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Anonymous wrote:This is an interesting threat for me, a long time Capitol Hill dweller, with a kid about to start high school at Walls. If we hadn't had lottery luck, we were definitely thinking through the options contained in this thread - move to the burbs, suck up a commute to a private, rent inbounds for JW . . . . Fortunately, it did not come to that. Capitol Hill is just an incredibly charming "village" to live in. I absolutely love being walking distance to so much - shops, restaurants, riverfront at Navy Yard, the Mall, my work. Many, many kid's activities within a mile. And the walk is always lovely - on brick sidewalks, past varied and attractive hundred plus year old rowhomes, old churches, the Supreme Court, and the Capitol Building, the Mall (on the way to work)) - you never feel like you are walking alongside a freeway, or next to a strip mall, as can happen so frequently in the burbs. We have friends who live in Bethesda, around 1.5 miles from the metro - but I can't imagine that being a pleasant walk. And most of the streets in their particular neighborhood don't even have sidewalks. I think what it comes down to is you either really, really enjoy this kind of dense, walkable and historical neighborhood (Capitol Hill), or it is just not that important to you (and you don't really like it). No doubt the uptick in crimei has me worried - but I think that a lot of places are struggling to right the ship, post-pandemic, and enough people are invested in the neighborhood that the pendulum will swing back soon enough.

If you hadn’t gotten lucky in the lottery (where did your Walls kid go for MS?), would you have moved, despite loving your neighborhood?

That’s the question.

People who got lucky in the lottery don’t get it.

This this this. All of our friends had great lottery luck. We have our own luck, but it's not without sacrifice (money and commute). They don't understand why we want to move.

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Anonymous wrote:This is an interesting threat for me, a long time Capitol Hill dweller, with a kid about to start high school at Walls. If we hadn't had lottery luck, we were definitely thinking through the options contained in this thread - move to the burbs, suck up a commute to a private, rent inbounds for JW . . . . Fortunately, it did not come to that. Capitol Hill is just an incredibly charming "village" to live in. I absolutely love being walking distance to so much - shops, restaurants, riverfront at Navy Yard, the Mall, my work. Many, many kid's activities within a mile. And the walk is always lovely - on brick sidewalks, past varied and attractive hundred plus year old rowhomes, old churches, the Supreme Court, and the Capitol Building, the Mall (on the way to work)) - you never feel like you are walking alongside a freeway, or next to a strip mall, as can happen so frequently in the burbs. We have friends who live in Bethesda, around 1.5 miles from the metro - but I can't imagine that being a pleasant walk. And most of the streets in their particular neighborhood don't even have sidewalks. I think what it comes down to is you either really, really enjoy this kind of dense, walkable and historical neighborhood (Capitol Hill), or it is just not that important to you (and you don't really like it). No doubt the uptick in crimei has me worried - but I think that a lot of places are struggling to right the ship, post-pandemic, and enough people are invested in the neighborhood that the pendulum will swing back soon enough.

If you hadn’t gotten lucky in the lottery (where did your Walls kid go for MS?), would you have moved, despite loving your neighborhood?

That’s the question.

People who got lucky in the lottery don’t get it.

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Anonymous wrote:NP, but in a similar boat as OP.

Folks are posting about moving from CH to other parts of the city or close in (Arlington). I don't really consider any of these the true burbs. What about folks who moved closer to the beltway? Where little is really walkable, takeout is slim pickings, etc.?

We moved from petworth to Oakton. We love it. We didn’t realize how much stress we lived with weighed on us - crime particularly- till we were out. We love being around more nature and letting the kids run around and having a bigger space for family visits. Our neighborhood has been really nice and we’ve met nice families but we made the effort to introduce ourselves when we moved in because you don’t have that row home proximity to help out. Have to be proactive in the burbs for sure. Our school has more diversity than our dc public did. We’ve had zero regrets.

um. if your public school was in Petworth, this is literally not possible. Oakton is 75% white.

People are just saying anything lol

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Anonymous wrote:Are you considering moving to NW, or outside of DC? I am asking because before we got great 5th grade lottery luck we were having the same conversations in our house. We came to the conclusion that the NW burbs were really just that; burbs. Deal and JR are the best public schools in DC, but they do not compare favorably to the best public schools in MD or VA. If we were prepared to leave CH for schools, we weren't going to nibble around the edges for JR and were going to just pull the ripcord and decamp for true burbs and objectively better schools.

I think this is how we feel, too EXCEPT since we only have one kid, we've actually considered just moving into an apartment zoned for Deal/JR that is in the densest, most urban parts of the catchment. So basically Van Ness or Wisconsin Avenue near the Cathedral. Something pretty walkable and very close to public transportation. If we did this, we wouldn't even sell our house, just rent it out until DC finishes HS.

What we could afford to buy in NW would be far from the metro and very suburban, and if we're going to do that, we might as well leave DC and get a little more value/space for our money and really good schools.

