Anonymous wrote:Ivana’s mother is still alive. Poor lady.
Anonymous wrote:Ivana’s mother is still alive. Poor lady.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Agree. So sad that she passed. I almost hope she died before she fell because if she fell and needed help and died lying alone there would be such a terrible death. I am surprised that no one lived with her. I would think she have had live in help even for security reasons. It feels like everyday I am hearing about someone dying lately. Depressing time.
It's not an uncommon death for the age in place crowd. Over the past 10 years 4 of my friends have lost parents to falls and many of us had parents fall and be stuck for hours before discovered. it's so hard to get them to agree to the level of help needed.
I was not a fan of the book recommended here..something like "On being Mortal" but it does help me make peace with the fact my mother could die the same way. She is stubborn, refuses help, considered cognitively fine and has a staircase from hell. If she dies falling down those steps, it's on her terms living the way she wants.
But 73 is a bit young to be considered “aging in place” - and it’s young for Assisted Living. And obviously had every resource at her disposal.
He death was very shocking because she was so vibrant and larger than life.
She hasn’t been vibrant in ages. She’s been shuffling around for years. She appeared incredibly feeble for her age. My mom is 86 and way more nimble and bright than Ivana was these past 7 years.
Anonymous wrote:So sounds like she fell down the stairs and broke neck?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Agree. So sad that she passed. I almost hope she died before she fell because if she fell and needed help and died lying alone there would be such a terrible death. I am surprised that no one lived with her. I would think she have had live in help even for security reasons. It feels like everyday I am hearing about someone dying lately. Depressing time.
It's not an uncommon death for the age in place crowd. Over the past 10 years 4 of my friends have lost parents to falls and many of us had parents fall and be stuck for hours before discovered. it's so hard to get them to agree to the level of help needed.
I was not a fan of the book recommended here..something like "On being Mortal" but it does help me make peace with the fact my mother could die the same way. She is stubborn, refuses help, considered cognitively fine and has a staircase from hell. If she dies falling down those steps, it's on her terms living the way she wants.
But 73 is a bit young to be considered “aging in place” - and it’s young for Assisted Living. And obviously had every resource at her disposal.
He death was very shocking because she was so vibrant and larger than life.
Actually, 73 is well within the nursing home age. Plenty of younger people in assisted living. But of course she had ample resources, so probably would not have gone that route even if much older.
Is it? My parents are 75 and 78, and their friends are all around that age. They’re all still living in the same houses they’ve lived in for decades, socializing, traveling, going to events. They’re all pretty average middle class/UMC folks. Some are talking about moving into condos, but assisted living seems far in the future.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Agree. So sad that she passed. I almost hope she died before she fell because if she fell and needed help and died lying alone there would be such a terrible death. I am surprised that no one lived with her. I would think she have had live in help even for security reasons. It feels like everyday I am hearing about someone dying lately. Depressing time.
It's not an uncommon death for the age in place crowd. Over the past 10 years 4 of my friends have lost parents to falls and many of us had parents fall and be stuck for hours before discovered. it's so hard to get them to agree to the level of help needed.
I was not a fan of the book recommended here..something like "On being Mortal" but it does help me make peace with the fact my mother could die the same way. She is stubborn, refuses help, considered cognitively fine and has a staircase from hell. If she dies falling down those steps, it's on her terms living the way she wants.
But 73 is a bit young to be considered “aging in place” - and it’s young for Assisted Living. And obviously had every resource at her disposal.
He death was very shocking because she was so vibrant and larger than life.
Actually, 73 is well within the nursing home age. Plenty of younger people in assisted living. But of course she had ample resources, so probably would not have gone that route even if much older.
Is it? My parents are 75 and 78, and their friends are all around that age. They’re all still living in the same houses they’ve lived in for decades, socializing, traveling, going to events. They’re all pretty average middle class/UMC folks. Some are talking about moving into condos, but assisted living seems far in the future.
Anonymous wrote:RIP Ivana. A class act. She raised three wonderful children who have contributed much to our country and society. And of course was a big influence, partner and friend of “The Donald” as she famously nicknamed him. She will be missed.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Agree. So sad that she passed. I almost hope she died before she fell because if she fell and needed help and died lying alone there would be such a terrible death. I am surprised that no one lived with her. I would think she have had live in help even for security reasons. It feels like everyday I am hearing about someone dying lately. Depressing time.
It's not an uncommon death for the age in place crowd. Over the past 10 years 4 of my friends have lost parents to falls and many of us had parents fall and be stuck for hours before discovered. it's so hard to get them to agree to the level of help needed.
I was not a fan of the book recommended here..something like "On being Mortal" but it does help me make peace with the fact my mother could die the same way. She is stubborn, refuses help, considered cognitively fine and has a staircase from hell. If she dies falling down those steps, it's on her terms living the way she wants.
But 73 is a bit young to be considered “aging in place” - and it’s young for Assisted Living. And obviously had every resource at her disposal.
He death was very shocking because she was so vibrant and larger than life.
Anonymous wrote:A world class professional athlete, classy and smart.