Anonymous
05/01/2024 10:33
Subject: Re:Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My first husband was into sex clubs and I was aiming to please so I went along. He really got into it but all I felt like was a piece of meat. I’m not a prude but multiple partners of both sexes was just not my thing. I remarried 20 years ago and I’m happy to live a monogamous lifestyle.
I honestly cannot do it with multiple partners one after the other.
And I know this can be interpreted in a bad way, but if I am going to have sex with another person, I don't want my DH to be there.
Yes, there is something that goes against my perception of sex as a private act between me and another person. I would feel disgusted seeing my partner's D next to other man's D in someone's P. Ashamed of him seeing me f..ed by someone else. I don't want also to do anything to other women, particular below the mid section
Anonymous
05/01/2024 10:31
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Serious question: is going to a strip club with one’s spouse just as bad?
No. Isn't that usu done to spike desire?
Do you feel guilty about it in some way?
We think it may be fun and may spice things up. A classy place is what we have in mind. Neither of us is interested in an open relationship.
Are you bi/also into women? If not, it seems like he just wants to look at more naked women. Not a mutual "spice" if only he is attracted.
Anonymous
05/01/2024 10:21
Subject: Re:Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:My first husband was into sex clubs and I was aiming to please so I went along. He really got into it but all I felt like was a piece of meat. I’m not a prude but multiple partners of both sexes was just not my thing. I remarried 20 years ago and I’m happy to live a monogamous lifestyle.
I honestly cannot do it with multiple partners one after the other.
And I know this can be interpreted in a bad way, but if I am going to have sex with another person, I don't want my DH to be there.
Anonymous
05/01/2024 09:54
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the idea of a sex club is hot but in actual practice it would send my OCD through the roof.
When is the last time they washed these sheets
Has her derm looked at that mole on her butt? Maybe I should say something
How often do they sterilize these sex toys/bondage equipment
I wonder what her workout routine is
How do they clean this leather and is it actually clean 🧼
He’s handsome but has some belly fat, I wonder if he’s being monitored for heart disease
I’m not going to say anything about the mole but I hope her derm catches it
This carpet… how are they cleaning it- this is why my bff Dr. Larla doesn’t have carpet in her house
I really liked the tile in the bathroom, I wonder if you can get that in Home Depot
I really want to redo my powder room
And so on and so forth. The whole thing would be a compulsive thoughts nightmare.
LOL! Same.
Right??? Thank you, folks, I’m here all day!
Anonymous
05/01/2024 09:40
Subject: Re:Swinging in relationships
My first husband was into sex clubs and I was aiming to please so I went along. He really got into it but all I felt like was a piece of meat. I’m not a prude but multiple partners of both sexes was just not my thing. I remarried 20 years ago and I’m happy to live a monogamous lifestyle.
Anonymous
05/01/2024 09:30
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:Serious question: is going to a strip club with one’s spouse just as bad?
Have done it with my DH, but have never done any swinging. It was my idea (DW) and it was fine. Kind of fun, but strip clubs can be a bit depressing, IMO.
Anonymous
05/01/2024 09:29
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:I think the idea of a sex club is hot but in actual practice it would send my OCD through the roof.
When is the last time they washed these sheets
Has her derm looked at that mole on her butt? Maybe I should say something
How often do they sterilize these sex toys/bondage equipment
I wonder what her workout routine is
How do they clean this leather and is it actually clean 🧼
He’s handsome but has some belly fat, I wonder if he’s being monitored for heart disease
I’m not going to say anything about the mole but I hope her derm catches it
This carpet… how are they cleaning it- this is why my bff Dr. Larla doesn’t have carpet in her house
I really liked the tile in the bathroom, I wonder if you can get that in Home Depot
I really want to redo my powder room
And so on and so forth. The whole thing would be a compulsive thoughts nightmare.
LOL! Same.
Anonymous
05/01/2024 08:18
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:I think the idea of a sex club is hot but in actual practice it would send my OCD through the roof.
