Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, What are your ages, gross income last year and net worth? Get a password manager.
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I made $213K last year. Idk his total but I’ll find it when I have to sign our tax return. But we got an extension on it. And it’s probably somewhat over $300K total but that is always the best estimate I can give until we always see how much we made since neither salary.
Idk our net worth. I’ll let you know when I find out.
I hate all these logins and passwords but maybe I can try to learn one new one a day. He can’t give them to me because he doesn’t know them either. It’s an entire rigamarole anytime he needs access.
You are making more than 2/3 of the HHI but he is the one calling the shots, he is the one knowing where money is being spent. Maybe he is the one spending the money and you don't know where the money is going. You are a good spouse.
Anonymous wrote:It’s really silly to put $1600 a month into your mortgage. I would stop that right now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, What are your ages, gross income last year and net worth? Get a password manager.
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I made $213K last year. Idk his total but I’ll find it when I have to sign our tax return. But we got an extension on it. And it’s probably somewhat over $300K total but that is always the best estimate I can give until we always see how much we made since neither salary.
Idk our net worth. I’ll let you know when I find out.
I hate all these logins and passwords but maybe I can try to learn one new one a day. He can’t give them to me because he doesn’t know them either. It’s an entire rigamarole anytime he needs access.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here are kids activity expenses which I guess you can tell me is crazy and you all don’t spend this much for kids activities.
Kid 1: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $200 each fall and spring for rec sport. (May not continue swimming next year for interest reasons)
Kid 2: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $1000 each fall & spring for travel sport (but seriously considering switching back to rec only next season for not being worth it for talent reasons)
Kid 3: $300/mo. dance; $160 mo. gymnastics
There is also an $50/mo. instrument rental for a kid.
You are spending too much on kids activity. You should drop everything on this list.
Activities are free. Can't your kids go out and play? There are playgrounds everywhere. Don't they have friends they can play with?
It's not like the olden days, mee-maw, times are different now.
Keep spending $16k a year on this then. But don't come back here crying about bleeding money.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here are kids activity expenses which I guess you can tell me is crazy and you all don’t spend this much for kids activities.
Kid 1: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $200 each fall and spring for rec sport. (May not continue swimming next year for interest reasons)
Kid 2: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $1000 each fall & spring for travel sport (but seriously considering switching back to rec only next season for not being worth it for talent reasons)
Kid 3: $300/mo. dance; $160 mo. gymnastics
There is also an $50/mo. instrument rental for a kid.
You are spending too much on kids activity. You should drop everything on this list.
Activities are free. Can't your kids go out and play? There are playgrounds everywhere. Don't they have friends they can play with?
It's not like the olden days, mee-maw, times are different now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here are kids activity expenses which I guess you can tell me is crazy and you all don’t spend this much for kids activities.
Kid 1: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $200 each fall and spring for rec sport. (May not continue swimming next year for interest reasons)
Kid 2: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $1000 each fall & spring for travel sport (but seriously considering switching back to rec only next season for not being worth it for talent reasons)
Kid 3: $300/mo. dance; $160 mo. gymnastics
There is also an $50/mo. instrument rental for a kid.
You are spending too much on kids activity. You should drop everything on this list.
Activities are free. Can't your kids go out and play? There are playgrounds everywhere. Don't they have friends they can play with?
It's not like the olden days, mee-maw, times are different now.
Lol this made me laugh. Love u guys.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here are kids activity expenses which I guess you can tell me is crazy and you all don’t spend this much for kids activities.
Kid 1: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $200 each fall and spring for rec sport. (May not continue swimming next year for interest reasons)
Kid 2: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $1000 each fall & spring for travel sport (but seriously considering switching back to rec only next season for not being worth it for talent reasons)
Kid 3: $300/mo. dance; $160 mo. gymnastics
There is also an $50/mo. instrument rental for a kid.
You are spending too much on kids activity. You should drop everything on this list.
Activities are free. Can't your kids go out and play? There are playgrounds everywhere. Don't they have friends they can play with?
It's not like the olden days, mee-maw, times are different now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here are kids activity expenses which I guess you can tell me is crazy and you all don’t spend this much for kids activities.
Kid 1: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $200 each fall and spring for rec sport. (May not continue swimming next year for interest reasons)
Kid 2: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $1000 each fall & spring for travel sport (but seriously considering switching back to rec only next season for not being worth it for talent reasons)
Kid 3: $300/mo. dance; $160 mo. gymnastics
There is also an $50/mo. instrument rental for a kid.
You are spending too much on kids activity. You should drop everything on this list.
Activities are free. Can't your kids go out and play? There are playgrounds everywhere. Don't they have friends they can play with?
Anonymous wrote:Here are kids activity expenses which I guess you can tell me is crazy and you all don’t spend this much for kids activities.
Kid 1: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $200 each fall and spring for rec sport. (May not continue swimming next year for interest reasons)
Kid 2: $275/mo. swim, plus appx. $1000 each fall & spring for travel sport (but seriously considering switching back to rec only next season for not being worth it for talent reasons)
Kid 3: $300/mo. dance; $160 mo. gymnastics
There is also an $50/mo. instrument rental for a kid.