Anonymous
03/05/2023 12:02
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Why does Randy W. remain silent on the critical issue of school safety for teachers and students?
Anonymous
03/05/2023 12:00
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The kid got suspended, and you’re still mad? What exactly would you like to happen?
What should happen should be the following:
1) An immediate chat with local law enforcement
2) 2 week suspension
3) Removed from the school and put in a therapeutic school
4) Daily therapy
None of this will happen. Teachers need to keep leaving until there is no one to do the job. NO employee should be expected to go to work and see the same person who threatened to rape them. Yes, it is a middle school child. And yes, the teachers and other students need to be protected from the trauma of having to see this student every day.
Tell me, if another kid in your kid's class tells your 12 year old daughter he is going to rape her, are you okay with that kid merely being suspended and back sitting next to her the following week? If you are, please seek help.
Thank you I agree....I know several teachers leaving this year. There needs to be a nationwide strike. The out of control behavior is at every level.
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:58
Subject: Re:Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Colleen Ritzer was raped and murdered by a 14-year old student in a school bathroom in 2013.
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:55
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The kid got suspended, and you’re still mad? What exactly would you like to happen?
What should happen should be the following:
1) An immediate chat with local law enforcement
2) 2 week suspension
3) Removed from the school and put in a therapeutic school
4) Daily therapy
None of this will happen. Teachers need to keep leaving until there is no one to do the job. NO employee should be expected to go to work and see the same person who threatened to rape them. Yes, it is a middle school child. And yes, the teachers and other students need to be protected from the trauma of having to see this student every day.
Tell me, if another kid in your kid's class tells your 12 year old daughter he is going to rape her, are you okay with that kid merely being suspended and back sitting next to her the following week? If you are, please seek help.
+1,000,000. Thank you.
Surely we all understand that our elected politicians are 100% ok with the current state of affairs. Not one of them cares. Why would they?
*Local politicians, that is.
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:54
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Today a teacher I work with got into an altercation with a kid in n the hallway and the kid threatened to hold her down and rape her. Kid got one day’s suspension. He has high functioning autism, but he is also in the gifted program and takes all Gen Ed classes.
This kind of B.S. seriously makes me want to leave the profession.
Fact is, the teacher was put on notice. Does a rape victim feel better if her racist was having a mental episode? Did she even make a written report? If someone in your neighborhood threatened to rape you, you get a protection order from the court.
You all know your administrators and elected school board will do absolutely nothing to protect you from the violent thugs who get zero effective consequences. Your working environment is a potential war zone in a split second. Did you sign up for this? I think not. Yet, you keep voting for more of the same insanity. Please explain.
You all are mentally ill to put up with this. Get the hell out of that hell hole while you can still walk on your own two legs. Haven’t you seen the evidence of the teacher who was recently nearly beaten to death? The Police Chief said she’s lucky to be alive. Only two ribs were broken. Maybe you’re thinking that school was in a bad area or something. Well, it wasn’t. I happen to know exactly where it is.
Does anyone know how many assaults there are on public school property every day? Or what, if anything happened to the perpetrator? Does anyone really care enough to do something about it?
Yup
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:54
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The kid got suspended, and you’re still mad? What exactly would you like to happen?
What should happen should be the following:
1) An immediate chat with local law enforcement
2) 2 week suspension
3) Removed from the school and put in a therapeutic school
4) Daily therapy
None of this will happen. Teachers need to keep leaving until there is no one to do the job. NO employee should be expected to go to work and see the same person who threatened to rape them. Yes, it is a middle school child. And yes, the teachers and other students need to be protected from the trauma of having to see this student every day.
Tell me, if another kid in your kid's class tells your 12 year old daughter he is going to rape her, are you okay with that kid merely being suspended and back sitting next to her the following week? If you are, please seek help.
+1,000,000. Thank you.
Surely we all understand that our elected politicians are 100% ok with the current state of affairs. Not one of them cares. Why would they?
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:51
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Today a teacher I work with got into an altercation with a kid in n the hallway and the kid threatened to hold her down and rape her. Kid got one day’s suspension. He has high functioning autism, but he is also in the gifted program and takes all Gen Ed classes.
This kind of B.S. seriously makes me want to leave the profession.
Give the kid a break. He’s autistic!
Hopefully the teacher will get a break from parents when she quits mid year.
BINGO!
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:49
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you think he would actually do it? Because I don’t think so.
That’s what HFA is: sometimes they don’t know what they are saying really.
I think he understood exactly what he was saying. Would he really do it? Hopefully not
I honestly don’t think so. Either he is bad at controlling his impulses (a typical kid could think that but not say it out loud) or he doesn’t quite understand the seriousness of saying it out loud.
If he hasn’t been violent, he needs a really good talk about how these things are really too serious to say out loud. We all have horrible thoughts, we just learned to control them (some people don’t even admit to themselves they have thoughts and feelings that are not acceptable).
