Anonymous wrote:Why men's happiness isn't considered as valuable?
Anonymous wrote:I think we also deal with things better then men can.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Goodness the men on this thread are so pouty.
Goodness the women on this thread are so dismissive of men's feelings.
On thread about prioritizing women's happiness, man complains women are dismissive of men's feelings.![]()
That pretty much sums it up.
Anonymous wrote:Why men's happiness isn't considered as valuable?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Happy wife, happy life at one point in time was correct. However, today, at least among folks my generation (we are both 28 married 3 years) we both seek to make each other happy. I keep him happy as best as I can and he does the same for me as well.
Please come back in 20-30 years. You are literally still in the honeymoon phase.
No she is not. She is the type of woman I wish I married. I wife is such a narcissistic f**k that at times I wonder if she mentally stable. Every single aspect of our marriage has been to keep her happy. I am not kidding. It’s not normal. I think the younger generation believe in equality which is a good think. Many of the women my generation are stuck in this cloud that they are queens that need to cared for unconditionally.
If your wife was so mentally unstable and terrible by your third year of marriage, I wonder why you married her, what signs you overlooked, and why continue to stay married.
Since PP said "she is the type of woman I wish I married," I assume he has asked himself the same questions many times. It's not relevant to his point.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why men's happiness isn't considered as valuable?
Only women, children, and dogs are unconditionally loved. Men have to show what they are worth. That's why most men these days are refusing to get married. There's really no upside for a man. There really isn't.
Women are unconditionally loved? By whom? Their mothers? Men fall out of love with their wives every day.
Seriously! If women were unconditionally loved, this thread's topic wouldn't exist.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Happy wife, happy life at one point in time was correct. However, today, at least among folks my generation (we are both 28 married 3 years) we both seek to make each other happy. I keep him happy as best as I can and he does the same for me as well.
Please come back in 20-30 years. You are literally still in the honeymoon phase.
No she is not. She is the type of woman I wish I married. I wife is such a narcissistic f**k that at times I wonder if she mentally stable. Every single aspect of our marriage has been to keep her happy. I am not kidding. It’s not normal. I think the younger generation believe in equality which is a good think. Many of the women my generation are stuck in this cloud that they are queens that need to cared for unconditionally.
Why on earth did you marry someone like that then? Was she a totally different person while dating?
What happened to her after marriage that she became unstable?
Anonymous wrote:. Yeah, I do none of that.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women emote more.
That’s the bottom line.
I’m sorry it’s not PC to say it. Women’s monthly cycle also deeply affects behavior. A lot of this quote is based on biological truth.
Men are on the whole more emotionally consistent, less prone to grudges, and speak less or do not as frequently vent their feelings verbally.
This forum is dominated by women, so I’m sure I’ll get tons of blowback, but this is a hill I’ll die on.
Society allows women more leeway for unreasonable behavior without accountability.
it’s also super hip right now to endlessly bash men. You wonder why Gen Z men are somehow turning to the right. It’s because anything they do and say is “toxic masculinity” or they’re supposed to sort of show deference from women as they’re denigrated. They’re supposed to eat sht and like it.
LOL men have really convinced themselves that their anger, depression, and anxiety aren't emotions. Go ahead a die on that hill, and while you're at it look up the definition of "emote" - it's not just talking and it's not limited to women. All of your tantrumy outbursts are emoting. The holes in the drywall, domestic violence, family annhilation: all emoting.
Even if I did, it’s way better than trying to gauge when you’re moody and will either simmer silently or tear down your partner with rude comments and demands.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why men's happiness isn't considered as valuable?
Only women, children, and dogs are unconditionally loved. Men have to show what they are worth. That's why most men these days are refusing to get married. There's really no upside for a man. There really isn't.
Women are unconditionally loved? By whom? Their mothers? Men fall out of love with their wives every day.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why men's happiness isn't considered as valuable?
Only women, children, and dogs are unconditionally loved. Men have to show what they are worth. That's why most men these days are refusing to get married. There's really no upside for a man. There really isn't.
I think there's a kernel of truth to this (and I'm a woman) but definitely add "young" before women.
Pretty much everyone outside of these categories must prove their worth.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Goodness the men on this thread are so pouty.
Goodness the women on this thread are so dismissive of men's feelings.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why men's happiness isn't considered as valuable?
Only women, children, and dogs are unconditionally loved. Men have to show what they are worth. That's why most men these days are refusing to get married. There's really no upside for a man. There really isn't.