Anonymous wrote:You're lucky for getting sex every 2 months. We are 41 and haven't had sex for going on 6 years at this point.

Marriage = no sex. I'm still horny all the time too.

Same. I can't tell what's worse: Groveling for sex for the millionth time or having sex with what feels like a lifeless corpse that wants to get it over with already. I've just accepted this is my life and my spouse doesn't give a sh*t about my desires or me.

Anonymous wrote:Probably porn.
I don’t know

This

That this is important to you. If you don’t act on this now, the present situation will not get better and will become your permanent way of life.