Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The only thing that is funny is how desperate athlete parents are to convince us either that (a) our kids aren’t stupid or (b) if they are it’s because they spend oh so many hours in practice.
Just own it. Your kid is less qualified academically but the school took them to fill a need. But don’t harp on first gen, legacy or other hooks while you do it. Then you’re both desperate and a hypocrite.
I think the only thing that’s funny is that an adult sees things in such a black and white way. How do you account for kids like mine, both Ivy athletes, one who was valedictorian and NMSF and one who graduated from college summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa? The schools may have taken them to fill a need, because they do need to fill their athletic rosters, but my kids - and many of their teammates- were most certainly academically qualified. But keep your false narrative, for whatever comfort it provides you.
Except it’s not a false narrative for revenue sports. This is all quite factual and it is what it is.
Let’s just say it in simple words…yes a recruited football, basketball or baseball player can have stats much lower than the averages at an Ivy school. Much, much lower at a Duke or Stanford that awards athletic scholarships.
My first child got accepted to Yale with an SAT of 1190 and 3.2 GPA as a 5-star recruit. The second child got accepted to Stanford with an SAT of 1270 and a 3.3 GPA as a blue chip recruit. This was about ten years ago.
Anonymous wrote:I thought the Ivys tried to maintain some sort of team gpa as well. So if one recruited athlete was at the lower end (yet above the minimum, whatever that is), other athletes will be at the higher end.
But that’s just what we heard when my DS was thinking about college sports.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The only thing that is funny is how desperate athlete parents are to convince us either that (a) our kids aren’t stupid or (b) if they are it’s because they spend oh so many hours in practice.
Just own it. Your kid is less qualified academically but the school took them to fill a need. But don’t harp on first gen, legacy or other hooks while you do it. Then you’re both desperate and a hypocrite.
I think the only thing that’s funny is that an adult sees things in such a black and white way. How do you account for kids like mine, both Ivy athletes, one who was valedictorian and NMSF and one who graduated from college summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa? The schools may have taken them to fill a need, because they do need to fill their athletic rosters, but my kids - and many of their teammates- were most certainly academically qualified. But keep your false narrative, for whatever comfort it provides you.
Exactly! As I said, some kids have it all. Not mine, but PP's do, and good for them! They should be commended.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The only thing that is funny is how desperate athlete parents are to convince us either that (a) our kids aren’t stupid or (b) if they are it’s because they spend oh so many hours in practice.
Just own it. Your kid is less qualified academically but the school took them to fill a need. But don’t harp on first gen, legacy or other hooks while you do it. Then you’re both desperate and a hypocrite.
I think the only thing that’s funny is that an adult sees things in such a black and white way. How do you account for kids like mine, both Ivy athletes, one who was valedictorian and NMSF and one who graduated from college summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa? The schools may have taken them to fill a need, because they do need to fill their athletic rosters, but my kids - and many of their teammates- were most certainly academically qualified. But keep your false narrative, for whatever comfort it provides you.
Except it’s not a false narrative for revenue sports. This is all quite factual and it is what it is.
Let’s just say it in simple words…yes a recruited football, basketball or baseball player can have stats much lower than the averages at an Ivy school. Much, much lower at a Duke or Stanford that awards athletic scholarships.
Anonymous wrote:The only thing that is funny is how desperate athlete parents are to convince us either that (a) our kids aren’t stupid or (b) if they are it’s because they spend oh so many hours in practice.
Just own it. Your kid is less qualified academically but the school took them to fill a need. But don’t harp on first gen, legacy or other hooks while you do it. Then you’re both desperate and a hypocrite.
I think the only thing that’s funny is that an adult sees things in such a black and white way. How do you account for kids like mine, both Ivy athletes, one who was valedictorian and NMSF and one who graduated from college summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa? The schools may have taken them to fill a need, because they do need to fill their athletic rosters, but my kids - and many of their teammates- were most certainly academically qualified. But keep your false narrative, for whatever comfort it provides you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DS is a D1 athlete at a T25. Yes, he had SAT score above the 75th percentile for that school and 4 plus gpa with 10 AP’s. Happened to be a stellar athlete to boot. Same for another kid whose stats and rigor I know on his team. It’s incredibly difficult handling academics and 40hours of sport/travel a week, so having a solid academic base/study habits/intellect is essential.
Again, what is the sport? We all know that the "one-and-done" basketball players at Duke do not have anything near the stats of the non-athletes at Duke.
Anonymous wrote:The only thing that is funny is how desperate athlete parents are to convince us either that (a) our kids aren’t stupid or (b) if they are it’s because they spend oh so many hours in practice.
Just own it. Your kid is less qualified academically but the school took them to fill a need. But don’t harp on first gen, legacy or other hooks while you do it. Then you’re both desperate and a hypocrite.
I think the only thing that’s funny is that an adult sees things in such a black and white way. How do you account for kids like mine, both Ivy athletes, one who was valedictorian and NMSF and one who graduated from college summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa? The schools may have taken them to fill a need, because they do need to fill their athletic rosters, but my kids - and many of their teammates- were most certainly academically qualified. But keep your false narrative, for whatever comfort it provides you.
Anonymous wrote:The only thing that is funny is how desperate athlete parents are to convince us either that (a) our kids aren’t stupid or (b) if they are it’s because they spend oh so many hours in practice.
Just own it. Your kid is less qualified academically but the school took them to fill a need. But don’t harp on first gen, legacy or other hooks while you do it. Then you’re both desperate and a hypocrite.
I think the only thing that’s funny is that an adult sees things in such a black and white way. How do you account for kids like mine, both Ivy athletes, one who was valedictorian and NMSF and one who graduated from college summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa? The schools may have taken them to fill a need, because they do need to fill their athletic rosters, but my kids - and many of their teammates- were most certainly academically qualified. But keep your false narrative, for whatever comfort it provides you.
Anonymous wrote:The only thing that is funny is how desperate athlete parents are to convince us either that (a) our kids aren’t stupid or (b) if they are it’s because they spend oh so many hours in practice.
Just own it. Your kid is less qualified academically but the school took them to fill a need. But don’t harp on first gen, legacy or other hooks while you do it. Then you’re both desperate and a hypocrite.
I think the only thing that’s funny is that an adult sees things in such a black and white way. How do you account for kids like mine, both Ivy athletes, one who was valedictorian and NMSF and one who graduated from college summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa? The schools may have taken them to fill a need, because they do need to fill their athletic rosters, but my kids - and many of their teammates- were most certainly academically qualified. But keep your false narrative, for whatever comfort it provides you.
The only thing that is funny is how desperate athlete parents are to convince us either that (a) our kids aren’t stupid or (b) if they are it’s because they spend oh so many hours in practice.
Just own it. Your kid is less qualified academically but the school took them to fill a need. But don’t harp on first gen, legacy or other hooks while you do it. Then you’re both desperate and a hypocrite.