Anonymous
Post 12/03/2023 12:44     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Or it’s his own kids, who we know, too, making them doubly victimized. It’s horrifying for everyone involved. It’s just unfathomably horrifying.
Anonymous
Post 12/03/2023 11:47     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So Black’s trial for creating child pornography is in a few weeks. Has AAC answered whether this man was on deck or chaperoning trips with kids? The fact the club is acting like they know nothing is scary.


Where tf did he get access to these kids??


I don't know where he did in this particular case. I guess we will find out at trial. But most predators will befriend parents and kids and work them that way or prey upon kids via vidoegames and online. Parents give kids phones in 5th grade and it makes for easy victims.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2023 20:23     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:So Black’s trial for creating child pornography is in a few weeks. Has AAC answered whether this man was on deck or chaperoning trips with kids? The fact the club is acting like they know nothing is scary.


Where tf did he get access to these kids??
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 10:30     Subject: Re:AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The lack of information and reporting on this is crazy. I saw a picture of him online and he looks familiar - does anyone know what summer pool his family goes to?


Where did you find a picture? I cannot find anything online that definitively links the Mark Black I know, and whose house my children have been to, with the one charged. I'm hoping it is not the one we know, but the likelihood of there being two men with the same name, age, and ties to AAC seems improbable.


https://www.linkedin.com/in/markablack1/

I will say that he never looked like this at the pool, but this is him.


+1 it has to be the same guy but the one we interacted with at sports had longer hair. Not as buttoned up looking.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 09:35     Subject: Re:AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:It's nauseating. I googled him last night, do an image search and it's the first image. A government lawyer. A good friend knows him and considered him a friend but is now gutted at knowing this monster. Said he seemed like a totally normal dad, the kind of guy you'd let drive your kids in carpool or have a beer with or whatever.

I hope all his victims are getting help, as well as his own wife and kids whose lives have been destroyed.


Interesting, at AAC he was always trying to chat incessantly with people on deck, parents/kids etc.- overly friendly in an off putting way, not picking up social cues. Reminds me of predators trying to befriend the parent to get to the kid.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 09:32     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I served on the board with Mark for 3 years. He never chaperoned for AAC. Nor was he on deck during practices. His little contact with swimmers would have been at the beginning of the year picnic with all AAC families, end of the year banquet with families, or 1 meet in concessions. Board members/ parents do not just roam the deck at practice or at meets. We are as shocked as everyone else. There was not 1 indicator of inappropriate behavior from Mark Black in his duties on the board and he did not cross any lines in his contact with coaches, swimmers or other parents. He acted professionally and was good at meditating team conflict. I am in no way defending him. He is a despicable human who has destroyed countless lives- including his family. I am simply saying- he had this well hidden and fooled everyone. If you want his pic- his linked in is still up- he was a lawyer for the fdic


You cannot possibly know this. It can take years for someone to reckon with childhood sexual abuse and eventually tell someone.


This. If he did something to other kids it might be years before they come forward.

Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 08:56     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:I served on the board with Mark for 3 years. He never chaperoned for AAC. Nor was he on deck during practices. His little contact with swimmers would have been at the beginning of the year picnic with all AAC families, end of the year banquet with families, or 1 meet in concessions. Board members/ parents do not just roam the deck at practice or at meets. We are as shocked as everyone else. There was not 1 indicator of inappropriate behavior from Mark Black in his duties on the board and he did not cross any lines in his contact with coaches, swimmers or other parents. He acted professionally and was good at meditating team conflict. I am in no way defending him. He is a despicable human who has destroyed countless lives- including his family. I am simply saying- he had this well hidden and fooled everyone. If you want his pic- his linked in is still up- he was a lawyer for the fdic


You cannot possibly know this. It can take years for someone to reckon with childhood sexual abuse and eventually tell someone.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 08:50     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:I served on the board with Mark for 3 years. He never chaperoned for AAC. Nor was he on deck during practices. His little contact with swimmers would have been at the beginning of the year picnic with all AAC families, end of the year banquet with families, or 1 meet in concessions. Board members/ parents do not just roam the deck at practice or at meets. We are as shocked as everyone else. There was not 1 indicator of inappropriate behavior from Mark Black in his duties on the board and he did not cross any lines in his contact with coaches, swimmers or other parents. He acted professionally and was good at meditating team conflict. I am in no way defending him. He is a despicable human who has destroyed countless lives- including his family. I am simply saying- he had this well hidden and fooled everyone. If you want his pic- his linked in is still up- he was a lawyer for the fdic


Thank you for the information. You've confirmed my fear that this is the same person I was afraid it was. My children used to spend time at their house for play dates when they were younger, and the therapist for one of them has asked multiple times if there was any history if abuse considering the mental health struggles they've had, so this really concerns me.

