Anonymous
Post 06/18/2022 20:12     Subject: Re:The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Why not enforce the Code of Conduct so the consequences match the offense? The problem is that teachers and administrators don’t follow through with consequences so students will test their boundaries of behavior. When there are no consequences, the bad behavior will persist. When there’s no communication with parents for the bad behavior, then parents don’t know to discipline children for the behavior at home.

Parents aren’t the adults with children at school. Quit whining and blaming others when you are not managing the students in your care.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2022 13:09     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

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Anonymous wrote:It’s almost as if many, many of their other friends and cousins and neighbor kids are already enjoying summer break, and the ridiculous school year that your leadership has created and stretched out instead of building in an appropriate amount of weather event dates is causing the kids to be fatigued and ready for summer already.


Op here--trust me I am not happy with my leadership about this and many other things. But these behaviors aren't the "I'm bored and antsy for summer! So hard to concentrate!" Behaviors. These are the--IDGAF when someone tells me to sit down in the cafeteria for the 10th time, I will throw food across 3 tables just to piss off the cafeteria monitor. It's the I'm going to start a fight on the playground and kick and hurt the admin when they come to break it up. I will scream my head off when I don't get my way and it's so loud it makes other kids cry. That kind of thing. It's not excessive giggling or the lines in the hallways being crazy because they're all wiggly that has been happening the last week of school for a thousand years. It's all very amplified this year. And they just don't care, which is scary. Because the teachers can't keep any semblance of control unless the students are taught to respect adults, and if that dwindles--the education system as we know it will be in crisis. It already is, but it's not yet at the tipping point. Imagine where your kids would go if there just weren't enough humans to safely staff a school. There won't be schools! Then where will your kids go during the day to learn and be careful for while parents work? How will we have an educated populace? I'm truly worried about this.


Sounds like the teacher in this case can't control their classroom. I'm sorry your kids have teachers like this but this seems to be more of an exception than anything else.


What an ignorant, inflammatory and judgment response. Walk in her shoes.

It is so sad and frustrating when people flippantly replace empathy and care with judgment. Ugh.

Teachers have had an insanely difficult couple of years. Kids ARE acting out way more than before. We should be supporting and encouraging them. Not tearing them down to score points on DCUM.


The teachers and administrators need to start calling and emailing the parents and demanding they either sit in the classroom and deal with the behavior or pick up their kids and deal with them. At some point, enough is enough. Hold parents accountable.


Parents get defensive and believe their children can do no wrong. Some parents don't even respond to emails. The admin can do this, but it's not always effective.


I have heard parents say “larla doesn’t do this at home, so it must be the fault of the school”. Usually that’s because the parent doesn’t set any limits or boundaries at home giving the kid free reign. It is the parent excuse to blame the school rather than themself.



The parents who told me that this year were all experts on the iPad. I had kindergarteners show me how to change settings on the iPad that I had never seen before. Of course, they behave at home when they spend that much time on an iPad. They tell me they can use them whenever they want and fall asleep with them. The parents verify this. My kid would be super easy to deal with if I let him do whatever he wanted.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2022 11:46     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

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Anonymous wrote:They were supposed to be out today. But they extended thru Friday because iof snow days.

And what are they doing in class? Watching movies. These are AP classes. Why are we potentially exposing kids to COVID to watch movies? This is stupid


My junior's AP classes are not full of movies. They're doing AP World History and AP Calculus until the bitter end, it seems!


Didn't they take the AP exams a month ago? Why are they still teaching content now -- seems a little too late.


I’m an AP teacher. We worked hard all year until the AP exam. Since then we just relaxed and had fun.


A well earned rest!


No, this is so flawed. You and your students have the entire summer to rest. TEACH something - another AP teacher


Disagree after earning a 5 on 5 AP Exams I think DC deserved a rest. Please feel free to complain. I honestly could care less about your opinion.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2022 09:52     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

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Anonymous wrote:They were supposed to be out today. But they extended thru Friday because iof snow days.

And what are they doing in class? Watching movies. These are AP classes. Why are we potentially exposing kids to COVID to watch movies? This is stupid


My junior's AP classes are not full of movies. They're doing AP World History and AP Calculus until the bitter end, it seems!


Didn't they take the AP exams a month ago? Why are they still teaching content now -- seems a little too late.


I’m an AP teacher. We worked hard all year until the AP exam. Since then we just relaxed and had fun.


A well earned rest!


No, this is so flawed. You and your students have the entire summer to rest. TEACH something - another AP teacher
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2022 07:58     Subject: Re:The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

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My kids' teachers basically stopped teaching the Friday before Memorial Day. June has been a complete waste, with nearly zero learning going on. The only teachers who seem to give a damn are the band teachers. Kids have been asking if they even need to go in this week because it's just movies and down time. I don't want to hear one word about learning loss when teachers basically gave up these last 3 weeks.



