Anonymous wrote:I put this here in the most unfriendly/ranting terms so that you get the deal without all the self-delusion typical for DCUM. In real life, I say none of this and really love and help our very kind fourth-grader.
But my wonderful fourth-grader sucks at math.
We live in Ward 4 and have our kid in a DCPS where many or most of the kids are doing the same or worse, but again not to sugarcoat it, we're a dual income meritocrat high-income family whose parents/siblings/other kids have done more than good in school, basically excelled always, whichever schools we've gone to (which have varied a lot)....and our baseline expectations are either excellence without extraordinary effort (parents and other kids) or at least ability in line with elementary school kids in Ward 3.
But, again, this kid sucks at math. Like in multiplication problems on homework, doesn't figure out that multiplication is the way to solve the problem. Doesn't know the times table. Counts with fingers up to 10. UP TO 10. Any time there's a math problem, sidles around the problem to try to get us parents to tell them the answer.
To me, this distinctly seems like undereducation. Not necessarily a developmental delay or anything, just "well, everybody else in this DCPS Title I elementary is doing this bad so shrug." I am not surprised if that's the way it really is for the teachers there, who probably work from the worst kids on up, triage style, and this kid, who's not failing but not excelling, gets ignored.
My question now isn't "tutors, supplementing, ask the teachers to explain, have a meeting, call the principal, get a counselor, consider mental health challenges and screen time, blah blah blah" (Again I'm writing like this because I'm anonymously venting, not because I sound like this or want to cause drama in real life).
The question is - where can I get better for my kid in middle school? A place that will actually get this kid to build capacity to identify problems, answer them with specific learned techniques, and thereby become a capable math student? ALSO It has to be a school that has a chance of entry in the lottery. Gimme some school names!
I have thought that our local DCPS MS would be fine for years, but if it's as half-assed as the elementary, I'm doubtful. I get that I could do a lackadaisical school for this kid and tutor them myself, but I'd appreciate in middle school a setting that does what schools are supposed to do and not just settle for lack of education/lack of rigor because students around my child are just as lazy/unfocused/unready/untaught/whatever.
I'd appreciate thoughts.
Anonymous wrote:+1
Our DCPS kids have needed more drilling on math facts. They had an amazing teacher in 2-3, but for the younger one, that was during the pandemic. Even though the teacher taught his ass off, my younger one was not fluent in her times tables in 4th. I realized this kind of late and we tackled with flash cards, writing out times tables, reciting in the car, learning tricks, etc. she is now in 6th, and still only had a 3 in math on parcc last year, so I want to do more. I think we can handle via khan academy, and she’s already started to take initiative herself to do. Like my husband and I, her strengths are more in reading and writing, and she is really ahead in those areas. I’ve suggested Mathnasium or Russian school of math to her, but she’s not interested and it’s not convenient to where we live/our schedule. But we’ll see. We may have to do that.
Anonymous wrote:Fwiw, fact fluency is a huge emphasis in DCPS this year. We (teachers) are being coached heavily in it and I think there will be more focus on it in the next few years as we get stronger in implementing this new program.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I strongly agree with others encouraging OP to research dyscalculia and look into testing for that specific math learning disability. I wish we’d done it sooner. Our child exhibited very similar math difficulties around 4th/5th grade. They got worse in middle school and of course were compounded by the pandemic. Fast forward to high school and we finally got a diagnosis of dyscalculia after a disastrous algebra experience.
Dyscalculia is under-diagnosed and still not well understood but there are some tell-tale signs. Good luck!
OK but sounds like many have not carefully read what OP wrote. She said many or most of the kids in the class are doing the same or worst. Her child is not an outlier. She does not think it’s a developmental delay but under-education because "well, everybody else in this DCPS Title I elementary is doing this bad so shrug."
OP says it's Ward 4, and there is no elementary school in Ward 4 where all the kids are doing that bad. And OP said her other kids did fine there.
No she did not say her other kid did fine at the same school. She said that parents/siblings/other kids did fine at varied schools, not the same school as this child.
She says she is at a title 1 DCPS school in ward 4. So yes, if greater than 50% of the kids are not scoring a 4 on PARCC at a school in ward 4 and scoring 1 and 2 then yes majority of kids are that bad. Guess you have not seen the data from DC how the lowest performers have declined dramatically in abilities since COVID.
Get out of your denial. PP is like you and why her kid is now in the position he is.
Ok, OP actually said "many or most" of the kids are doing the same or worse. Assuming that means scoring a 1 or a 2, there are a few DCPS elementary schools in Ward 4 performing that low, but not all. Depending on how you define "many", I suppose.
OP also said the schools her kids have gone to have varied a lot. Could that be playing a role? If the kid has been exposed to many different math curricula without enough time in any one program, that could make learning more difficult.