It is not typical to even think about raping someone.
First, you probably aren’t a man or a woman with those fantasies. Second, the student probably doesn’t really know what he is talking about.
Right, and u think most people typically don't have those fantasies. Particularly 12 year olds.
He doesn’t know what he is saying. Like a nerd saying “I’ll beat the crap out of you”.
Do you not see the difference between saying that to a peer and saying it to a teacher?
I do, but he doesn’t
Curious, how can you be so sure?
The kid is 12 for Pete’s sake
Just stop....you sound stupid.
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:45
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Do people still wonder why teacher's quit?
seriously
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:45
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Do you think he would actually do it? Because I don’t think so.
That’s what HFA is: sometimes they don’t know what they are saying really.
You are part of the problem. This is not ok.
Anonymous
03/05/2023 11:43
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:The kid got suspended, and you’re still mad? What exactly would you like to happen?
What should happen should be the following:
1) An immediate chat with local law enforcement
2) 2 week suspension
3) Removed from the school and put in a therapeutic school
4) Daily therapy
None of this will happen. Teachers need to keep leaving until there is no one to do the job. NO employee should be expected to go to work and see the same person who threatened to rape them. Yes, it is a middle school child. And yes, the teachers and other students need to be protected from the trauma of having to see this student every day.
Tell me, if another kid in your kid's class tells your 12 year old daughter he is going to rape her, are you okay with that kid merely being suspended and back sitting next to her the following week? If you are, please seek help.
Anonymous
03/05/2023 02:40
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
The kid got suspended, and you’re still mad? What exactly would you like to happen?
Anonymous
03/04/2023 23:43
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you think he would actually do it? Because I don’t think so.
That’s what HFA is: sometimes they don’t know what they are saying really.
I think he understood exactly what he was saying. Would he really do it? Hopefully not
I honestly don’t think so. Either he is bad at controlling his impulses (a typical kid could think that but not say it out loud) or he doesn’t quite understand the seriousness of saying it out loud.
If he hasn’t been violent, he needs a really good talk about how these things are really too serious to say out loud. We all have horrible thoughts, we just learned to control them (some people don’t even admit to themselves they have thoughts and feelings that are not acceptable).
It is not typical to even think about raping someone.
First, you probably aren’t a man or a woman with those fantasies. Second, the student probably doesn’t really know what he is talking about.
Right, and u think most people typically don't have those fantasies. Particularly 12 year olds.
He doesn’t know what he is saying. Like a nerd saying “I’ll beat the crap out of you”.
You aren’t his psychiatrist. You have no idea whatsoever whether he knew what he was saying or not.
One doesn’t need to be his psychiatrist to know that 12 yo kids don’t mean it in an adult sense
+1
It’s not a “violent fantasy” for a 12 year old. They heard about it somewhere, don’t really understand the violence, and repeat it trying to be tough.
It’s absolutely not OK and there should be consequences, but it’s certainly not the same as a NT adult saying it.
Anonymous
03/04/2023 23:17
Subject: Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you think he would actually do it? Because I don’t think so.
That’s what HFA is: sometimes they don’t know what they are saying really.
I think he understood exactly what he was saying. Would he really do it? Hopefully not
I honestly don’t think so. Either he is bad at controlling his impulses (a typical kid could think that but not say it out loud) or he doesn’t quite understand the seriousness of saying it out loud.
If he hasn’t been violent, he needs a really good talk about how these things are really too serious to say out loud. We all have horrible thoughts, we just learned to control them (some people don’t even admit to themselves they have thoughts and feelings that are not acceptable).
It is not typical to even think about raping someone.
First, you probably aren’t a man or a woman with those fantasies. Second, the student probably doesn’t really know what he is talking about.
Exactly. It's totally normal for a child to have violent sexual fantasies. You prudes ruin everything.
/s
Anonymous
03/04/2023 23:07
Subject: Re:Middle school kid told a teacher that he would rape her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a former teacher, the big issue is just that teachers have no influence on how things get sorted out.
In elementary school, there are all kinds of transgressions that just get corrected and let go. We’ve all been hit by an upset kindergartener or threatened by a 3rd grader trying something out. That’s part of the job. The problem is there isn’t a good way to catch escalation and teachers’ judgments about who is really threatening aren’t respected. Two middle schoolers could threaten to rape me and one is a good kid who was upset or didn’t have a filter and was trying something they’ve heard, and one could be a very real threat from someone physically big enough to hurt me and I could be genuinely scared. The system is going to treat both the same.
You were a good teacher, PP! Thank you
I feel so sorry for any teacher who honestly believes that anyone who threatens to rape her, could be a “good kid who was upset, or didn’t have a filter”.
Are you FREGGIN kidding me???? Is this the crap they learned in college?
Well, if the “good kid” had some physical resemblance to her own son or loved one, she might be able to look into his big blue eyes and know that he could never have meant it. Woe to the ones who have no resemblance though.