Anonymous wrote:I think people who "stay married for the kids" are incredibly selfish. They are delusional to think it's not harmful to force their kids to be raised in a bad marriage and then divorce once the youngest is out of the house.

Anonymous wrote:Here's what I judge -- and I know SO MANY of these including my very best friend:
The couple gets married in the courthouse for the health insurance and keep it quiet. Move in together and save up for four or five years for the $100000 gala wedding she's dreaming of. Then expect plenty of cash gifts "to help us start our life together."
You're already married, you've been married for years, and you would have a nice start if you hadn't spent so much on this wedding. We could have had an inexpensive party after your courthouse ceremony FIVE YEARS AGO that would have been just as fun.