Anonymous
11/16/2023 16:28
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
I'm happy for them. I think they seem like a good match.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 15:13
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The focus is the children. And what they have been exposed to and seen.
It’s dreadful and cringeworthy.
And of course, what they will see on the internet about her. She has overshared a lot. And it stays.
Everyone is terribly concerned.
+1
The poor kids. Dealing with their mothers death and then the dad just immediately shoving this woman into their lives. And everyone knows all this embarrassing public information about her. They will be vilified in school.
How about y'all stop contributing to the trauma by social shaming the father? Sometimes its better to keep your mouth shut and let people make their own decisions.
I have still yet to see any harm to these kids. Tinsely didn't invite TV cameras into their lives.
Widowed dads re-marry quickly...a tale as old as time.
I'll also add - the dad made a good move by marrying an older woman who has no kids of her own. The existing kids won't be competing for attention with a new baby.
Given the dad's social circle, he'd be hard pressed to find a woman who (1) doesn't already have her own brood of kids or (2) is younger and is OK not having a biological baby. Southern women from society families have kids young or if still childless REALLY want to get busy having their own babies.
In this sense, Tinsley is a unique "catch" in that she's happy to dedicate her attention and love toward the existing children.
Her first cousin (in Richmond) is very good friends with him and was in his first wedding. This is not a random pairing. I hope they last and those kids thrive with all the changes in their life.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 15:05
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it me or is Tinsley Mortimer the weirdest name?
Her maiden name is Mercer. She kept Topper’s last name even after they divorced because it’s way more prestigious.
Tinsley is a weird name. Pretentious, which is the vibe I got from her mother when I used to watch RHONY. Timsley herself, however, seemed like a genuinely nice person.
Tinsley’s full given name was Tinsley Randolph Mercer. Her sister was Dabney Winston Mercer. These are pretty standard Richmond high society-type names.
+1. Adding that in the south it’s considered low class to have a normal trendy name. The middle name is often a family name or you go by your middle name.
Im southern, the non-trendy" name can't be something that screams new money. Names comes from family members or maiden names etc.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 14:49
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Every guy she has been in a relationship with she blares, he's the most wonderful, the best man in the world, the most handsome, I'm so lucky to find my soulmate,we are so in love, we love to smooch yada yada yada...... then they all dump her. But ''wish her the best''.....Next the mug shot, with prior five prior incidents documented with PBP. Sounds like she was Desperate and Robert was vulnerable. Fell in lust first ''date''.
What does any of this mean?
Anonymous
11/16/2023 14:40
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Every guy she has been in a relationship with she blares, he's the most wonderful, the best man in the world, the most handsome, I'm so lucky to find my soulmate,we are so in love, we love to smooch yada yada yada...... then they all dump her. But ''wish her the best''.....Next the mug shot, with prior five prior incidents documented with PBP. Sounds like she was Desperate and Robert was vulnerable. Fell in lust first ''date''.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 12:02
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The focus is the children. And what they have been exposed to and seen.
It’s dreadful and cringeworthy.
And of course, what they will see on the internet about her. She has overshared a lot. And it stays.
Everyone is terribly concerned.
+1
The poor kids. Dealing with their mothers death and then the dad just immediately shoving this woman into their lives. And everyone knows all this embarrassing public information about her. They will be vilified in school.
How about y'all stop contributing to the trauma by social shaming the father? Sometimes its better to keep your mouth shut and let people make their own decisions.
I have still yet to see any harm to these kids. Tinsely didn't invite TV cameras into their lives.
Widowed dads re-marry quickly...a tale as old as time.
I'll also add - the dad made a good move by marrying an older woman who has no kids of her own. The existing kids won't be competing for attention with a new baby.
Given the dad's social circle, he'd be hard pressed to find a woman who (1) doesn't already have her own brood of kids or (2) is younger and is OK not having a biological baby. Southern women from society families have kids young or if still childless REALLY want to get busy having their own babies.