Renting an apartment IB for Deal/Wilson was a viable strategy 5 years ago. But you should proceed with caution today. The city has placed hundreds (thousands?) of homeless in the buildings along CT and WI. It’s not at all a family friendly environment it once was. Also, there is a tremendous push from the ANCs and CM Frumin to add more affordable housing in Ward 3, which is obviously noble. But, the schools are already overcrowded and there is no relief in sight. MacArthur HS is a rounding error and won’t make a dent in the overcrowding. Do your homework.

I don’t know if the numbers are that high but yeah, DC turning middle class housing into homeless shelters was … quite the move. When I was considering the move to NW and renting, I learned that there are some buildings and management companies with better reps. Also renting in a condo building or renting a house (there are some small ones) is lower risk.

Oh stop with your Ward 3 Whining. There is homeless housing and low-income housing in every ward and you're not so special that you get a pass.

Homeless shelters should be built where it's cheapest. That would also allow DC to build more shelters per the given amount of funding.

No, homeless shelters should be built in a way that does not further concentrate poverty, near transit (including bus lines) and other amenities, and near places that can provide employment/medical care/social services. Homeless shelters and low-income housing more generally should not be places to warehouse people we'd rather forget about. Ideally, they should be springboards to help people get back on their feet with the services and support they need. Although it's a good org, CCNV's location is not exactly conducive to doing anything besides staying homeless.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you considering moving to NW, or outside of DC? I am asking because before we got great 5th grade lottery luck we were having the same conversations in our house. We came to the conclusion that the NW burbs were really just that; burbs. Deal and JR are the best public schools in DC, but they do not compare favorably to the best public schools in MD or VA. If we were prepared to leave CH for schools, we weren't going to nibble around the edges for JR and were going to just pull the ripcord and decamp for true burbs and objectively better schools.

I think this is how we feel, too EXCEPT since we only have one kid, we've actually considered just moving into an apartment zoned for Deal/JR that is in the densest, most urban parts of the catchment. So basically Van Ness or Wisconsin Avenue near the Cathedral. Something pretty walkable and very close to public transportation. If we did this, we wouldn't even sell our house, just rent it out until DC finishes HS.

What we could afford to buy in NW would be far from the metro and very suburban, and if we're going to do that, we might as well leave DC and get a little more value/space for our money and really good schools.

Renting an apartment IB for Deal/Wilson was a viable strategy 5 years ago. But you should proceed with caution today. The city has placed hundreds (thousands?) of homeless in the buildings along CT and WI. It’s not at all a family friendly environment it once was. Also, there is a tremendous push from the ANCs and CM Frumin to add more affordable housing in Ward 3, which is obviously noble. But, the schools are already overcrowded and there is no relief in sight. MacArthur HS is a rounding error and won’t make a dent in the overcrowding. Do your homework.

I don’t know if the numbers are that high but yeah, DC turning middle class housing into homeless shelters was … quite the move. When I was considering the move to NW and renting, I learned that there are some buildings and management companies with better reps. Also renting in a condo building or renting a house (there are some small ones) is lower risk.

Oh stop with your Ward 3 Whining. There is homeless housing and low-income housing in every ward and you're not so special that you get a pass.

Homeless shelters should be built where it's cheapest. That would also allow DC to build more shelters per the given amount of funding.

Anonymous wrote:This is a silly thread. Nobody’s going to admit to having regrets about having moved. If you’re heavily invested in Hill life and can’t afford private school, you roll with the punches on DC public schools EotP past elementary. If you aren’t invested, you leave and rave about your wonderful life in Upper NW or the burbs.

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Anonymous wrote:We raised our kids in Arlington too, after moving to the DMV from elsewhere, not really being city people, and knowing nothing about DC. We’ve now lived in the area for decades, and moved to the city as young empty nesters several years ago.

There’s no doubt that our kids had a nice upbringing in a safe area with good schools. And they have fond memories of their childhood. And they like the DMV well enough that they have all settled here.

But none of them (four) is even considering living or raising their families in a place like Arlington (and, yes, they could afford it). It’s just that after being out of it for a while it’s now painfully obvious just how white, sterile and insular it was, and none of them want that either for themselves or their kids.

Did your kids go to Yorktown? My kids are at Gunston. It is definitely not rich, white and entitled.

Our kids attended North Arlington schools. No one with any real money moves from DC to South Arlington for the schools. Not because they’re not good - they are - but because they’re not perceived as good.

You’re the minority if you did.

I am the PP. My kids are in the bilingual program so my kids take a bus to Gunston instead of walking to our N. Arlington middle school. Gunston has great teachers and we are all glad we left the hill.

That’s great - good for you. But you didn’t move to South Arlington I see.

I want to like South Arlington but it is pretty ugly

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Anonymous wrote:We raised our kids in Arlington too, after moving to the DMV from elsewhere, not really being city people, and knowing nothing about DC. We’ve now lived in the area for decades, and moved to the city as young empty nesters several years ago.