We had to stop teaching to get in all of the ridiculous testing. The testing windows end before school does so it's a lot of time with nothing to do.


So there's literally nothing that you can review or teach or go further in depth on? These kids were out of school for a year and are behind. Reviewing core math concepts and reading a short book for the last few weeks of school doesn't seem like too big a stretch.



I plan lessons but kids just stop coming. Kids had awful behavior this year and now have stopped showing up.


Umm so which is it? They stop coming or they come and have bad behavior? You teach the children that are there! Children need structure!



Really? Oh. I didn't know. Kids are allowed to get away with a lot of behavior now that they never used to before. Most have stopped showing up which is a blessing I teach the students who do show up. They are working in groups to create a product, market it and pitch it to the grade level.


Is this marketplace? My kids did that in 3rd grade. What a fun assignment! They key was not to hoard your money because, it would be worthless after the day. Mine amassed a small fortune selling HP wands that she made from tree branches and then bought out all the cake pops and brownies. Success! Hope this assignment is a bright spot for you, Teacher, and that you are getting parent support. Thank you for all you do.


My first grader did a version of this to learn about money, everybody made a mock storefront and sold little paper items (lots of candy shops and cupcake shops but I think one kid was selling little paper cars) so they learned about how to count money.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2022 07:55     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:It’s almost as if many, many of their other friends and cousins and neighbor kids are already enjoying summer break, and the ridiculous school year that your leadership has created and stretched out instead of building in an appropriate amount of weather event dates is causing the kids to be fatigued and ready for summer already.


Op here--trust me I am not happy with my leadership about this and many other things. But these behaviors aren't the "I'm bored and antsy for summer! So hard to concentrate!" Behaviors. These are the--IDGAF when someone tells me to sit down in the cafeteria for the 10th time, I will throw food across 3 tables just to piss off the cafeteria monitor. It's the I'm going to start a fight on the playground and kick and hurt the admin when they come to break it up. I will scream my head off when I don't get my way and it's so loud it makes other kids cry. That kind of thing. It's not excessive giggling or the lines in the hallways being crazy because they're all wiggly that has been happening the last week of school for a thousand years. It's all very amplified this year. And they just don't care, which is scary. Because the teachers can't keep any semblance of control unless the students are taught to respect adults, and if that dwindles--the education system as we know it will be in crisis. It already is, but it's not yet at the tipping point. Imagine where your kids would go if there just weren't enough humans to safely staff a school. There won't be schools! Then where will your kids go during the day to learn and be careful for while parents work? How will we have an educated populace? I'm truly worried about this.


This is sad. Probably a lot of issues going on here. Teachers aren't teaching any new material, and haven't been for the past month for the most part, so students aren't learning anything - boredom might be a factor, along with stress and the need for attention/stimulation. And of course some parents in some of these schools don't seem to have control over their children and aren't making sure their children don't mistreat others, but that has always been a problem.

My kids aren't experiencing this at their schools, thankfully. I'm taking that these are schools in rougher, lower income areas like Silver Spring?


Funny, my Silver Spring kid hasn’t experienced this. But go ahead with the insults if you must.


Mine had also not experienced these problems.

But this also be a reminder that kids from rich neighborhoods can be just as bratty and entitled and misbehaving.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 20:15     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:It’s almost as if many, many of their other friends and cousins and neighbor kids are already enjoying summer break, and the ridiculous school year that your leadership has created and stretched out instead of building in an appropriate amount of weather event dates is causing the kids to be fatigued and ready for summer already.


Op here--trust me I am not happy with my leadership about this and many other things. But these behaviors aren't the "I'm bored and antsy for summer! So hard to concentrate!" Behaviors. These are the--IDGAF when someone tells me to sit down in the cafeteria for the 10th time, I will throw food across 3 tables just to piss off the cafeteria monitor. It's the I'm going to start a fight on the playground and kick and hurt the admin when they come to break it up. I will scream my head off when I don't get my way and it's so loud it makes other kids cry. That kind of thing. It's not excessive giggling or the lines in the hallways being crazy because they're all wiggly that has been happening the last week of school for a thousand years. It's all very amplified this year. And they just don't care, which is scary. Because the teachers can't keep any semblance of control unless the students are taught to respect adults, and if that dwindles--the education system as we know it will be in crisis. It already is, but it's not yet at the tipping point. Imagine where your kids would go if there just weren't enough humans to safely staff a school. There won't be schools! Then where will your kids go during the day to learn and be careful for while parents work? How will we have an educated populace? I'm truly worried about this.