In this sense, Tinsley is a unique "catch" in that she's happy to dedicate her attention and love toward the existing children.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 11:58
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The focus is the children. And what they have been exposed to and seen.
It’s dreadful and cringeworthy.
And of course, what they will see on the internet about her. She has overshared a lot. And it stays.
Everyone is terribly concerned.
+1
The poor kids. Dealing with their mothers death and then the dad just immediately shoving this woman into their lives. And everyone knows all this embarrassing public information about her. They will be vilified in school.
How about y'all stop contributing to the trauma by social shaming the father? Sometimes its better to keep your mouth shut and let people make their own decisions.
I have still yet to see any harm to these kids. Tinsely didn't invite TV cameras into their lives.
Widowed dads re-marry quickly...a tale as old as time.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 07:54
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The focus is the children. And what they have been exposed to and seen.
It’s dreadful and cringeworthy.
And of course, what they will see on the internet about her. She has overshared a lot. And it stays.
Everyone is terribly concerned.
+1
The poor kids. Dealing with their mothers death and then the dad just immediately shoving this woman into their lives. And everyone knows all this embarrassing public information about her. They will be vilified in school.
It’s not like he’s the first guy who got remarried quickly. Most men do this.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 07:54
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it me or is Tinsley Mortimer the weirdest name?
Her maiden name is Mercer. She kept Topper’s last name even after they divorced because it’s way more prestigious.
Tinsley is a weird name. Pretentious, which is the vibe I got from her mother when I used to watch RHONY. Timsley herself, however, seemed like a genuinely nice person.
Tinsley’s full given name was Tinsley Randolph Mercer. Her sister was Dabney Winston Mercer. These are pretty standard Richmond high society-type names.
+1. Adding that in the south it’s considered low class to have a normal trendy name. The middle name is often a family name or you go by your middle name.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 07:48
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it me or is Tinsley Mortimer the weirdest name?
Her maiden name is Mercer. She kept Topper’s last name even after they divorced because it’s way more prestigious.
Tinsley is a weird name. Pretentious, which is the vibe I got from her mother when I used to watch RHONY. Timsley herself, however, seemed like a genuinely nice person.
Tinsley’s full given name was Tinsley Randolph Mercer. Her sister was Dabney Winston Mercer. These are pretty standard Richmond high society-type names.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 07:24
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it me or is Tinsley Mortimer the weirdest name?
Her maiden name is Mercer. She kept Topper’s last name even after they divorced because it’s way more prestigious.
Or because it's what the majority of women do??
Ew really? I couldn’t wait to ditch that losers name.
Anonymous
11/16/2023 07:03
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:The focus is the children. And what they have been exposed to and seen.
It’s dreadful and cringeworthy.
And of course, what they will see on the internet about her. She has overshared a lot. And it stays.
Everyone is terribly concerned.
+1
The poor kids. Dealing with their mothers death and then the dad just immediately shoving this woman into their lives. And everyone knows all this embarrassing public information about her. They will be vilified in school.
Anonymous
11/15/2023 23:23
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:The focus is the children. And what they have been exposed to and seen.
It’s dreadful and cringeworthy.
And of course, what they will see on the internet about her. She has overshared a lot. And it stays.
Everyone is terribly concerned.
And if they don’t see it on the internet they’re going to forget that their stepmom moved into their home within a year of their mom’s death?
Anonymous
11/15/2023 22:47
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The focus is the children. And what they have been exposed to and seen.
It’s dreadful and cringeworthy.
And of course, what they will see on the internet about her. She has overshared a lot. And it stays.
Everyone is terribly concerned.
For the first time on DCUM I agree with a stand alone eyeroll.
Anonymous
11/15/2023 22:35
Subject: Tinsley Mortimer getting married?
Anonymous wrote:I agree that the DH is awful for doing this to his kids.
Tinsley should just go back to Topper or find someone else.
Maybe Ramona’s ex husband!
Huh? Topper is remarried with a kid. They’ve been divorced a long time.