There’s no doubt that our kids had a nice upbringing in a safe area with good schools. And they have fond memories of their childhood. And they like the DMV well enough that they have all settled here.

But none of them (four) is even considering living or raising their families in a place like Arlington (and, yes, they could afford it). It’s just that after being out of it for a while it’s now painfully obvious just how white, sterile and insular it was, and none of them want that either for themselves or their kids.

Did your kids go to Yorktown? My kids are at Gunston. It is definitely not rich, white and entitled.

Our kids attended North Arlington schools. No one with any real money moves from DC to South Arlington for the schools. Not because they’re not good - they are - but because they’re not perceived as good.

You’re the minority if you did.

I am the PP. My kids are in the bilingual program so my kids take a bus to Gunston instead of walking to our N. Arlington middle school. Gunston has great teachers and we are all glad we left the hill.

That’s great - good for you. But you didn’t move to South Arlington I see.

Anonymous wrote:We raised our kids in Arlington too, after moving to the DMV from elsewhere, not really being city people, and knowing nothing about DC. We’ve now lived in the area for decades, and moved to the city as young empty nesters several years ago.

There’s no doubt that our kids had a nice upbringing in a safe area with good schools. And they have fond memories of their childhood. And they like the DMV well enough that they have all settled here.

But none of them (four) is even considering living or raising their families in a place like Arlington (and, yes, they could afford it). It’s just that after being out of it for a while it’s now painfully obvious just how white, sterile and insular it was, and none of them want that either for themselves or their kids.

Anonymous wrote:This is an interesting threat for me, a long time Capitol Hill dweller, with a kid about to start high school at Walls. If we hadn't had lottery luck, we were definitely thinking through the options contained in this thread - move to the burbs, suck up a commute to a private, rent inbounds for JW . . . . Fortunately, it did not come to that. Capitol Hill is just an incredibly charming "village" to live in. I absolutely love being walking distance to so much - shops, restaurants, riverfront at Navy Yard, the Mall, my work. Many, many kid's activities within a mile. And the walk is always lovely - on brick sidewalks, past varied and attractive hundred plus year old rowhomes, old churches, the Supreme Court, and the Capitol Building, the Mall (on the way to work)) - you never feel like you are walking alongside a freeway, or next to a strip mall, as can happen so frequently in the burbs. We have friends who live in Bethesda, around 1.5 miles from the metro - but I can't imagine that being a pleasant walk. And most of the streets in their particular neighborhood don't even have sidewalks. I think what it comes down to is you either really, really enjoy this kind of dense, walkable and historical neighborhood (Capitol Hill), or it is just not that important to you (and you don't really like it). No doubt the uptick in crimei has me worried - but I think that a lot of places are struggling to right the ship, post-pandemic, and enough people are invested in the neighborhood that the pendulum will swing back soon enough.

Anonymous wrote:This is a silly thread. Nobody’s going to admit to having regrets about having moved. If you’re heavily invested in Hill life and can’t afford private school, you roll with the punches on DC public schools EotP past elementary. If you aren’t invested, you leave and rave about your wonderful life in Upper NW or the burbs.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you considering moving to NW, or outside of DC? I am asking because before we got great 5th grade lottery luck we were having the same conversations in our house. We came to the conclusion that the NW burbs were really just that; burbs. Deal and JR are the best public schools in DC, but they do not compare favorably to the best public schools in MD or VA. If we were prepared to leave CH for schools, we weren't going to nibble around the edges for JR and were going to just pull the ripcord and decamp for true burbs and objectively better schools.

I think this is how we feel, too EXCEPT since we only have one kid, we've actually considered just moving into an apartment zoned for Deal/JR that is in the densest, most urban parts of the catchment. So basically Van Ness or Wisconsin Avenue near the Cathedral. Something pretty walkable and very close to public transportation. If we did this, we wouldn't even sell our house, just rent it out until DC finishes HS.

What we could afford to buy in NW would be far from the metro and very suburban, and if we're going to do that, we might as well leave DC and get a little more value/space for our money and really good schools.

Renting an apartment IB for Deal/Wilson was a viable strategy 5 years ago. But you should proceed with caution today. The city has placed hundreds (thousands?) of homeless in the buildings along CT and WI. It’s not at all a family friendly environment it once was. Also, there is a tremendous push from the ANCs and CM Frumin to add more affordable housing in Ward 3, which is obviously noble. But, the schools are already overcrowded and there is no relief in sight. MacArthur HS is a rounding error and won’t make a dent in the overcrowding. Do your homework.

I don’t know if the numbers are that high but yeah, DC turning middle class housing into homeless shelters was … quite the move. When I was considering the move to NW and renting, I learned that there are some buildings and management companies with better reps. Also renting in a condo building or renting a house (there are some small ones) is lower risk.

Oh stop with your Ward 3 Whining. There is homeless housing and low-income housing in every ward and you're not so special that you get a pass.

Homeless shelters should be built where it's cheapest. That would also allow DC to build more shelters per the given amount of funding.