Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 14:36     Subject: family member implied im fat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stop fishing for compliments and it wouldn’t be an issue.

Are you fat?


I am fat. Don’t really know what I’m looking for with this. Just wanted to vent.

Because I’m so sick of myself not being able to say no to candy and cookies and cake. And white bread. I’m just so done with feeling this way and being weak


I’m the same way with coffee/caffeine. I have high blood pressure and even take a med for it. When I don’t drink coffee I don’t even need to take a med.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 12:41     Subject: family member implied im fat
Anonymous wrote:
a family member was talking and I joked that I myself am fat. When they didn’t say no you’re not, I asked why they’re not denying it.
He just said ”If you don’t like that about yourself, do something about it”


I think you should take his advice!
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 12:35     Subject: family member implied im fat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have a fat friend, who I like very much. If she were to make a comment about being fat, I would sound idiotic saying "you're not fat!" She's fat. So what?


So what would you say?


Nothing. What would you say if I said “I have brown hair?”
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 12:18     Subject: family member implied im fat
So a relative agreed with your self assessment? That would be the prudent thing to do.