Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 23:07     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Shoveling sidewalks. Just another stupid excuse for unemployed boomers with nothing else to do to lecture and preen, basking in their delusional sense of superiority.


Wrong. I’m solidly a Millennial and the sheer selfishness and laziness of able bodied people who won’t shovel is astounding. Unfortunately, I discovered my husband is one of them and tbh I’ve lost some respect for him. I’d do it, but I’m 4 months pregnant. I ended up just hiring a neighborhood teen.


Why is shoveling so important to you? You must understand that people who walk outside after it snows should expect to walk in the snow. Let them wear appropriate footwear and don’t give it another thought. This seems like an issue that you may want to explore for yourself.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 23:04     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:Shoveling sidewalks. Just another stupid excuse for unemployed boomers with nothing else to do to lecture and preen, basking in their delusional sense of superiority.


Wrong. I’m solidly a Millennial and the sheer selfishness and laziness of able bodied people who won’t shovel is astounding. Unfortunately, I discovered my husband is one of them and tbh I’ve lost some respect for him. I’d do it, but I’m 4 months pregnant. I ended up just hiring a neighborhood teen.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 22:08     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

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Anonymous wrote:Shoveling is a waste of time. We only shovel what is needed for cars and ignore sidewalks.



Some real sociopaths on this board. Clearly these are people that are borne without a sense of empathy. Or had terrible parenting. I'm sure these are the same people that never remove the snow from the roof of their car and wait until it turns into a sixty pound sheet of ice that eventually blows into the car behind it.

Calling code enforcement is the right thing to do. Maybe fines will change behavior. And then proceed with some pettiness. Always park cars in front of their house. Let the neighborhood dogs use their front yard. And don't bother picking up because that would be trespassing, right? It's just fertilizer anyway. It'll go away on its own. Why bother.


Calling other people sociopaths because you are too lazy to put on boots and walk in the snow is pathetic. We don’t owe you a shoveled sidewalk. Your entitlement is showing. Buy some boots.


NP here. The civic minded thing to do is to shovel your sidewalk. I had to go shovel my elderly mom’s walk because I would feel terrible leaving it unshoveled. Once the snow goes through a few thaw-melt-freeze cycles walking in boots won’t help. It’ll be an uneven, icy mess.

Maybe there’s no law but it’s what good people do. And if you have a disability or are 80 years old, hire someone!


Hired many shovelers lately? Nobody’s knocked on my door for years with a snow shovel in their hand.


Our neighborhood has teens shoveling. They post on the listserv and many people seem to use them. And this is in Bethesda where everyone assumes the kids are entitled but apparently not so entitled that they won’t do some shoveling on a snow day.


This. Walk outside with $20 in hand and someone will shovel your sidewalk.


What planet do you live on? We live on Earth.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 22:06     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Shoveling is a waste of time. We only shovel what is needed for cars and ignore sidewalks.



Some real sociopaths on this board. Clearly these are people that are borne without a sense of empathy. Or had terrible parenting. I'm sure these are the same people that never remove the snow from the roof of their car and wait until it turns into a sixty pound sheet of ice that eventually blows into the car behind it.

Calling code enforcement is the right thing to do. Maybe fines will change behavior. And then proceed with some pettiness. Always park cars in front of their house. Let the neighborhood dogs use their front yard. And don't bother picking up because that would be trespassing, right? It's just fertilizer anyway. It'll go away on its own. Why bother.


Calling other people sociopaths because you are too lazy to put on boots and walk in the snow is pathetic. We don’t owe you a shoveled sidewalk. Your entitlement is showing. Buy some boots.


NP here. The civic minded thing to do is to shovel your sidewalk. I had to go shovel my elderly mom’s walk because I would feel terrible leaving it unshoveled. Once the snow goes through a few thaw-melt-freeze cycles walking in boots won’t help. It’ll be an uneven, icy mess.

Maybe there’s no law but it’s what good people do. And if you have a disability or are 80 years old, hire someone!


Hired many shovelers lately? Nobody’s knocked on my door for years with a snow shovel in their hand.


Our neighborhood has teens shoveling. They post on the listserv and many people seem to use them. And this is in Bethesda where everyone assumes the kids are entitled but apparently not so entitled that they won’t do some shoveling on a snow day.


This. Walk outside with $20 in hand and someone will shovel your sidewalk.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 21:58     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Dear OP - instead of being judgmental and posting here why don't YOU do it for them? that' what I would do ( but then I am a better person than you)
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 21:47     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Come out to Fairfax County. Half of the sidewalks in our neighborhood are never shoveled. I wouldn’t think anything of this. I didn’t know it was the law to shovel a sidewalk anywhere.

It will be in the 50s and rain next week. It will be melted then.
+1. Just don’t worry about it! That happened everywhere! I think I’m the only person on the block that shoveled my sidewalk. The rest of the block to the stop sign has 6 inches of snow untouched.


And, what’s the practical impact?

Do people walk down the sidewalk with any regularity? (Dog walkers don’t count since they could easily walk their dog on their own property.)


I'm on a busy street and the sidewalk is heavily used by walkers. If I don't get there first, the walkers turn it into solid ice. I did shovel and now it's completely clear and dry.

Yak Trax is my friend.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 21:31     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Shoveling is a waste of time. We only shovel what is needed for cars and ignore sidewalks.



Some real sociopaths on this board. Clearly these are people that are borne without a sense of empathy. Or had terrible parenting. I'm sure these are the same people that never remove the snow from the roof of their car and wait until it turns into a sixty pound sheet of ice that eventually blows into the car behind it.

Calling code enforcement is the right thing to do. Maybe fines will change behavior. And then proceed with some pettiness. Always park cars in front of their house. Let the neighborhood dogs use their front yard. And don't bother picking up because that would be trespassing, right? It's just fertilizer anyway. It'll go away on its own. Why bother.