Sounds like the teacher in this case can't control their classroom. I'm sorry your kids have teachers like this but this seems to be more of an exception than anything else.


What an ignorant, inflammatory and judgment response. Walk in her shoes.

It is so sad and frustrating when people flippantly replace empathy and care with judgment. Ugh.

Teachers have had an insanely difficult couple of years. Kids ARE acting out way more than before. We should be supporting and encouraging them. Not tearing them down to score points on DCUM.


The teachers and administrators need to start calling and emailing the parents and demanding they either sit in the classroom and deal with the behavior or pick up their kids and deal with them. At some point, enough is enough. Hold parents accountable.


Parents get defensive and believe their children can do no wrong. Some parents don't even respond to emails. The admin can do this, but it's not always effective.


I have heard parents say “larla doesn’t do this at home, so it must be the fault of the school”. Usually that’s because the parent doesn’t set any limits or boundaries at home giving the kid free reign. It is the parent excuse to blame the school rather than themself.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 16:39     Subject: Re:The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Anonymous wrote:All ready to set up the gaming machine in class today. Mario, FTW!

It was a blast.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 15:45     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Sounds like every elementary school in Germantown.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 08:52     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Anonymous wrote:It's really, really bad. Even the "good" kids are acting out. Students do not respect the adults in the building or the rules and routines of the year.

I'm not surprised so many teachers are quitting


rich school problems
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 08:39     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:It’s almost as if many, many of their other friends and cousins and neighbor kids are already enjoying summer break, and the ridiculous school year that your leadership has created and stretched out instead of building in an appropriate amount of weather event dates is causing the kids to be fatigued and ready for summer already.


Op here--trust me I am not happy with my leadership about this and many other things. But these behaviors aren't the "I'm bored and antsy for summer! So hard to concentrate!" Behaviors. These are the--IDGAF when someone tells me to sit down in the cafeteria for the 10th time, I will throw food across 3 tables just to piss off the cafeteria monitor. It's the I'm going to start a fight on the playground and kick and hurt the admin when they come to break it up. I will scream my head off when I don't get my way and it's so loud it makes other kids cry. That kind of thing. It's not excessive giggling or the lines in the hallways being crazy because they're all wiggly that has been happening the last week of school for a thousand years. It's all very amplified this year. And they just don't care, which is scary. Because the teachers can't keep any semblance of control unless the students are taught to respect adults, and if that dwindles--the education system as we know it will be in crisis. It already is, but it's not yet at the tipping point. Imagine where your kids would go if there just weren't enough humans to safely staff a school. There won't be schools! Then where will your kids go during the day to learn and be careful for while parents work? How will we have an educated populace? I'm truly worried about this.


This is sad. Probably a lot of issues going on here. Teachers aren't teaching any new material, and haven't been for the past month for the most part, so students aren't learning anything - boredom might be a factor, along with stress and the need for attention/stimulation. And of course some parents in some of these schools don't seem to have control over their children and aren't making sure their children don't mistreat others, but that has always been a problem.

My kids aren't experiencing this at their schools, thankfully. I'm taking that these are schools in rougher, lower income areas like Silver Spring?


Funny, my Silver Spring kid hasn’t experienced this. But go ahead with the insults if you must.


My DCC kids haven't either. One had two quarterly finals on Thursday the other who is in first grade watched Moana which seems to be a nice way to wrap up anohter great year!
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 07:26     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:It’s almost as if many, many of their other friends and cousins and neighbor kids are already enjoying summer break, and the ridiculous school year that your leadership has created and stretched out instead of building in an appropriate amount of weather event dates is causing the kids to be fatigued and ready for summer already.


Op here--trust me I am not happy with my leadership about this and many other things. But these behaviors aren't the "I'm bored and antsy for summer! So hard to concentrate!" Behaviors. These are the--IDGAF when someone tells me to sit down in the cafeteria for the 10th time, I will throw food across 3 tables just to piss off the cafeteria monitor. It's the I'm going to start a fight on the playground and kick and hurt the admin when they come to break it up. I will scream my head off when I don't get my way and it's so loud it makes other kids cry. That kind of thing. It's not excessive giggling or the lines in the hallways being crazy because they're all wiggly that has been happening the last week of school for a thousand years. It's all very amplified this year. And they just don't care, which is scary. Because the teachers can't keep any semblance of control unless the students are taught to respect adults, and if that dwindles--the education system as we know it will be in crisis. It already is, but it's not yet at the tipping point. Imagine where your kids would go if there just weren't enough humans to safely staff a school. There won't be schools! Then where will your kids go during the day to learn and be careful for while parents work? How will we have an educated populace? I'm truly worried about this.