What a shame. My heart is broken for his wife and children. They are such nice people.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 07:23     Subject: Re:AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
It's nauseating. I googled him last night, do an image search and it's the first image. A government lawyer. A good friend knows him and considered him a friend but is now gutted at knowing this monster. Said he seemed like a totally normal dad, the kind of guy you'd let drive your kids in carpool or have a beer with or whatever.

I hope all his victims are getting help, as well as his own wife and kids whose lives have been destroyed.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 07:20     Subject: Re:AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The lack of information and reporting on this is crazy. I saw a picture of him online and he looks familiar - does anyone know what summer pool his family goes to?


Where did you find a picture? I cannot find anything online that definitively links the Mark Black I know, and whose house my children have been to, with the one charged. I'm hoping it is not the one we know, but the likelihood of there being two men with the same name, age, and ties to AAC seems improbable.


https://www.linkedin.com/in/markablack1/

I will say that he never looked like this at the pool, but this is him.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 07:18     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:AAC better get a statement out real quick. This is nauseating.


They did. According to the statement, there are no allegations related to AAC or any AAC team members.


That is reassuring. Did it address him on deck or reassure parents he was not a chaperone (ever)?


Not to the families of the children involved.


No, this is true. Nor to his wife and children. It all makes me want to vomit. What he did to those poor kids, his family, and the victims that we will not know about.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 07:11     Subject: Re:AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The lack of information and reporting on this is crazy. I saw a picture of him online and he looks familiar - does anyone know what summer pool his family goes to?


Where did you find a picture? I cannot find anything online that definitively links the Mark Black I know, and whose house my children have been to, with the one charged. I'm hoping it is not the one we know, but the likelihood of there being two men with the same name, age, and ties to AAC seems improbable.


I’m wondering the same, the one I know is from kids baseball…


I think that the family was also involved with baseball.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 06:57     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:I served on the board with Mark for 3 years. He never chaperoned for AAC. Nor was he on deck during practices. His little contact with swimmers would have been at the beginning of the year picnic with all AAC families, end of the year banquet with families, or 1 meet in concessions. Board members/ parents do not just roam the deck at practice or at meets. We are as shocked as everyone else. There was not 1 indicator of inappropriate behavior from Mark Black in his duties on the board and he did not cross any lines in his contact with coaches, swimmers or other parents. He acted professionally and was good at meditating team conflict. I am in no way defending him. He is a despicable human who has destroyed countless lives- including his family. I am simply saying- he had this well hidden and fooled everyone. If you want his pic- his linked in is still up- he was a lawyer for the fdic


I am an AAC parent and he was on deck during practices on occasion. I have seen current board members (one woman in particular) that will be occasionally be on deck during practices. The Board is secretive. Sorry, it is true. One the website and at the parent meeting they welcome all to the Board meetings. But none of us have ever seen the email announcing the meetings and where they are located. Most organizations send out reminders, encourage members to show up, or at least have a zoom link to join. Practices are open to the public, so I don't think it can be stopped but as a parent, it makes me realize that a person like Mark Black was also moving through the locker rooms and/or paying "attention" to young kids.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 01:57     Subject: Re:AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The lack of information and reporting on this is crazy. I saw a picture of him online and he looks familiar - does anyone know what summer pool his family goes to?


Where did you find a picture? I cannot find anything online that definitively links the Mark Black I know, and whose house my children have been to, with the one charged. I'm hoping it is not the one we know, but the likelihood of there being two men with the same name, age, and ties to AAC seems improbable.


I’m wondering the same, the one I know is from kids baseball…
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2023 01:29     Subject: AAC President in the SAFESPORT Database
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:AAC better get a statement out real quick. This is nauseating.


They did. According to the statement, there are no allegations related to AAC or any AAC team members.


That is reassuring. Did it address him on deck or reassure parents he was not a chaperone (ever)?


Not to the families of the children involved.