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Anonymous wrote:Here ya go

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/558762/honey-they-always-affair-down/

Women are women's worst enemies. What a horribly petty mean girl way to make the other woman responsible for your philandering excuse for a man while insulting her in the process. Absolutely pathetic.

You call the betrayed spouse a "petty mean girl", but not the woman who willingly slept with a married man? A woman who does that is exactly as described, and women who turn down married men are also exactly as described.

There is no excuse for a married man (or person) to go outside their marriage, but it takes two to cheat, and that does not absolve the other party from their portion.

Okay, but you have to let your anger toward the other woman go. She is not your problem; you have a husband problem.

I have neither, just an interested poster who clicked and read the link. Anger can be helpful, but I agree it should be towards the wayward spouse, not the AP. Reframing the anger as per the link could be helpful to some.

DP, calling him “wayward” is pathetic and not putting nearly enough blame on his active choice to break his marriage vows.

Wayward/betrayed are the terms used on that website, and commonly used for infidelity.

Victimese. They're classic victimese.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a very beautiful friend and her one-time boyfriend cheated on her. I am fully convinced that he felt very inferior to her (he was), and that was his way of elevating himself and putting her down, take her off the pedestal. Probably it was subconscious but to me it was obvious.

You are nuts!

No, that’s exactly why he cheated on her - he had an inferiority complex and thought that was the way to feed his ego. It didn’t help and they eventually broke up.

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Anonymous wrote:Here ya go

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/558762/honey-they-always-affair-down/

Women are women's worst enemies. What a horribly petty mean girl way to make the other woman responsible for your philandering excuse for a man while insulting her in the process. Absolutely pathetic.

You call the betrayed spouse a "petty mean girl", but not the woman who willingly slept with a married man? A woman who does that is exactly as described, and women who turn down married men are also exactly as described.

There is no excuse for a married man (or person) to go outside their marriage, but it takes two to cheat, and that does not absolve the other party from their portion.

Okay, but you have to let your anger toward the other woman go. She is not your problem; you have a husband problem.

I have neither, just an interested poster who clicked and read the link. Anger can be helpful, but I agree it should be towards the wayward spouse, not the AP. Reframing the anger as per the link could be helpful to some.

DP, calling him “wayward” is pathetic and not putting nearly enough blame on his active choice to break his marriage vows.

Wayward/betrayed are the terms used on that website, and commonly used for infidelity.

Anonymous wrote:I have a very beautiful friend and her one-time boyfriend cheated on her. I am fully convinced that he felt very inferior to her (he was), and that was his way of elevating himself and putting her down, take her off the pedestal. Probably it was subconscious but to me it was obvious.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a very beautiful friend and her one-time boyfriend cheated on her. I am fully convinced that he felt very inferior to her (he was), and that was his way of elevating himself and putting her down, take her off the pedestal. Probably it was subconscious but to me it was obvious.

You are nuts!

Anonymous wrote:I have a very beautiful friend and her one-time boyfriend cheated on her. I am fully convinced that he felt very inferior to her (he was), and that was his way of elevating himself and putting her down, take her off the pedestal. Probably it was subconscious but to me it was obvious.

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Anonymous wrote:Ask Donald Trump.

Buying a one night stand with a prostitute is not the same thing as having an affair.

Men have affairs when they want someone to feed their ego. They hire prostitutes for sex.

Anonymous wrote:Ask Donald Trump.

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Anonymous wrote:A man decides beauty is skin deep and someone who actually pays attention to him is a better match.

Seems wise to me.

Ha. Better match? They are pumping and dumping the uggos—not marrying them. And a person willing to bang a married man with kids is ugly on the inside too (double so if she’s also married).

Anonymous wrote:A man decides beauty is skin deep and someone who actually pays attention to him is a better match.

Seems wise to me.

my mistress is much hotter and younger than my wife. my wife gained 50 plus pounds and stopped caring about her looks for the past 15 years. not all of us go down when we have an affair

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Anonymous wrote:Men are just hardwired to seek novelty and variety. Cultural and personal factors will determine how disciplined they are about impulses.

When I was in the military I had buddies who were basically pro sports level attractive, tall, and charismatic. They had the hottest girlfriends and sometimes even a wife, but they would risk it all by hooking up with an ugly chick or a hood rat because they love the thrill of new conquests.

Good example is Arnold, he married a Kennedy and had kids/house/everything but still banged out his latina maid and had a kid with her.

What is it called when a woman does the same thing though??

I don't know if there is a female equivalent. Some are nymphos but that's rare and not quite the same.

Women are usually very selective in sex, even on a promiscuous streak.

Here in DCUM land, the equivalent of a man cheating on his beautiful wife is a woman cheating on her rich husband.

Ahh ok good equivalent.

So really it’s the same thing. The person feels they miss out on something. For men it’s being treated God like and women emotional connection. Simple.