This is sad. Probably a lot of issues going on here. Teachers aren't teaching any new material, and haven't been for the past month for the most part, so students aren't learning anything - boredom might be a factor, along with stress and the need for attention/stimulation. And of course some parents in some of these schools don't seem to have control over their children and aren't making sure their children don't mistreat others, but that has always been a problem.

My kids aren't experiencing this at their schools, thankfully. I'm taking that these are schools in rougher, lower income areas like Silver Spring?


Funny, my Silver Spring kid hasn’t experienced this. But go ahead with the insults if you must.

Seriously! “Rougher, lower income Silver Spring.” You’re a snob PP and I’m glad you don’t live in SS.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 07:06     Subject: Re:The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

All ready to set up the gaming machine in class today. Mario, FTW!
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 06:11     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It’s almost as if many, many of their other friends and cousins and neighbor kids are already enjoying summer break, and the ridiculous school year that your leadership has created and stretched out instead of building in an appropriate amount of weather event dates is causing the kids to be fatigued and ready for summer already.


Op here--trust me I am not happy with my leadership about this and many other things. But these behaviors aren't the "I'm bored and antsy for summer! So hard to concentrate!" Behaviors. These are the--IDGAF when someone tells me to sit down in the cafeteria for the 10th time, I will throw food across 3 tables just to piss off the cafeteria monitor. It's the I'm going to start a fight on the playground and kick and hurt the admin when they come to break it up. I will scream my head off when I don't get my way and it's so loud it makes other kids cry. That kind of thing. It's not excessive giggling or the lines in the hallways being crazy because they're all wiggly that has been happening the last week of school for a thousand years. It's all very amplified this year. And they just don't care, which is scary. Because the teachers can't keep any semblance of control unless the students are taught to respect adults, and if that dwindles--the education system as we know it will be in crisis. It already is, but it's not yet at the tipping point. Imagine where your kids would go if there just weren't enough humans to safely staff a school. There won't be schools! Then where will your kids go during the day to learn and be careful for while parents work? How will we have an educated populace? I'm truly worried about this.


Sounds like the teacher in this case can't control their classroom. I'm sorry your kids have teachers like this but this seems to be more of an exception than anything else.


What an ignorant, inflammatory and judgment response. Walk in her shoes.

It is so sad and frustrating when people flippantly replace empathy and care with judgment. Ugh.

Teachers have had an insanely difficult couple of years. Kids ARE acting out way more than before. We should be supporting and encouraging them. Not tearing them down to score points on DCUM.


The teachers and administrators need to start calling and emailing the parents and demanding they either sit in the classroom and deal with the behavior or pick up their kids and deal with them. At some point, enough is enough. Hold parents accountable.


Parents get defensive and believe their children can do no wrong. Some parents don't even respond to emails. The admin can do this, but it's not always effective.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2022 00:24     Subject: The behaviors at school are AWFUL this week

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It’s almost as if many, many of their other friends and cousins and neighbor kids are already enjoying summer break, and the ridiculous school year that your leadership has created and stretched out instead of building in an appropriate amount of weather event dates is causing the kids to be fatigued and ready for summer already.


Op here--trust me I am not happy with my leadership about this and many other things. But these behaviors aren't the "I'm bored and antsy for summer! So hard to concentrate!" Behaviors. These are the--IDGAF when someone tells me to sit down in the cafeteria for the 10th time, I will throw food across 3 tables just to piss off the cafeteria monitor. It's the I'm going to start a fight on the playground and kick and hurt the admin when they come to break it up. I will scream my head off when I don't get my way and it's so loud it makes other kids cry. That kind of thing. It's not excessive giggling or the lines in the hallways being crazy because they're all wiggly that has been happening the last week of school for a thousand years. It's all very amplified this year. And they just don't care, which is scary. Because the teachers can't keep any semblance of control unless the students are taught to respect adults, and if that dwindles--the education system as we know it will be in crisis. It already is, but it's not yet at the tipping point. Imagine where your kids would go if there just weren't enough humans to safely staff a school. There won't be schools! Then where will your kids go during the day to learn and be careful for while parents work? How will we have an educated populace? I'm truly worried about this.


Sounds like the teacher in this case can't control their classroom. I'm sorry your kids have teachers like this but this seems to be more of an exception than anything else.


What an ignorant, inflammatory and judgment response. Walk in her shoes.

It is so sad and frustrating when people flippantly replace empathy and care with judgment. Ugh.

Teachers have had an insanely difficult couple of years. Kids ARE acting out way more than before. We should be supporting and encouraging them. Not tearing them down to score points on DCUM.


The teachers and administrators need to start calling and emailing the parents and demanding they either sit in the classroom and deal with the behavior or pick up their kids and deal with them. At some point, enough is enough. Hold parents accountable.