Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Adult child IS the same as a friend

imo, that's the approach you want.

I think that's really sad. Or maybe you're just super close with your friends. But I really hope there are things you can say with family that you wouldn't with people you don't share blood with.

Strange take. I share way more with my friends than family. I chose the former and am stuck with the latter!

I think it’s been a while since the OP responded but I am still very curious as to what the kitchen/bathroom were like. What are we talking about here? I have a feeling my definition of clean is very different from OPs.