Even if you began this as a normal person, the lying and hiding is going to make you feel sick eventually and will corrode your soul.

Also eventually his wife will find out, and then you might be in danger, and he will drop you very quickly.

I think those are the hesitations you are feeling that led you to post.

Anonymous wrote:You are not dating them - they are cheating on their spouse with you. Big difference.

Ha. Exactly