Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 11:12     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am sorry about my presentation.

I just needed to figure out where to go to navigate this so I posted pretty quickly dictating and not seeing the letters very well due to deteriorating eyesight.

I think — with the help form here — my plan is to email the principal because the assistant principal is proving useless, copy county ombudsman, request my son is granted till September the time to complete those assignments (as now I don’t know when will i get him back to being motivated… He needs some rest). And move out!!!

And hold off on media - I just don’t have the space at this time to accomplish it. I can always write a book later. I promise the style will be more coherent.



You’re a troll, correct? This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read. You’re going to write a book! LOL!


And you are clearly form the school. Be ready for the recordings of my crying child after what you have done.




Holy cow. OP is on track to blow up her family's whole world and not even see herself do it. I hope there is a co-parent doing damage control.


I also have the picture of my son with really really red eyes from crying because of the school… this is what the school did and they need to know. an apology email to parents is not gonna cut it. They need to apologize to my son as well in person.


That's never going to happen. A school will never apologize because apologizing is admitting guilt and admitting guilt opens them up even more if a lawsuit is brought.

Get your kid some therapy and stat working on healing. If he really is that traumatized, healing needs to happen. REAL healing.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 11:11     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:Oh look, another mesed up situation that spiraled out from a parent letting their kid mess around with a phone at school.


Not about phones. OP said it was about a computer being used from home at midnight. OP says site accessed is not p&rn, but would involve police so many here speculated would be some sort of site associated with threat to school and safety (which 10:15 post seems to support if that is from OP). More recent posts from OP say her son sees site all the time during school, but for the home accessing part of it, son told school they want Larlo B and he’s Larlo C. And at beginning, OP was also asking for help for missing homework, but last posts say OP is no longer going to do anything with that and focusing on going to doctor and recording her son crying and taking photos of him to send to school so they know why he’s not returning.

Is that fair summary, OP?
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 11:11     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

I am so sorry for wrong accusations. Did you complain about anything before it?
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 11:01     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:School wrongly accused my child

my 13 year old was accused of taking pictures of some girls. He was called to the office, and he had to talk to the SRO, Principal, and assistant principal at the middle school. They wouldn't let him know why, they just asked him to see his phone because they said he took pictures. The only pictures he did take was with his friend earlier that day. He thought he was going to get in trouble because he took selfies with his friend doing 1st period, when he was in the office he said "ok I'll delete them." then he delete them and he also delete from the phone. After he delete them the SRO asked him why he took pictures of female students. He said he didn't and the only pictures he took that day was with his friend in 1st period, the reason he delete it was because he didn't want to get in trouble for having his phone out. Later they called his friend down and he also had to write a statement on what happen. My kid was in the office for the rest of the day, and wouldn't be allowed back in school till everything gets clears out. After break they talked to each student in that 1st period class to see if they could remember what happened, none of them remember anyone taking inappropriate pictures. A few days later he was allowed back in. Not once did anyone in the school said sorry to him. He doesn't like girls and even if he did he wouldn't take pictrues of them.


This is not OP, right since about phone and not computer? OP said her son’s situation was “your son searched online and he did it at midnight from your home” and was laptop looked at.

Different parent, but he was also wrongly accused.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 11:00     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:The way OP is writing says to me that OP is not a reliable narrator. I get tht OP is overwhelmed with emotion right now, but OP should find someone to take over before she makes her kid's situation much worse.


Thank you for helping me process things. Thank you for the suggestions on how to navigate.

Chasing down teachers has been going on since mid May, not the last five days. First, it was my son reaching out And getting nowhere and then it was me.

Dictating.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:55     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:Oh look, another mesed up situation that spiraled out from a parent letting their kid mess around with a phone at school.


So many bully posts.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:54     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:OP, no way that your child will be allowed to have until September to complete assignments. I bet some of his teachers are leaving the school, the county, or the profession and thus will be unable to grade anything after the last day of school.


The situation has changed. I am not after assignments anymore. My son is too traumatized, So we will move on with whatever grades he’s got.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:52     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am sorry about my presentation.

I just needed to figure out where to go to navigate this so I posted pretty quickly dictating and not seeing the letters very well due to deteriorating eyesight.

