Anonymous wrote:Our contractor has 2 children come to the job site for 2 hours every week, after school. He is putting in a new deck. OMG, the 7 year old girl got a hold of the leaf blower and blew dirt everywhere, including our neighbors yard. Then the 9 year old boy bounced a hard baseball off our new deck boards. The little girl got crayon all over our outdoor seating cushion. I want them to never come again. I told the contractor I don't want them on the new deck and playing with power equipment. He felt like I should be building a relationship with his kids during the 2 hours they are at the house. I have even given the kids Legos and a train set to play with, but they prefer to put rocks in my fountain!. I want the project over before someone gets hurt. I have canceled meetings, just so they are not left unsupervised at my house, which is filled with valuable antiques. I will never forget this nightmare!
"Are you familiar with the concept of the mental load? It's how women are expected to manage everything to ensure their families' well-being while men just do a few assigned tasks if they want to. I am not going to do that for someone else's kids -- you need to figure this out. On your own. Your kids are bored and I don't blame them, but you need to figure out how to keep them from damaging my house. I hired you to improve it, not fix one thing while another one turns to crap."