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Hey village we found your idiot

None of what you said describes a "fair coach" other than the "doesn't constantly play favorites". The other things you mentioned describes competency more so than impartiality.

Even the things about favoritism have me doubting. Nothing personal against you, since I don't even know you, but I've experienced far too many times where parents think coaches are playing favoritism. Do you actually know of any coach who does not want to win? Coaches will pick players who they think will help a team win. If your child isn't given enough playing time, there is a far greater chance that coach thinks other players are better and very remote chance it is because the coach "favors" other players for any other reason. [/quote]Ok, coach! Only an absolute idiot doesn't recognize that everyone has their own definition of fair.

Red flag for 2012s

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our DC has rostered 17 players and the team will still playing 9v9, it’s going to be an interesting season ahead!

My daughter is on a 9v9 team with 16 players; I have heard no complaints among the parents about playing time.

Are you sure? Maybe they just didn’t want to talk to you.

[quote=Anonymous]One who doesn't constantly play favorites and actually changes the lineup around when some kids have bad games. One who gets the back part of the roster a lot of playing time in those games that are blowouts. One who is smart enough to adjust the lineup to the opponents strengths of speed or size and doesn't just blindly double down on their first impressions of players in Sept. And most importantly, one who doesn't sideline the same 2-3 players, basically cutting them from the team, because as a coach they can't handle a large roster properly. Essentially, a crap coach uses demotivation more than motivation as a tool. This is why getting a good coach is everything.[/quote]

None of what you said describes a "fair coach" other than the "doesn't constantly play favorites". The other things you mentioned describes competency more so than impartiality.

Even the things about favoritism have me doubting. Nothing personal against you, since I don't even know you, but I've experienced far too many times where parents think coaches are playing favoritism. Do you actually know of any coach who does not want to win? Coaches will pick players who they think will help a team win. If your child isn't given enough playing time, there is a far greater chance that coach thinks other players are better and very remote chance it is because the coach "favors" other players for any other reason.

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can I ask what team this is? We just accepted a spot and there were rumors the roster was going to increase. My son got multiple offers and we will just move him to another team if some kids aren't going to play and there is that much competition. Playing only part of the game is different than only some kids dressing for it.[/quote]
Hahaha such BS.

Your ego won't let him play on any other team than the one that wins. If this wasn't true you'd just have him play on the B team.[/quote]

I don't know what you mean. It's the same club and team from last year. The roster size was good last year, so I really don't want him on a team where this year kids are fighting for spots. There are another five clubs with similar level kids within 10 miles of our house.[/quote]Yeah, avoid over rostered clubs. Happened to my kid last year, it's a caste system of garbage and you are relying of having a fair coach. Consider it the last year of club soccer for a few players. Saw it happen already.[/quote]

What is a "fair coach"? One who gives equal playing time to all players regardless of skill (or even perceived skill)?[/quote]One who doesn't constantly play favorites and actually changes the lineup around when some kids have bad games. One who gets the back part of the roster a lot of playing time in those games that are blowouts. One who is smart enough to adjust the lineup to the opponents strengths of speed or size and doesn't just blindly double down on their first impressions of players in Sept. And most importantly, one who doesn't sideline the same 2-3 players, basically cutting them from the team, because as a coach they can't handle a large roster properly. Essentially, a crap coach uses demotivation more than motivation as a tool. This is why getting a good coach is everything.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I ask what team this is? We just accepted a spot and there were rumors the roster was going to increase. My son got multiple offers and we will just move him to another team if some kids aren't going to play and there is that much competition. Playing only part of the game is different than only some kids dressing for it.

Hahaha such BS.

Your ego won't let him play on any other team than the one that wins. If this wasn't true you'd just have him play on the B team.

I don't know what you mean. It's the same club and team from last year. The roster size was good last year, so I really don't want him on a team where this year kids are fighting for spots. There are another five clubs with similar level kids within 10 miles of our house.

Yeah, avoid over rostered clubs. Happened to my kid last year, it's a caste system of garbage and you are relying of having a fair coach. Consider it the last year of club soccer for a few players. Saw it happen already.

What is a "fair coach"? One who gives equal playing time to all players regardless of skill (or even perceived skill)?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I ask what team this is? We just accepted a spot and there were rumors the roster was going to increase. My son got multiple offers and we will just move him to another team if some kids aren't going to play and there is that much competition. Playing only part of the game is different than only some kids dressing for it.

