Anonymous
10/12/2024 09:58
Subject: Re:Widowed dad wants to date again
My dad has been with the women he cheated on my mom with. My Mom has just been gone a year. Now her daughters are at my dad's home. I think he is their father 
He has lied to use all these years
He has lied to use all these years
Anonymous
10/12/2024 07:39
Subject: Re:Widowed dad wants to date again
My then-69 yo MIL had been widowed 16 years when she remarried. My husband had a hard time accepting she was engaged when she started wearing a diamond ring.
Nonetheless, everyone rejoiced at their wedding and they enjoyed only 6 years of marriage before he died. His kids were always lovely to my MIL.
It all worked out. I think there was a prenup.
After my own then-85 yo mom moved into assisted living, she had a boyfriend. I was surprised but not bothered at all.
Nonetheless, everyone rejoiced at their wedding and they enjoyed only 6 years of marriage before he died. His kids were always lovely to my MIL.
It all worked out. I think there was a prenup.
After my own then-85 yo mom moved into assisted living, she had a boyfriend. I was surprised but not bothered at all.
Anonymous
10/12/2024 00:43
Subject: Re:Widowed dad wants to date again
My dad has been with the women he cheated on my mom with. My Mom has just been gone a year. Now her daughters are at my dad's home. I think he is their father He has lied to use all these years
He has lied to use all these years
Anonymous
09/20/2023 08:54
Subject: Re:Widowed dad wants to date again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Tell him dating and cohabitating is fine but don't get married. Check on wills/trusts and if he does get married insist on a pre-nup.
Why? It’s his money to do with as he wishes. This would be completely gauche.
Nope. Elder financial abuse and romance scams are real. You need to be plugged in and weighing in on financial decisions of your aging parents.
Signed, someone who actually educates about this working for their local securities regulator.
Do you have suggestions on how to go about this?
Anonymous
09/20/2023 04:02
Subject: Re:Widowed dad wants to date again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Tell him dating and cohabitating is fine but don't get married. Check on wills/trusts and if he does get married insist on a pre-nup.
Why? It’s his money to do with as he wishes. This would be completely gauche.
Nope. Elder financial abuse and romance scams are real. You need to be plugged in and weighing in on financial decisions of your aging parents.
Signed, someone who actually educates about this working for their local securities regulator.