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I’m not trashy at all. Quite the opposite. Very courteous and well respected by friends and in my profession. I dress modestly and I always have. Judge the behavior if you will but from the outside I’m a very normal person and the last person anyone would ever suspect.

Hahaha. You are deluding yourself. There is absolutely no way your character defect is limited to just cheating on your spouse - it shows up elsewhere in your life and people notice. You might think you aren’t trashy because the outside package isn’t obvious, but when the core is rotten the bruises eventually show on the outside.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you think JFK was trashy? And Clinton? And General Petraeus? Lots and lot of people have cheat- from every socioeconomic level and background. From WASP to trailer park. From car salesman to President.

I think all of them are scumbags. And Clinton was from a trailer park.

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I’m not trashy at all. Quite the opposite. Very courteous and well respected by friends and in my profession. I dress modestly and I always have. Judge the behavior if you will but from the outside I’m a very normal person and the last person anyone would ever suspect.

Hahaha. You are deluding yourself. There is absolutely no way your character defect is limited to just cheating on your spouse - it shows up elsewhere in your life and people notice. You might think you aren’t trashy because the outside package isn’t obvious, but when the core is rotten the bruises eventually show on the outside.

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Anonymous wrote:My dad cheated on my mom during business trips but no, I would not consider him trashy. He was more of a nerdy computer science type.

Bill Gates was a nerd cheater. I think he's disgusting and slimy. A lot of those Epstein clients were degenerates, like your dad.

Bezos and his broad are definitely trashy. Her all over Leo DiCaprio and her multiple affairs--yuck.

The married women cheaters I know were all trashy at parties (even the upscale ones). They gave off the I'll blow you under the table vibes and acted much like Sanchez if there was a ''high value' man around--even in front of their husbands or if it was a co-worker or friend's husband.

+1. Nerdy has nothing to do with being trashy. Above examples of nerds being slimy are good ones.

I think nerdy guys cheating later in life kinda makes sense to me. They’re pretty much invisible to women when they’re younger and they’re a little behind the curve socially speaking. As they age their interpersonal skills improve, plus they experience success, plus they’re smart which women start to care about later in life. Suddenly, they’re not as invisible as they’ve been all their lives and someone actually wants them. Meanwhile, their wives got to experience all the dating and sex they wanted in their younger years and were pretty much over it by
the time they got married.

I’m not trashy at all. Quite the opposite. Very courteous and well respected by friends and in my profession. I dress modestly and I always have. Judge the behavior if you will but from the outside I’m a very normal person and the last person anyone would ever suspect.

Anonymous wrote:From what I've seen, it's the behavior the cheater engages in while cheating or carrying on an affair that's often astoundingly trashy.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you think JFK was trashy? And Clinton? And General Petraeus? Lots and lot of people have cheat- from every socioeconomic level and background. From WASP to trailer park. From car salesman to President.

Actually, yes, I think all three are trashy. I still like Clinton though, he has lots of charisma even as an older man, so I can see why he can get away with it. Was probably the case with JFK too.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure people used to get away with cheating. Like everything else our lives are becoming more and more public.

But technology has also made it much easier. And there are so many ways to talk and message that don’t show up on a phone or phone bill. With the Internet, SAHMs that used to have no opportunity to find a partner- do online.

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Anonymous wrote:Usually the people that think they aren’t being cheated on or my parents have always been faithful are the ones being cheated on, as well. I think most people cheat but like someone said, that the cheaters that don’t get caught, tell no one.

Yes. I was one of them in a very happy, hot sex marriage. I even was on this board saying my spouse would never cheat. Friends and families saw us as that rare couple that were best friends, chemistry, and both good looking. He came off as a doting husband and family man. An honest person.

Well- damn. Blindsided. He fooled a lot of people. Devastated many as well. Some who still won’t talk to him.

How'd you catch him? Short version

He confessed because he’s still amaze just like her, and then she lost her shit here and accused everyone on the forum of being his Ashley Madison whore, who is trashy, naturellement, with a dumb husband unlike her big winner husband who she couldn’t help but forgive….

I read it three times and I really tried but I don't understand your answer