Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a 15 year old boy I can tell you that most of the time they are just being extremely dumb, and it's probably nothing to do with your daughter but rather his effort to get her attention.

Dad of 15yo and I would have a very blunt talk with my son if he ever did that to any woman.

Anonymous wrote:He was bullying your daughter. Implying she was ugly.

If they go to the same school I would have reported as bullying/harassment.

That term, “bullying” is so loaded, and quite frankly, dangerous. Especially in the context of school officials.

Are you aware of the myriad studies demonstrating a disparate racial impact on BIPOC students when schools place labels or allow others to make accusations of bullying, which are so often unfounded?

Yet you just tossed it out there, nonchalantly.

You should think long and hard on what sort of things you type and publicize, PP. you do not even know the youth in question here.

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny to me that you're having Big Feelings about this. I got called a dog all the time as a kid. Once when my older brother was delivering newspapers, a kid in my grade who he delivered to gave him a dog biscuit for me. My brother somewhat sheepishly brought it home and told me and my mother. She just shrugged and told him to offer it to our dog. Nobody ever said another word about it.

That's sad

Yeah, being ugly sucks.

That none of your family stood up for you. There were multiple places in your story where they could have made things easier for you. I assume they must have been ugly too. Surely they would have known how you felt.

There is a lesson here alright

I love that you assumed my brother and mother were both ugly, lol!

DP
Well, genetics are a thing, so the assumption isn't too far fetched.

He’s shaky she’s ugly. A dog.

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Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a 15 year old boy I can tell you that most of the time they are just being extremely dumb, and it's probably nothing to do with your daughter but rather his effort to get her attention.

Um, my 15 year old son would never act like this. Parenting; its a thing.

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He was bullying your daughter. Implying she was ugly.

If they go to the same school I would have reported as bullying/harassment.

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I went through a stage in middle school where I weighed the exact same as my full height. I hadn't grown yet.

Yes, boys were awful. Girls were terrible. My self-esteem sucked. But what was weird was the summer before 9th grade, I grew 7 inches, lost braces, and learned the hang of contacts.

What was shocking to me -- and sometimes even now -- is how much the world is NICER to "attractive" people. I was absolutely the same person but all of a sudden people were falling over themselves at me. It was jarring.

I turned into a very quiet, shy teenager. So, I was now a stuck up b---tch because I didn't speak to people.

Oddly, going to a women's college was my respite. I grew and was able to exist beyond being judged for how much a guy wanted me.

This is so true! My daughter is beautiful and shy, so people assume she's a B-. I got the same when I was young. Pretty people aren't allowed to be shy.

Honestly, I went through a stage in middle school where I weighed the exact same as my full height. I hadn't grown yet.

Yes, boys were awful. Girls were terrible. My self-esteem sucked. But what was weird was the summer before 9th grade, I grew 7 inches, lost braces, and learned the hang of contacts.

What was shocking to me -- and sometimes even now -- is how much the world is NICER to "attractive" people. I was absolutely the same person but all of a sudden people were falling over themselves at me. It was jarring.

I turned into a very quiet, shy teenager. So, I was now a stuck up b---tch because I didn't speak to people.

Oddly, going to a women's college was my respite. I grew and was able to exist beyond being judged for how much a guy wanted me.

Anonymous wrote:It seems obvious, he was insulting her. What a POS.

You know nothing about teen boys.

It seems obvious, he was insulting her. What a POS.

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny to me that you're having Big Feelings about this. I got called a dog all the time as a kid. Once when my older brother was delivering newspapers, a kid in my grade who he delivered to gave him a dog biscuit for me. My brother somewhat sheepishly brought it home and told me and my mother. She just shrugged and told him to offer it to our dog. Nobody ever said another word about it.

That's sad

Yeah, being ugly sucks.

That none of your family stood up for you. There were multiple places in your story where they could have made things easier for you. I assume they must have been ugly too. Surely they would have known how you felt.

There is a lesson here alright

I love that you assumed my brother and mother were both ugly, lol!

I naturally assumed that you all were ugly in one way or the other, dysfunction is, you know

DP, but wow. How mean.

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny to me that you're having Big Feelings about this. I got called a dog all the time as a kid. Once when my older brother was delivering newspapers, a kid in my grade who he delivered to gave him a dog biscuit for me. My brother somewhat sheepishly brought it home and told me and my mother. She just shrugged and told him to offer it to our dog. Nobody ever said another word about it.

That's sad

Yeah, being ugly sucks.

That none of your family stood up for you. There were multiple places in your story where they could have made things easier for you. I assume they must have been ugly too. Surely they would have known how you felt.

There is a lesson here alright

I love that you assumed my brother and mother were both ugly, lol!

I naturally assumed that you all were ugly in one way or the other, dysfunction is, you know

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny to me that you're having Big Feelings about this. I got called a dog all the time as a kid. Once when my older brother was delivering newspapers, a kid in my grade who he delivered to gave him a dog biscuit for me. My brother somewhat sheepishly brought it home and told me and my mother. She just shrugged and told him to offer it to our dog. Nobody ever said another word about it.

That's sad

Yeah, being ugly sucks.

That none of your family stood up for you. There were multiple places in your story where they could have made things easier for you. I assume they must have been ugly too. Surely they would have known how you felt.

There is a lesson here alright

I love that you assumed my brother and mother were both ugly, lol!

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny to me that you're having Big Feelings about this. I got called a dog all the time as a kid. Once when my older brother was delivering newspapers, a kid in my grade who he delivered to gave him a dog biscuit for me. My brother somewhat sheepishly brought it home and told me and my mother. She just shrugged and told him to offer it to our dog. Nobody ever said another word about it.

That's sad

Yeah, being ugly sucks.

That none of your family stood up for you. There were multiple places in your story where they could have made things easier for you. I assume they must have been ugly too. Surely they would have known how you felt.

There is a lesson here alright

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Anonymous wrote:It's funny to me that you're having Big Feelings about this. I got called a dog all the time as a kid. Once when my older brother was delivering newspapers, a kid in my grade who he delivered to gave him a dog biscuit for me. My brother somewhat sheepishly brought it home and told me and my mother. She just shrugged and told him to offer it to our dog. Nobody ever said another word about it.

That's sad

Yeah, being ugly sucks.