washed away with storms.It’s very boring town, but that might be what you want.

All of this, but the Catholics of MD love it because they have a tons of friends who have houses there. I wouldn't do it if you are not in this crowd.

Bethany Beach is full of giant SUVs with DC-area private school stickers. Obnoxious.

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Anonymous wrote:Bethany already has a flooding problem downtown. Also the beach is very narrow and easily gets washed away with storms.It’s very boring town, but that might be what you want.

All of this, but the Catholics of MD love it because they have a tons of friends who have houses there. I wouldn't do it if you are not in this crowd.

Anonymous wrote:Bethany already has a flooding problem downtown. Also the beach is very narrow and easily gets washed away with storms.It’s very boring town, but that might be what you want.

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Anonymous wrote:OP did you look at the north end of Ocean City? It’s a lot quieter than midtown or down by the boardwalk. There are some quiet neighborhoods on the bay that are still walking distance to the beach. We can’t hear the highway at all from our place. We drive north to DE to eat and shop a lot more often than we drive south. But occasionally we go down by the inlet where there are a couple of good restaurants.

I wouldn’t call Bethany quiet and not crowded, at least not on summer weekends. The downtown area is packed. But it is family friendly. There are a million teens everywhere because parents feel it is safe for them to walk around, which is nice for them.

Ocean city?! No way. Bethany over OC any day of the week. You can't even compare the two. OC is pretty trashy.

You must be thinking of lower O.C. near the boardwalk with all the motels, condos, amusements.

No sweetie, north ocean city bayside with the big homes on the water, where you can hear a pin drop at night, is quite nice. I imagine Bethany is incredibly boring. I can picture the Bethany diner, Sea Colony condo . . what do people do there for fun?

Yes someone who gets it! Maybe we are beach neighbors. They don't know what they are missing. Sea Colony is hell on earth.

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Anonymous wrote:Bethany already has a flooding problem downtown. Also the beach is very narrow and easily gets washed away with storms.It’s very boring town, but that might be what you want.

Yes there is some small flooding up to about a black from the beach with very heavy rainfalls but that’s single digit days and usually not in the summer. Overwhelming majority of the houses on beach or within 3 blocks of beach not affected at all.

Beach by the bandstand can be narrow with high tide but it’s wide few blocks away and all along north and south bethany.

I would argue the flooding in OC by the bay close by the inlet is a bigger problem. It’s a lot more water and higher.

Anonymous wrote:Bethany already has a flooding problem downtown. Also the beach is very narrow and easily gets washed away with storms.It’s very boring town, but that might be what you want.

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Anonymous wrote:Deep Creek Lake has beaches

Bumping this because there's nice beach, and you can ski in the winter. Year round fun!

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Anonymous wrote:Bethany Beach. Fenwick.
Am writing in from Bethany this minute.
Very nice. Definitely far different experience from Ocean City.

99% of all properties in Bethany will flood in the next 30 years. firststreet.org. I'm sure you can look up any coastal area and find similar.

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Anonymous wrote:Also might want to look on the bay side - like Long Neck DE.

Yikes, no. Lots of trailors.

Solomon's Island is nice and it's on the western shore.

If you have loads of money, there is Gibson Island near Annapolis.

I love Gibson Island - very private, a bit remote and New England-y imo.