Anonymous wrote:Helen - I always loved the name, was a hard no for DH
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Benjamin. DH grew up with a family with a “Little Ben” and a “Big Ben” and the name still makes him laugh.
I'm from a family of Midwestern rednecks and the family was full of boys named for their fathers, and they were all Little/Big pairs. Big Don and Little Don. Big Jim and Little Jim. Big Lenny and Little Lenny. Big John and Little John. Big David and Little David.
"Big Ben" is hilarious.
Anonymous wrote:Benjamin. DH grew up with a family with a “Little Ben” and a “Big Ben” and the name still makes him laugh.

Anonymous wrote:I vetoed Elton. It makes me laugh to think my husband was serious about that one.
DH vetoed August. Just as well, as it's more trendy than I realized.
I loved Malcolm. We're a white family. Several white people told us it's a black person's name, like Malcolm X. It's the only name I sometimes think back on and wish we'd used. My husband was put off by the seemingly shocked responses.
Anonymous wrote:My husband must have been a miserable child because virtually every name I loved reminded him of someone he didn’t like in grade school.
James, Matthew, Christopher - all vetoed. Mary, Heather, Catherine - nope! There were others I don’t remember. Finally we found two names for which there was no association other than literary.