Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 23:06     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

Anonymous wrote:I've been calling my cousin kiddo for years. It's her nickname. I don't use it for anyone else.

I cannot stand "littles" and "kidlets".


Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 23:04     Subject: Re:Can we ban “kiddo?”

No.

Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 22:46     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

I've been calling my cousin kiddo for years. It's her nickname. I don't use it for anyone else.

I cannot stand "littles" and "kidlets".
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 22:41     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

I'd like to see sweetie, honey, any condescending term like that banned on DCUM. That's no way to start a comment.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 21:41     Subject: Re:Can we ban “kiddo?”

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When I worked in elementary schools, I said, "Kiddo" and "Honey" often.


You can SAY it directly to a kid all you want. We’re talking about using it on DCUM. It’s soooo annoying


OK, sorry -- I didn't read the whole thread.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 21:38     Subject: Re:Can we ban “kiddo?”

Anonymous wrote:When I worked in elementary schools, I said, "Kiddo" and "Honey" often.


You can SAY it directly to a kid all you want. We’re talking about using it on DCUM. It’s soooo annoying
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 21:35     Subject: Re:Can we ban “kiddo?”

When I worked in elementary schools, I said, "Kiddo" and "Honey" often.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 21:25     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

Anonymous wrote:Ban “Littles”!


I just realize what annoys me about it. It reminds me of a woman who used to always refer to her daughter as her "mini." And always that construction -- "my mini." They did look alike. But there's something about referring to your kid like they are just a mini verse of you that is very gross to me. And especially when it's a diminutive. If feels really narcissistic and precious.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 21:02     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

Anonymous wrote:Nope. Freedom of speech.


Okay dork
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 20:36     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

Ban “Littles”!
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 20:33     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

Yes please! Hate it!!
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 20:33     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

I like the word.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 20:31     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

Sometimes I call my kids “kiddo” as a term of endearment like “sweetheart” or “dear” (which I also use). Personally the one in find grating in that context is honey but given that these kinds of things are generally strictly in a family it’s not my business.

Using kiddo/kiddos (or littles blech) for other people’s kids feels definitely odd to me and I don’t do it but it doesn’t drive me crazy when others do.

And for the people arguing that kiddo/littles are gendered, I think male equivalent is “buddy” which honestly I don’t like very much either.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 20:19     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

Rugrats or offspring for me
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2023 20:17     Subject: Can we ban “kiddo?”

Anonymous wrote:I also hate the word kid. Can we add that to the banned list?


But what then would we call baby goats