Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women and girls should be free not to shave.

But others are free to not find that attractive. Same as you or I find different traits, looks, characteristics attractive. I personally do not like it when women don't shave but that is up to them to decide for themselves and how they like to look. And I feel much cleaner when I am shaven.

Neither is right or wrong.

“Not finding that attractive,” is fine. That’s a thought you keep inside your head. It’s not a rude thing you say out loud. You don’t bully, shame, or judge out loud. You keep your subjective opinions on how others look to yourself. I assume that’s how you think, feel and behave, but it’s a little concerning that you didn’t actually say it. So I did you the favor.

Thank you for giving people the approval for their thoughts. LOL.

Anonymous wrote:Just wondering if this is a new trend. My older teen daughter has decided she doesn't like shaving her legs anymore. She is still wearing shorts and it's getting pretty long. She also has a summer job where she works outdoors and is working with the public.

I know it's her body just a little worried about what people might say to her, or if it will affect her job in any way. Or is this common now for teen girls?

Why do you care? What your daughter does with her body hair literally doesn't impact you at all.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women and girls should be free not to shave.

But others are free to not find that attractive. Same as you or I find different traits, looks, characteristics attractive. I personally do not like it when women don't shave but that is up to them to decide for themselves and how they like to look. And I feel much cleaner when I am shaven.

Neither is right or wrong.

Absolutely to all of that. Except it’s just that you just feel cleaner, not that you are cleaner. Otherwise, I assume you’d shave your arms and head as well.

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Thus the use of the word "feel."

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women and girls should be free not to shave.

But others are free to not find that attractive. Same as you or I find different traits, looks, characteristics attractive. I personally do not like it when women don't shave but that is up to them to decide for themselves and how they like to look. And I feel much cleaner when I am shaven.

Neither is right or wrong.

“Not finding that attractive,” is fine. That’s a thought you keep inside your head. It’s not a rude thing you say out loud. You don’t bully, shame, or judge out loud. You keep your subjective opinions on how others look to yourself. I assume that’s how you think, feel and behave, but it’s a little concerning that you didn’t actually say it. So I did you the favor.

That’s not how the world works, sweetheart.

It is for kind, mature, rational people. Non-bullies do, indeed, have thoughts and feelings of “oh I don’t like looking at hairy armpits” or “oh I am not attracted to her because of her leg hair,” but they do not say those things out loud. The only people who say unkind, judgmental things about others’ personal appearance out loud—to that person or behind their back—are unkind, immature people.

But actually, you unkind, immature bullies are doing the world a favor. You are making it clear that you are not worthwhile people, so we know to stay far away from you and cultivate friendships, romantic relationships and other connections with kind, mature people. So by all means keep it up. It is ever so helpful when you reveal your ugly nature.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women and girls should be free not to shave.

But others are free to not find that attractive. Same as you or I find different traits, looks, characteristics attractive. I personally do not like it when women don't shave but that is up to them to decide for themselves and how they like to look. And I feel much cleaner when I am shaven.

Neither is right or wrong.

“Not finding that attractive,” is fine. That’s a thought you keep inside your head. It’s not a rude thing you say out loud. You don’t bully, shame, or judge out loud. You keep your subjective opinions on how others look to yourself. I assume that’s how you think, feel and behave, but it’s a little concerning that you didn’t actually say it. So I did you the favor.

That’s not how the world works, sweetheart.

Anonymous wrote:Women and girls should be free not to shave.

But others are free to not find that attractive. Same as you or I find different traits, looks, characteristics attractive. I personally do not like it when women don't shave but that is up to them to decide for themselves and how they like to look. And I feel much cleaner when I am shaven.

Neither is right or wrong.

“Not finding that attractive,” is fine. That’s a thought you keep inside your head. It’s not a rude thing you say out loud. You don’t bully, shame, or judge out loud. You keep your subjective opinions on how others look to yourself. I assume that’s how you think, feel and behave, but it’s a little concerning that you didn’t actually say it. So I did you the favor.

Yes, she's 15 and shaves pits and legs.

Anonymous wrote:Women and girls should be free not to shave.

But others are free to not find that attractive. Same as you or I find different traits, looks, characteristics attractive. I personally do not like it when women don't shave but that is up to them to decide for themselves and how they like to look. And I feel much cleaner when I am shaven.

Neither is right or wrong.

Absolutely to all of that. Except it’s just that you just feel cleaner, not that you are cleaner. Otherwise, I assume you’d shave your arms and head as well.

Women and girls should be free not to shave.

But others are free to not find that attractive. Same as you or I find different traits, looks, characteristics attractive. I personally do not like it when women don't shave but that is up to them to decide for themselves and how they like to look. And I feel much cleaner when I am shaven.

Neither is right or wrong.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want women with hairy legs or pits. Teach your daughter how to function in society.

Why does my daughter need men to want her in order to function in society? Weird.

So she can be a stay at home mom with a nice house and low stress.

Lol. Yeah stay at home mom's who are on the clock 24-7 have low stress. PP your remark shows your stupidity. My DD has a very large house that she bought prior to meeting her husband.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want women with hairy legs or pits. Teach your daughter how to function in society.

Who cares what men want?

Women interested in dating and getting married do.

And men interested in dating and getting married need to know it's not all about them. So a woman should just do what a man wants? Neither men or women should stop being themselves. I think it's a good way to judge whether or not a man is one you'd want to spend your life with. If he doesn't respect your decisions about you own body that's a big red flag.

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want women with hairy legs or pits. Teach your daughter how to function in society.

Or teach your daughter to stand up for herself and do what she wants. Find a partner who doesn't care what amount of body hair she has.

I think the PP is my grandmother posting from 1950

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My 17 year old and all her friends shave their legs, armpits and get Brazilian waxes. Literally all of them. No hair anywhere.

Salons do Brazilian waxes on minors?

No, they don't.

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want women with hairy legs or pits. Teach your daughter how to function in society.

You run in provincial circles.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want women with hairy legs or pits. Teach your daughter how to function in society.

Who cares what men want?

Women interested in dating and getting married do.

We’re talking about teenagers here. Regardless, lots of women who shave never find a partner. Lots of women who shave find very bad partners. Nothing is certain. Better to be good with yourself first and see where life leads you.