Calling other people sociopaths because you are too lazy to put on boots and walk in the snow is pathetic. We don’t owe you a shoveled sidewalk. Your entitlement is showing. Buy some boots.


NP here. The civic minded thing to do is to shovel your sidewalk. I had to go shovel my elderly mom’s walk because I would feel terrible leaving it unshoveled. Once the snow goes through a few thaw-melt-freeze cycles walking in boots won’t help. It’ll be an uneven, icy mess.

Maybe there’s no law but it’s what good people do. And if you have a disability or are 80 years old, hire someone!


Hired many shovelers lately? Nobody’s knocked on my door for years with a snow shovel in their hand.


Our neighborhood has teens shoveling. They post on the listserv and many people seem to use them. And this is in Bethesda where everyone assumes the kids are entitled but apparently not so entitled that they won’t do some shoveling on a snow day.


My kids have better things to do than shovel for a bunch of whiny complainers. Walking in snow is not difficult.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 21:29     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have an SUV with AWD. I don’t even shovel my driveway. It is not needed.


Where are packages delivered? Do you have a separate walkway to your front door that you do shovel? My neighbors don't shovel either, but it's the only access to their front door. I feel terrible for the delivery people.


They can handle walking in snow. Stop feeling sorry for anyone but yourself.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 21:26     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Shoveling is a waste of time. We only shovel what is needed for cars and ignore sidewalks.



Some real sociopaths on this board. Clearly these are people that are borne without a sense of empathy. Or had terrible parenting. I'm sure these are the same people that never remove the snow from the roof of their car and wait until it turns into a sixty pound sheet of ice that eventually blows into the car behind it.

Calling code enforcement is the right thing to do. Maybe fines will change behavior. And then proceed with some pettiness. Always park cars in front of their house. Let the neighborhood dogs use their front yard. And don't bother picking up because that would be trespassing, right? It's just fertilizer anyway. It'll go away on its own. Why bother.


Calling other people sociopaths because you are too lazy to put on boots and walk in the snow is pathetic. We don’t owe you a shoveled sidewalk. Your entitlement is showing. Buy some boots.


NP here. The civic minded thing to do is to shovel your sidewalk. I had to go shovel my elderly mom’s walk because I would feel terrible leaving it unshoveled. Once the snow goes through a few thaw-melt-freeze cycles walking in boots won’t help. It’ll be an uneven, icy mess.

Maybe there’s no law but it’s what good people do. And if you have a disability or are 80 years old, hire someone!


Hired many shovelers lately? Nobody’s knocked on my door for years with a snow shovel in their hand.


Our neighborhood has teens shoveling. They post on the listserv and many people seem to use them. And this is in Bethesda where everyone assumes the kids are entitled but apparently not so entitled that they won’t do some shoveling on a snow day.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 19:03     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:I have an SUV with AWD. I don’t even shovel my driveway. It is not needed.


Where are packages delivered? Do you have a separate walkway to your front door that you do shovel? My neighbors don't shovel either, but it's the only access to their front door. I feel terrible for the delivery people.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 18:50     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Maybe he has the flu.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 18:44     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Shoveling is a waste of time. We only shovel what is needed for cars and ignore sidewalks.



Some real sociopaths on this board. Clearly these are people that are borne without a sense of empathy. Or had terrible parenting. I'm sure these are the same people that never remove the snow from the roof of their car and wait until it turns into a sixty pound sheet of ice that eventually blows into the car behind it.

Calling code enforcement is the right thing to do. Maybe fines will change behavior. And then proceed with some pettiness. Always park cars in front of their house. Let the neighborhood dogs use their front yard. And don't bother picking up because that would be trespassing, right? It's just fertilizer anyway. It'll go away on its own. Why bother.


Calling other people sociopaths because you are too lazy to put on boots and walk in the snow is pathetic. We don’t owe you a shoveled sidewalk. Your entitlement is showing. Buy some boots.


NP here. The civic minded thing to do is to shovel your sidewalk. I had to go shovel my elderly mom’s walk because I would feel terrible leaving it unshoveled. Once the snow goes through a few thaw-melt-freeze cycles walking in boots won’t help. It’ll be an uneven, icy mess.

Maybe there’s no law but it’s what good people do. And if you have a disability or are 80 years old, hire someone!


Hired many shovelers lately? Nobody’s knocked on my door for years with a snow shovel in their hand.


This

How would an 85 year old find someone to shovel their walk?



In most neighborhoods, a neighbor or two will just do it for an elderly or disabled person. Unasked. Shoveling a walking path on the sidewalk so that the elderly, the dog walkers, kids, runners, walkers, the mail man, the delivery person doesn't slip is not a big deal.

The unkindness and selfishness of so many in the DC area no longer surprises me. As evidenced on the board. But many, many will help out an elderly neighbor.

But the 30 year old not shoveling in front of his house? The entire neighborhood will regard him as an a##hole forever. Just the way it is.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 18:30     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:Shoveling sidewalks. Just another stupid excuse for unemployed boomers with nothing else to do to lecture and preen, basking in their delusional sense of superiority.


This is a really stupid comment and odds are good it wasn't a boomer who started this thread.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 18:24     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Shoveling sidewalks. Just another stupid excuse for unemployed boomers with nothing else to do to lecture and preen, basking in their delusional sense of superiority.


What's a boomer?


Someone who shoveled snow both ways, uphill in their bare feet.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2024 18:10     Subject: 30 year old neighbor is not shoveling snow

Anonymous wrote:Shoveling sidewalks. Just another stupid excuse for unemployed boomers with nothing else to do to lecture and preen, basking in their delusional sense of superiority.


What's a boomer?