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Anonymous wrote:There are millions of parents earning in the Top 3% and above. Millions. Executives, lawyers, SWE’s in the tech field, doctors, investment bankers.

or someone who may have been driving a beat up car just to save for ivy education for their kids

Like the rest of us are rolling around in 90k cars. Sticker price on my vehicle is less than one semester at ivy league.

But do you drive that $45K vehicle for 10-12 years? Or do you replace it every 5-6 years? For "donut hole families" that can make the difference in. what you can afford for your kid (that and other similar cost saving choices you make along the way)

I have one 14 year old car and one newer 30k car (because our ancient car died) car and that's a drop in the ocean of college costs for two kids if we were to pay full pay for a private college. It's really not comparable at all in terms of cost.

It's comparable in terms of mindset for saving for college (and retirement and other aspects of life). Many buy new cars every 4-5 years and that mindset carries over to most other aspects of life---they spend money they dont' need to spend and then wonder why they haven't been able to save.

Us personally, our last car loan was when we were 26 (Honda Civic). Drove that car for 8 years, once it was paid off (in 3 years) kept saving the monthly payment so that we had over $26 K in the "auto savings". Then sold the car for $5K and had $31K to put towards a new vehicle. We added in 6K and paid cash for a luxury vehicle. And never looked back. Kept that car for 11 years before we gave it to a family member.

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Anonymous wrote:I will feel markedly like a chump when I write the first check for $84k and change in the summer. Ugh. Full pay over here.

This will be us. Feel like a total sucker when you read 65-70% of the school is getting aid and you are full pay.

My kid got into 2 Ivies, Pomona and Georgetown. He will likely go to one of those over WM & UVA. We did all the tours and for us it’s worth it. UVA is the largest by about 10k more students than most on hiss list.

We have about $140k in 529 for each kid. So will be pulling the rest out of our @sses.

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Anonymous wrote:I cash flow most of my DS's tuition, apartment etc, but he pays for his food and fun expenses. He does have a small loan - 7500 for one year because I had a low cash period. I put $1700 a month into the 529, and make withdrawals when the payment date arrives and then I pay his $800 rent every month. So basically I'm paying $1700+800 = $2500 post tax per month for him to attend his in state school. I cannot wait to be done in a year! HHI of about 300K. We started with about 10K in his 529 and I always expected to cash flow most of it.

That's what you pay for an infant per month at daycare.

So if you paid that for daycare, then you could have chosen to continue saving the same amount once they started K. And then you'd have the money for at least in state/moderate private

DP who is paying that for daycare and I may very well start doing that when they finally high elementary school. I’m sure I’ll find college daunting when we get there, but nothing can beat the sticker shock of the $3000/month we almost had to pay for my oldest when she was born (fortunately we got off the waitlist for a cheaper place).

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Anonymous wrote:There are millions of parents earning in the Top 3% and above. Millions. Executives, lawyers, SWE’s in the tech field, doctors, investment bankers.

or someone who may have been driving a beat up car just to save for ivy education for their kids

Like the rest of us are rolling around in 90k cars. Sticker price on my vehicle is less than one semester at ivy league.

But do you drive that $45K vehicle for 10-12 years? Or do you replace it every 5-6 years? For "donut hole families" that can make the difference in. what you can afford for your kid (that and other similar cost saving choices you make along the way)

I have one 14 year old car and one newer 30k car (because our ancient car died) car and that's a drop in the ocean of college costs for two kids if we were to pay full pay for a private college. It's really not comparable at all in terms of cost.

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Anonymous wrote:I paid cash.

It’s about $25K for one and $40K for another.

Our HHI is ~$300K - 2govt workers

Daycare > private > college

It never seemed too daunting. We just lived within those means.

At $300K, you could have comfortably saved. We make 1/2 what you do and saved plenty for a state college and grad school. It's your lifestyle choices.

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Anonymous wrote:I cash flow most of my DS's tuition, apartment etc, but he pays for his food and fun expenses. He does have a small loan - 7500 for one year because I had a low cash period. I put $1700 a month into the 529, and make withdrawals when the payment date arrives and then I pay his $800 rent every month. So basically I'm paying $1700+800 = $2500 post tax per month for him to attend his in state school. I cannot wait to be done in a year! HHI of about 300K. We started with about 10K in his 529 and I always expected to cash flow most of it.

That's what you pay for an infant per month at daycare.

So if you paid that for daycare, then you could have chosen to continue saving the same amount once they started K. And then you'd have the money for at least in state/moderate private

Anonymous wrote:I paid cash.

It’s about $25K for one and $40K for another.

Our HHI is ~$300K - 2govt workers

Daycare > private > college

It never seemed too daunting. We just lived within those means.

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Anonymous wrote:We are upper middle class, so not insanely wealthy like doctors, investment bankers, and executives. But the price of tuition is baffling to me. I don’t know how anyone can pay for out-of-state or private schools. It’s pocket change for the wealthy, and if you are low-income enough you get aid. Middle class parents have it the worst.

I wish we lived in Florida or Georgia. Those schools are cheap and provide solid education!

You can feel free to move there if you want. Just do it at least 2 years before college

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Anonymous wrote:I cash flow most of my DS's tuition, apartment etc, but he pays for his food and fun expenses. He does have a small loan - 7500 for one year because I had a low cash period. I put $1700 a month into the 529, and make withdrawals when the payment date arrives and then I pay his $800 rent every month. So basically I'm paying $1700+800 = $2500 post tax per month for him to attend his in state school. I cannot wait to be done in a year! HHI of about 300K. We started with about 10K in his 529 and I always expected to cash flow most of it.

That's what you pay for an infant per month at daycare.

Anonymous wrote:I mean people are paying 40/50k cash for new cars, so you'd think they could dig deeper for college when they had 18 years to save?

We're UMC and will pay for instate. I hope it's not 90k by the time it's our turn.

Anonymous wrote:I cash flow most of my DS's tuition, apartment etc, but he pays for his food and fun expenses. He does have a small loan - 7500 for one year because I had a low cash period. I put $1700 a month into the 529, and make withdrawals when the payment date arrives and then I pay his $800 rent every month. So basically I'm paying $1700+800 = $2500 post tax per month for him to attend his in state school. I cannot wait to be done in a year! HHI of about 300K. We started with about 10K in his 529 and I always expected to cash flow most of it.

Anonymous wrote:We are upper middle class, so not insanely wealthy like doctors, investment bankers, and executives. But the price of tuition is baffling to me. I don’t know how anyone can pay for out-of-state or private schools. It’s pocket change for the wealthy, and if you are low-income enough you get aid. Middle class parents have it the worst.

I wish we lived in Florida or Georgia. Those schools are cheap and provide solid education!