Anonymous wrote:https://people.com/why-jennifer-lopez-finally-filed-for-divorce-from-ben-affleck-source-exclusive-8699000

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She's very disappointed and sad, but Ben hasn't given her any signs that he wants to continue their marriage," says the insider.

"She tried really hard to make things work and is heartbroken," adds the source. "The kids are a top priority, as they always have been.”

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Anonymous wrote:I think parading around buying Chanel bags for Violet during their Hamptons summer was a last resort to salvage or try to win Ben back.

I feel for her because the public embarrassment from this divorce in particular must sting. She put so much emphasis on Ben being her first and only true love

No, I don't think there is any embarrassment. They are both mature and experienced enough to decide things for themselves, and not worry too much about what people think.

Only an emotionally abnormal person would not feel embarrassment over multiple relationships, 2 broken engagements, and 4 marriages by age 55.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh well. In 50 years, people who remember this will think of it as a typical star-crossed lovers story. In 100 years, no one will remember.

Except she’s a criminal

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Anonymous wrote:I think parading around buying Chanel bags for Violet during their Hamptons summer was a last resort to salvage or try to win Ben back.

I feel for her because the public embarrassment from this divorce in particular must sting. She put so much emphasis on Ben being her first and only true love

No, I don't think there is any embarrassment. They are both mature and experienced enough to decide things for themselves, and not worry too much about what people think.

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Anonymous wrote:She should have stuck with ARod. That was her most mature relationship.

She should have stuck with a cheater? Please. But she does need to give up the stupid power couple fixation. She's tried three times and in all three cases the men were not loyal/reliable. Because it is unbelievable hard to find a mature, loyal guy in that world. But also no back-up dancers. A successful professional in a different field who can live with her need for constant adulation.

She’s a gun toting abuser. Ask anyone in her and Puffs entourage

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Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling Ben was the one who ended this relationship. No way JLo would leave the man she's been nuts about for 20 years. He let her file to not humiliate her any further.

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Anonymous wrote:She should have stuck with ARod. That was her most mature relationship.

She should have stuck with a cheater? Please. But she does need to give up the stupid power couple fixation. She's tried three times and in all three cases the men were not loyal/reliable. Because it is unbelievable hard to find a mature, loyal guy in that world. But also no back-up dancers. A successful professional in a different field who can live with her need for constant adulation.

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling Ben was the one who ended this relationship. No way JLo would leave the man she's been nuts about for 20 years. He let her file to not humiliate her any further.

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Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Right? He love bombed her, grew bored and even pettier than usual, and slid out the side door of their marriage.

She is 100% better off. Hopefully she figures that out sooner than later.

She’ll land on her feet. He’ll always be a sick, miserable man.

Anonymous wrote:She should have stuck with ARod. That was her most mature relationship.

Anonymous wrote:Oh well. In 50 years, people who remember this will think of it as a typical star-crossed lovers story. In 100 years, no one will remember.

Anonymous wrote:Glad it's moving forward. I don't think the prenup matters. She's the far higher earner, and I don't think he'll go after any of her money.

Anonymous wrote:They were in love with the ideas of each other, not true love.

Anonymous wrote:DCUM sleuths were right. No prenup and date of separation listed as April 26, 2024.

https://amp.tmz.com/2024/08/20/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-file-divorce/

Jennifer Lopez has done what seemed inevitable -- she's filed for divorce from Ben Affleck ... TMZ has learned, but there are major twists, including the symbolism of when she finally decided to do it.

J Lo filed legal docs Tuesday in L.A. County Superior Court, but they were not filed by a lawyer. Jennifer filed pro per, meaning by herself and without an attorney.

She lists the date of separation as April 26, 2024.

Anonymous wrote:They’re both very dysfunctional people and yet I rooted for them. I wanted a happy ending for them and more stability for their kids. I rooted for them even though I’ve been married for 26 yrs and know what it takes…