I think — with the help form here — my plan is to email the principal because the assistant principal is proving useless, copy county ombudsman, request my son is granted till September the time to complete those assignments (as now I don’t know when will i get him back to being motivated… He needs some rest). And move out!!!

And hold off on media - I just don’t have the space at this time to accomplish it. I can always write a book later. I promise the style will be more coherent.



You’re a troll, correct? This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read. You’re going to write a book! LOL!


And you are clearly form the school. Be ready for the recordings of my crying child after what you have done.


Holy cow. OP is on track to blow up her family's whole world and not even see herself do it. I hope there is a co-parent doing damage control.


I also have the picture of my son with really really red eyes from crying because of the school… this is what the school did and they need to know. an apology email to parents is not gonna cut it. They need to apologize to my son as well in person.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:51     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

OP, no way that your child will be allowed to have until September to complete assignments. I bet some of his teachers are leaving the school, the county, or the profession and thus will be unable to grade anything after the last day of school.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:46     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Oh look, another mesed up situation that spiraled out from a parent letting their kid mess around with a phone at school.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:41     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am sorry about my presentation.

I just needed to figure out where to go to navigate this so I posted pretty quickly dictating and not seeing the letters very well due to deteriorating eyesight.

I think — with the help form here — my plan is to email the principal because the assistant principal is proving useless, copy county ombudsman, request my son is granted till September the time to complete those assignments (as now I don’t know when will i get him back to being motivated… He needs some rest). And move out!!!

And hold off on media - I just don’t have the space at this time to accomplish it. I can always write a book later. I promise the style will be more coherent.



You’re a troll, correct? This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read. You’re going to write a book! LOL!


And you are clearly form the school. Be ready for the recordings of my crying child after what you have done.


Holy cow. OP is on track to blow up her family's whole world and not even see herself do it. I hope there is a co-parent doing damage control.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:37     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

The way OP is writing says to me that OP is not a reliable narrator. I get tht OP is overwhelmed with emotion right now, but OP should find someone to take over before she makes her kid's situation much worse.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:37     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:It was all on the OTHER computer that belonged to the child with the same first name. the school was in rush to retaliate and didn’t check properly basics. The most appalling thing is that my child was aware that that child is always on a bad website during school hours. That’s the scary part…. And they only discover it because they want to dig up dirt on my son because I complained that I couldn’t get access to the missing assignments…


So the phone/photos post was made by a different poster? Just trying to get everything straight.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:34     Subject: Re:School wrongly accused my child

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He was accused of something that would draw attention of a local law enforcement.

He has ADHD.

I have been in contact with School about lack of support on their part in response to my multiple emails requesting help. I told them that I intend to contact the county and mass media. This is of course, our desperation to get School ‘adequate’ attention (as they were simply footballing my child around ) and I really meant it and I still mean it. After all me and my husband pay a lot of taxes to support the school.

It is right after I complained, the school in rush, pulled my son in and accused him. he right away, pointed out that it’s a different child with the same first name who should be accused. I believe that was the schools way to shut me down, but instead it escalated even more. They didn’t even get their basic facts straight… digital footprint is usually associated with full names so all they had to do is to check which Larla did that…

Very tough times.



You mention digital footprint. If something your child sent to someone or received from someone, don’t you have have the emails or whatever it is on your side? Could you not just print that out and present?

You say “which Larla.” Is that supposed to be your son or is there also a girl involved that you could get help from?


They school accused her kid of something that another child did and he had to stay home until they realized the mistake. The kid is now upset, understandably and probalby has rumors going around about him even though he is innocent. It wasn't that hard to follow.


This is op. Thanks for your help to explain. Emotions are still raw so my style is not perfect.

To add, the school called me and said on the phone - “we found xyz that your son searched online and he did it at midnight from your home.” — I was speechless for I don’t know how long. Then somehow I gathered myself and said I want to find out more and who exactly is the person who gave my son the idea for that search, because based on my conversation, there is always someone at school influencing my child to choose bad choices

The school then asked if I could bring my son over with his laptop. When the school showed their XYZ pictures to my son he got immediately visibly upset and immediately replied that was a different Larlo! That Larlo is always on that website!

The quote above is now sitting in my head like PTSD.


Does this (your son making bad choices) happen often?
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 10:33     Subject: School wrongly accused my child

Thanks everyone for your support. Dictated things quickly today, here.