Hahaha such BS.

Your ego won't let him play on any other team than the one that wins. If this wasn't true you'd just have him play on the B team.

Sounds like a dumb comment from a dumb coach or club admin trying to justifying ripping people off.

Nobody is ripping anyone off. Parents are lined up to get their kid on a top team that wins. This is why over rostering occurs.

You just dont like what it takes to play in this type of environment. Guess what? It doesn't matter because other parents want this type of environment and flock to it.

So much parent ego. I was surprised to see parents basically sacrifice their DC development to sit on the bench on a “top team” just so they can tell people they are on a first team. So sad.

Exactly correct.

My oldest was a superstar soccer player at age 3. It was obvious she had a talent. Because of this we bought into all the nonsense clubs shoveled mostly because we didn't know any better. We thought playing on the top team was what she needed to correctly develop her natural talents. After 10+ years I can confidently say none of it mattered. Talent finds its way to the top team no matter what. What did matter was playing on boys teams and futsal when girls are young.

Now I'm doing it all again with a 2016 and we're having our kid play on the B team of a small local club. So much better not dealing with all superclub drama. If this one has talent she'll need to fight to show it to everyone. We shall see...

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I ask what team this is? We just accepted a spot and there were rumors the roster was going to increase. My son got multiple offers and we will just move him to another team if some kids aren't going to play and there is that much competition. Playing only part of the game is different than only some kids dressing for it.

Hahaha such BS.

Your ego won't let him play on any other team than the one that wins. If this wasn't true you'd just have him play on the B team.

Sounds like a dumb comment from a dumb coach or club admin trying to justifying ripping people off.

Nobody is ripping anyone off. Parents are lined up to get their kid on a top team that wins. This is why over rostering occurs.

You just dont like what it takes to play in this type of environment. Guess what? It doesn't matter because other parents want this type of environment and flock to it.

So much parent ego. I was surprised to see parents basically sacrifice their DC development to sit on the bench on a “top team” just so they can tell people they are on a first team. So sad.

Anonymous wrote:Our DC has rostered 17 players and the team will still playing 9v9, it’s going to be an interesting season ahead!

My daughter is on a 9v9 team with 16 players; I have heard no complaints among the parents about playing time.

My 2012 DD has 16 kids on her team roster. They’re in EDP if that matters. I’m still new to all this and relatively clueless

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I ask what team this is? We just accepted a spot and there were rumors the roster was going to increase. My son got multiple offers and we will just move him to another team if some kids aren't going to play and there is that much competition. Playing only part of the game is different than only some kids dressing for it.

Hahaha such BS.

Your ego won't let him play on any other team than the one that wins. If this wasn't true you'd just have him play on the B team.

I don't know what you mean. It's the same club and team from last year. The roster size was good last year, so I really don't want him on a team where this year kids are fighting for spots. There are another five clubs with similar level kids within 10 miles of our house.

Sounds like you have options.

Problem with not as competitive teams is they tend to have a difficult time rostering players. So its the opposite issue than over rostering.

There's pluses and minuses to everything.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I ask what team this is? We just accepted a spot and there were rumors the roster was going to increase. My son got multiple offers and we will just move him to another team if some kids aren't going to play and there is that much competition. Playing only part of the game is different than only some kids dressing for it.

Hahaha such BS.

Your ego won't let him play on any other team than the one that wins. If this wasn't true you'd just have him play on the B team.

I don't know what you mean. It's the same club and team from last year. The roster size was good last year, so I really don't want him on a team where this year kids are fighting for spots. There are another five clubs with similar level kids within 10 miles of our house.

Yeah, avoid over rostered clubs. Happened to my kid last year, it's a caste system of garbage and you are relying of having a fair coach. Consider it the last year of club soccer for a few players. Saw it happen already.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I ask what team this is? We just accepted a spot and there were rumors the roster was going to increase. My son got multiple offers and we will just move him to another team if some kids aren't going to play and there is that much competition. Playing only part of the game is different than only some kids dressing for it.

Hahaha such BS.

Your ego won't let him play on any other team than the one that wins. If this wasn't true you'd just have him play on the B team.

I don't know what you mean. It's the same club and team from last year. The roster size was good last year, so I really don't want him on a team where this year kids are fighting for spots. There are another five clubs with similar level kids within 10 miles of our house.