No frickin way. My feet would get really hot. I don't sleep with anything on since I was a child.

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Anonymous wrote:DH and I both bundle up for bed: Flannel pjs and fleeces. I wear socks, he doesn’t. Our young adult kids both sleep naked. They were literal “hot boxes” when they were little so I’m assume that’s how it started.

Wow you’re lucky. My husband thinks if I wear anything to bed our marriage is dead. I have to be naked.

Gee, that’s not abusive at all.

it’s not abuse, it’s ‘CNC’. Anytime he wants it, he can have it, regardless of why I want.

Consensual rape isn’t a thing

Off.

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Anonymous wrote:DH and I both bundle up for bed: Flannel pjs and fleeces. I wear socks, he doesn’t. Our young adult kids both sleep naked. They were literal “hot boxes” when they were little so I’m assume that’s how it started.

Wow you’re lucky. My husband thinks if I wear anything to bed our marriage is dead. I have to be naked.

Gee, that’s not abusive at all.

it’s not abuse, it’s ‘CNC’. Anytime he wants it, he can have it, regardless of why I want.

Socks on when it's cold and off when it's not.

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Anonymous wrote:Before my husband died, I’d put socks on to fall asleep and he’d take them off me when he got in bed because I’d wake up in the night otherwise. Since he died, I put a heating pad at the foot of the bed and turn it on for 2 hours. I fall right to sleep and it shuts off before I get too warm.

That’s really sweet. I’m sorry for your loss.

There really is something beautiful about that. I am glad your husband was that way and sorry for your loss

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Anonymous wrote:This is the most shocking thread in the long and sordid history of DCUM.

There's only one correct way to sleep: naked.

You people are masochistic barbarians.

I’ve slept nude and agree it is lovely - but I don’t typically sleep nude because of the fear of house fire in the middle of the night.

That’s like refusing to date because you might get your heart broken. Can’t let fear control you.

Pajamas and socks are medieval torture devices.

+1 except for your last sentence. People in medieval times actually slept nude. Sleepwear didn’t really come into existence until early modern times.

Anonymous wrote:On! From a young age I've been unable to sleep with cold feet. And I think I have Reynaud's (fingers/toes go numb immediately before the rest of my body even feels chilled), so it doesn't take much for my feet to be cold. I'll kick off blankets before I take off my socks.

Ugh, that stinks about the reynaud’s. I used to work for the Sjogrens Foundation and talked to lots of people who also had Reynaud’s.

My family is funny - my husband and little one are always hot, my teen and I are always cold. I bundle up at night (pjs and lots of blankets) BUT I still like no socks for sleeping.

I literally cannot relax and fall asleep if I don’t have socks on. I’ve tried and just can’t do it.