Anonymous wrote:I mean, yeah, but then you’re a software engineer. So boring. High paying and dorky.
All the tech bros I know driving around their Maseratis in their new-build NoVa communities have poor social skills and haven’t read a work of fiction since high school.
I’m glad they exist— otherwise I couldn’t be typing this on my phone today — but it’s an unappealing, poor fit for a lot of us with equally big brains
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am lawyer - why did I prefer it over tech? It's my interest.
Same. I’d be miserable in tech but I love being a lawyer.
Same. And same with my kid. He’ll probably end up in law school, because he’s took after me, and not my engineer DH.
Are those his only two options?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People who do well in BigLaw would also do well in finance. I always wonder why they didn’t go with finance. You start making 250-300k very early in your twenties then can progress to millions easily.
If you want to take a step back for work life balance, your step back is still making 1 mil/very high six figures instead of 150k with the Feds.
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Anonymous wrote:People who do well in BigLaw would also do well in finance. I always wonder why they didn’t go with finance. You start making 250-300k very early in your twenties then can progress to millions easily.
If you want to take a step back for work life balance, your step back is still making 1 mil/very high six figures instead of 150k with the Feds.
Anonymous wrote:i would never.....law is the most soul robbing "profession" around. Don't give rats a$$ what it pays. 95% of the lawyers I know hate their jobs...and this includes a few earning over $1m.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am lawyer - why did I prefer it over tech? It's my interest.
Same. I’d be miserable in tech but I love being a lawyer.
Same. And same with my kid. He’ll probably end up in law school, because he’s took after me, and not my engineer DH.
Anonymous wrote:Your kid obviously didn’t land a big law job. He’d be making more money than the other kid if he did. First years starting at age 25 or 26 make well over $200k and by the time they’re 30 they’re making close to $350k.
So basically the other kid is a star in his field and your kid isn’t.
Anonymous wrote:I find this a pointless thread. The assumption that "anyone" can do a CS/engineering degree and waltz into a FAANG job with a six figure income right out of college is ridiculous. When I was in college 25 years ago, CS degrees were already starting to get desirable and I had classmates studying CS and I listened to them talk about their classes and glanced at their textbooks and my eyes immediately glazed over. Not for me. Brain very firmly said nope, no thank you. I wouldn't have lasted a year. I'd only have gone into "tech" in a non-tech role.
To do well in "tech" as a programmer or designer, you do need a special kind of brain attuned to the demands of the work. These kids are lucky to have the right brain and right interest at the right time in history.
There are many routes to success. Tech isn't the only one.
Anonymous wrote:Tech generally has a shorter career span. If you are going to purely max income, start with tech, then at 30 or so get a law degree. And keep in mind that there are no guarantees in life, and that everyone has different ideas of what happiness and success means.