Anonymous
08/11/2024 21:26
Subject: FIL wants to be buried in the homeland
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do not make this your problem OP. Let your DH figure it out on his own when the time comes. He will realize it’s cost prohibitive or not. Don’t get involved.
Nothing is too cost prohibitive for an avoidant immigrant son or family who never discusses things! Now or in the future. Many such sons view this as being told what to do, yet have no clue how to do it.
Watch your dutiful son husband leave you and the kids for a month or two and $25000 and make it happen!
A funeral and burial in your decently developed metro town in the USA will cost that. It’s going to be much more to ship overseas.
Anonymous
08/11/2024 16:55
Subject: FIL wants to be buried in the homeland
Son should tell Father to set up arrangements because Son believes it would be a more costly and difficult option than Father imagines. Ball is back in Father’s court. No pre-arranged plans, no burial there, no guilt.