My first wife was incredible. But she was also a sex addict. I couldn’t keep up with her, so she had to find multiple guys.

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Anonymous wrote:I think there are three kinds of best: Best at making me feel an intense emotional connection, best at making me feel good physically (understanding my body), and best at making me feel like a great lover (responding to my touch).

Ex spouse was the best at the first category until we stopped having sex completely. The last years of our marriage were dead bedroom. Other women have come close, fortunately. Ex spouse was nowhere close in categories two or three.

It turns out that, most of the time, I don't really crave the other person's ability to make my body feel amazing. I appreciate it while it's happening and I remember it but there have been women who were absolutely amazing at this but didn't hold my attention for long.

I have to admit that the women who have really intense multiple Os really appeal to me. One thing I've noticed Ed is that women who respond very strongly sexually also sometimes get very close emotionally. They saythey start to think about me all the time.

You and they may be confusing emotions with hormones. An emotional connection is different than the obsessive cravings that good sex can produce.

Actually strong sexual response causes emotional attachment and bonding, he's right. There is multiple research on that

Anonymous wrote:I think there are three kinds of best: Best at making me feel an intense emotional connection, best at making me feel good physically (understanding my body), and best at making me feel like a great lover (responding to my touch).

Ex spouse was the best at the first category until we stopped having sex completely. The last years of our marriage were dead bedroom. Other women have come close, fortunately. Ex spouse was nowhere close in categories two or three.

It turns out that, most of the time, I don't really crave the other person's ability to make my body feel amazing. I appreciate it while it's happening and I remember it but there have been women who were absolutely amazing at this but didn't hold my attention for long.

I have to admit that the women who have really intense multiple Os really appeal to me. One thing I've noticed Ed is that women who respond very strongly sexually also sometimes get very close emotionally. They saythey start to think about me all the time.

You and they may be confusing emotions with hormones. An emotional connection is different than the obsessive cravings that good sex can produce.

Yeah not everybody gets to have a fulfilling sex life in their twenties

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. Back in the college days there was a girl that just “wanted it” is the best way to describe. As hard as you could give it. Made sure to tell you what was needed.

She was the best. I wonder where she is now.

She's married and her DH is on DCUM complaining about a dead bedroom.

😂 and she probably looks well used as well. The hottest HS and college girls often peak early.

Anonymous wrote:Nope. Back in the college days there was a girl that just “wanted it” is the best way to describe. As hard as you could give it. Made sure to tell you what was needed.

She was the best. I wonder where she is now.

She's married and her DH is on DCUM complaining about a dead bedroom.

I think there are three kinds of best: Best at making me feel an intense emotional connection, best at making me feel good physically (understanding my body), and best at making me feel like a great lover (responding to my touch).

Ex spouse was the best at the first category until we stopped having sex completely. The last years of our marriage were dead bedroom. Other women have come close, fortunately. Ex spouse was nowhere close in categories two or three.

It turns out that, most of the time, I don't really crave the other person's ability to make my body feel amazing. I appreciate it while it's happening and I remember it but there have been women who were absolutely amazing at this but didn't hold my attention for long.

I have to admit that the women who have really intense multiple Os really appeal to me. One thing I've noticed Ed is that women who respond very strongly sexually also sometimes get very close emotionally. They saythey start to think about me all the time.

Nope. Back in the college days there was a girl that just “wanted it” is the best way to describe. As hard as you could give it. Made sure to tell you what was needed.

She was the best. I wonder where she is now.

Not married to the most sexual lover, but he tried social nudism at my encouraging, and accelerated our bedroom antics, something about being naked all day and night with friends and strangers lights the fire. Mixed with some alcohol and cannabis, and its hold on, this sh#t is about to get real. Guaranteed someone is sleeping in the wet spot!

We’ve since enjoyed many clothing optional cruises, vacations and beaches around the world. Our sex life has definitely kicked it up a few notches. Swingers we are not, just a happily married couple that are secure and confident. Neither one of us are Ken or Barbie, nor do we want to be plastic and fake. Hubby is a grower not a shower, and honestly I don’t care. He’s mine and has given me more than anyone else, emotionally, and socially.

We’ve met and engaged in conversations more folks while naked than we ever did wearing swim suits. Naked people have nothing to hide and are great fun. We have more “naked” friends than we do uptight phony friends, ‘cause naked friends are just far more fun!!

Yes, I always am.

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely. She is the best I've ever been with, and I've been with a lot.

It's b/c our relationship and communication is so amazing. We are both about 60, and she had a dbl mastectomy before meeting me. We don't look perfect, but we're perfect for each other.

Said no guy EVER.

Except me... I wrote the post above and stand by it. I'm a 59yo male who just had some amazing morning fun w/ the woman I love.

No not by far

Yes, but I’m hoping Santa lingers for awhile this year.

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely. She is the best I've ever been with, and I've been with a lot.

It's b/c our relationship and communication is so amazing. We are both about 60, and she had a dbl mastectomy before meeting me. We don't look perfect, but we're perfect for each other.

Said no guy EVER.

Guy here that feels the same way as PP. That is exactly what makes it amazing.

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Anonymous wrote:I cannot imagine how anyone would not like to receive or to give.

I didn’t like receiving initially for many reasons but once my husband found the right spot it almost made my eyes roll back. I like to give because it allows me to do two things at the same time - him and me.

Ummm - how are you doing you while doing him? I'm confused.

I have two hands.

Ah. Gotcha.