Anonymous wrote:Most men prefer hair: but tamed. Wax the bikini line and maybe a trim if needed, but don’t wax it all off.

IMO men that want totally bare are usually the ones that watch way way too much porn. Not great boyfriend material.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, I didn’t burn my bra 100 years ago, so that women are basing “painful “ decisions about what they do with their body on their dating chances.
If it’s a deal breaker not to go through a Brazilian wax, it’s a good way to weed out the guys that are wrong

But what if we, women, prefer it bare? It's easier to go to the pool without thinking if hair is sticking out of my swimsuit. It's easier to keep clean. I enjoy sex more. So to each her own?

DP. It’s one thing if a woman prefers to go bare for her own reasons, but that’s obviously not OP or else she wouldn’t be worrying about whether guys expect it.

I think some guys may prefer it, but if it’s an expectation or requirement rather than a mild preference, that’s a red flag. Not because it means he’s a pedo (I don’t think that is the case) but because he probably has all manner of rigid and fussy expectations of a woman’s appearance and/or he watches too much porn.

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Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.

This is true. I really don’t think men care at all. They are fine with whatever makes you the most comfortable and uninhibited!

They care. Every guy I've ever been with told me what his preference was. They don't all prefer the same thing of course, but they do care.

They have a “preference,” but I think the point is it isn’t necessarily a “deal breaker.”

They aren't rushing to go down on wildebeest

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Anonymous wrote:Well, I didn’t burn my bra 100 years ago, so that women are basing “painful “ decisions about what they do with their body on their dating chances.
If it’s a deal breaker not to go through a Brazilian wax, it’s a good way to weed out the guys that are wrong

But what if we, women, prefer it bare? It's easier to go to the pool without thinking if hair is sticking out of my swimsuit. It's easier to keep clean. I enjoy sex more. So to each her own?

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. We don't want you to look like a child. That's gross. Neat and tidy is fine.

I didn't read all the pages of the thread so this comment might have already been discussed. If so, pardon me.

As a grown woman, this is what I've always thought: Men should not want women to look prepubescent.

Anonymous wrote:Man here. We don't want you to look like a child. That's gross. Neat and tidy is fine.

Anonymous wrote:My advice is to what makes you feel comfortable. Personally, I keep it neat and trim and did laser hair removal around the bikini line, but but that was because I like to be able to put on a swimsuit and not have to shave that area and get ingrown hairs and bumps and what not that I used to get years ago, pre-laser hair removal. I never got a full wax and have never received feedback that I should. My husband jokes that he has a landing strip.

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Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.

This is true. I really don’t think men care at all. They are fine with whatever makes you the most comfortable and uninhibited!

They care. Every guy I've ever been with told me what his preference was. They don't all prefer the same thing of course, but they do care.

They have a “preference,” but I think the point is it isn’t necessarily a “deal breaker.”

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Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.

This is true. I really don’t think men care at all. They are fine with whatever makes you the most comfortable and uninhibited!

They care. Every guy I've ever been with told me what his preference was. They don't all prefer the same thing of course, but they do care.

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Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.

This is true. I really don’t think men care at all. They are fine with whatever makes you the most comfortable and uninhibited!

Anonymous wrote:Most men prefer hair: but tamed. Wax the bikini line and maybe a trim if needed, but don’t wax it all off.

IMO men that want totally bare are usually the ones that watch way way too much porn. Not great boyfriend material.

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Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.