When is the last time they washed these sheets
Has her derm looked at that mole on her butt? Maybe I should say something
How often do they sterilize these sex toys/bondage equipment
I wonder what her workout routine is
How do they clean this leather and is it actually clean 🧼
He’s handsome but has some belly fat, I wonder if he’s being monitored for heart disease
I’m not going to say anything about the mole but I hope her derm catches it
This carpet… how are they cleaning it- this is why my bff Dr. Larla doesn’t have carpet in her house
I really liked the tile in the bathroom, I wonder if you can get that in Home Depot
I really want to redo my powder room
And so on and so forth. The whole thing would be a compulsive thoughts nightmare.
LOL. This is hilarious
Anonymous
05/01/2024 07:01
Subject: Swinging in relationships
I think the idea of a sex club is hot but in actual practice it would send my OCD through the roof.
When is the last time they washed these sheets
Has her derm looked at that mole on her butt? Maybe I should say something
How often do they sterilize these sex toys/bondage equipment
I wonder what her workout routine is
How do they clean this leather and is it actually clean 🧼
He’s handsome but has some belly fat, I wonder if he’s being monitored for heart disease
I’m not going to say anything about the mole but I hope her derm catches it
This carpet… how are they cleaning it- this is why my bff Dr. Larla doesn’t have carpet in her house
I really liked the tile in the bathroom, I wonder if you can get that in Home Depot
I really want to redo my powder room
And so on and so forth. The whole thing would be a compulsive thoughts nightmare.
When is the last time they washed these sheets
Has her derm looked at that mole on her butt? Maybe I should say something
How often do they sterilize these sex toys/bondage equipment
I wonder what her workout routine is
How do they clean this leather and is it actually clean 🧼
He’s handsome but has some belly fat, I wonder if he’s being monitored for heart disease
I’m not going to say anything about the mole but I hope her derm catches it
This carpet… how are they cleaning it- this is why my bff Dr. Larla doesn’t have carpet in her house
I really liked the tile in the bathroom, I wonder if you can get that in Home Depot
I really want to redo my powder room
And so on and so forth. The whole thing would be a compulsive thoughts nightmare.
Anonymous
05/01/2024 06:21
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:To me, there is a big difference between having sexual encounters as a couple with another couple in a private setting vs going to a sex club where there are lots of people. The former seems to be more of sexual exploration. I would imagine the latter is more for people who have exhibitionist tendencies?
Huh. I have never done the former, but have done the latter. The former seems like it would take a lot of planning, meeting people, getting the kids out of the house,etc.
The latter is something you can spontaneously decide to do on a date night.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 20:23
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Serious question: is going to a strip club with one’s spouse just as bad?
No. Isn't that usu done to spike desire?
Do you feel guilty about it in some way?
We think it may be fun and may spice things up. A classy place is what we have in mind. Neither of us is interested in an open relationship.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 20:02
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:Serious question: is going to a strip club with one’s spouse just as bad?
No. Isn't that usu done to spike desire?
Do you feel guilty about it in some way?
Anonymous
04/30/2024 19:50
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Serious question: is going to a strip club with one’s spouse just as bad?
Anonymous
04/30/2024 19:39
Subject: Swinging in relationships
To me, there is a big difference between having sexual encounters as a couple with another couple in a private setting vs going to a sex club where there are lots of people. The former seems to be more of sexual exploration. I would imagine the latter is more for people who have exhibitionist tendencies?
Anonymous
04/30/2024 18:05
Subject: Swinging in relationships
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe I am that weird man in the modern era. I will never be able to have sex with my wife again if she lets another man fu**k her. And for the swingy women out there, it doesn't bother you seeing your man giving it the another woman on all 4s. Ya'll are a bunch of sexually liberated people let me tell ya lol
You are Not weird, you are Normal. These are not sexually liberated people, these are people without morals
Ok, grandma, you spoke your piece but, now will you PLEASE GO TO BED?!?