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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

NP. I would bat an eye. I think it’s reasonable to expect that you’re pretty much entirely devoted to your child’s well-being for the first year of their life. It’s hard for me to comprehend how dating would even factor in.

IMO, this is why Americans have such high marital dissatisfaction and divorce rates. A lot of moms completely and exclusively devote themselves to childcare, and no, it doesn't stop after the first year. It's important to take time for yourselves, go back to exercising, go on dates with your partners, have sex with them - mom with older kids here.

No, it’s NOT why there’s such a high divorce rate. You are delusional.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

NP. I would bat an eye. I think it’s reasonable to expect that you’re pretty much entirely devoted to your child’s well-being for the first year of their life. It’s hard for me to comprehend how dating would even factor in.

IMO, this is why Americans have such high marital dissatisfaction and divorce rates. A lot of moms completely and exclusively devote themselves to childcare, and no, it doesn't stop after the first year. It's important to take time for yourselves, go back to exercising, go on dates with your partners, have sex with them - mom with older kids here.

Taking self-care breaks is different from having unprotected sex with a stranger 7 weeks postpartum, exposing yourself to venereal disease, sharing aerosolized breath and bodily fluids with a unvaccinated stranger during a global pandemic and bringing Covid home to a newborn, and immediately delivering two other siblings in the same year - potentially stunting the first child's development and growth with one parent's attention and financial resources divided between three within the first twelve months.

There is nothing defensible about this.

Anonymous wrote:Like how does that work? Physically? Mentally? Childcare?

A Washington single mother gave birth in 2020 and became pregnant again 7 weeks post-partum by her boyfriend? Date? I don't know. Yes it is physically possible to be fertile and have sex with your lover at six weeks after the birth, but how do you find the time to go on a date with a newborn in your bed for feeding every 2 hours? How do you have the mental well-being?

Oldest baby Daphne was 94 days old when Hansen learned that she was expecting again.

She was in a new relationship at the time, and took a pregnancy test before going on birth control.

Hansen didn't expect the test to come back positive, however she soon learned she was three-weeks pregnant.

'I was in a newborn fog, and [then] there was the excitement of this new relationship,' she said. 'I was just adjusting to everything.'

End goal? Attention. Mission accomplished.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

NP. I would bat an eye. I think it’s reasonable to expect that you’re pretty much entirely devoted to your child’s well-being for the first year of their life. It’s hard for me to comprehend how dating would even factor in.

IMO, this is why Americans have such high marital dissatisfaction and divorce rates. A lot of moms completely and exclusively devote themselves to childcare, and no, it doesn't stop after the first year. It's important to take time for yourselves, go back to exercising, go on dates with your partners, have sex with them - mom with older kids here.

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Anonymous wrote:Very odd IMO. Nothing against dating as a single mother (I was one), but getting it on seven weeks postpartum? With a stranger??

And making a Tik Tok about it.

She's clearly immature and I wouldn't be surprised if she has an undiagnosed mental illness.

Any adult who uses TikTok clearly has mental issues.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

NP. I would bat an eye. I think it’s reasonable to expect that you’re pretty much entirely devoted to your child’s well-being for the first year of their life. It’s hard for me to comprehend how dating would even factor in.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

It's different. Sorry you think all there is to sex is getting it in.

Nope, it's absolutely not - poster here married for decades. Having a letter-sized certificate someplace in a file cabinet doesn't make you more saintly when you spread your legs, you know. I hate this sanctimonious, puritan view about sex being so special when it's happening in a legal marriage.

You against millennia of human history I guess. So edgy!

Do some research about marriage - it has always been nothing more than a contract agreement to combine and distribute wealth. In America, the obsession with marriage as a superior moral choice is just a sham to cover and continue the double dipping of the non-working spouse in the social security funds. It's nothing more than greed.

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Long term, codified monogamy exists across cultures. It has been the norm for most of human history. You sound like a husband who got caught cheating and is trying to explain to girls at the bar why you're just too cool for marriage.

So have mistresses and affairs. It’s pretty much always been understood that men have side pieces, especially while the wife is pregnant because it was thought to be unsafe for them to do their wifely duties in that condition. It’s not like we could expect men not to get laid for months on end. Pretty much all the great leaders cheated on their wives. Yeah. Marriage has been around forever. Monogamy? Sure. Right. Everyone is monogamous when they get married. That’s totally how it worked. Sex outside of marriage is a new invention.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

It's different. Sorry you think all there is to sex is getting it in.

Nope, it's absolutely not - poster here married for decades. Having a letter-sized certificate someplace in a file cabinet doesn't make you more saintly when you spread your legs, you know. I hate this sanctimonious, puritan view about sex being so special when it's happening in a legal marriage.

You against millennia of human history I guess. So edgy!

Do some research about marriage - it has always been nothing more than a contract agreement to combine and distribute wealth. In America, the obsession with marriage as a superior moral choice is just a sham to cover and continue the double dipping of the non-working spouse in the social security funds. It's nothing more than greed.

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Long term, codified monogamy exists across cultures. It has been the norm for most of human history. You sound like a husband who got caught cheating and is trying to explain to girls at the bar why you're just too cool for marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

It's different. Sorry you think all there is to sex is getting it in.

Nope, it's absolutely not - poster here married for decades. Having a letter-sized certificate someplace in a file cabinet doesn't make you more saintly when you spread your legs, you know. I hate this sanctimonious, puritan view about sex being so special when it's happening in a legal marriage.

You against millennia of human history I guess. So edgy!

Do some research about marriage - it has always been nothing more than a contract agreement to combine and distribute wealth. In America, the obsession with marriage as a superior moral choice is just a sham to cover and continue the double dipping of the non-working spouse in the social security funds. It's nothing more than greed.

Whatever you say.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

It's different. Sorry you think all there is to sex is getting it in.

Nope, it's absolutely not - poster here married for decades. Having a letter-sized certificate someplace in a file cabinet doesn't make you more saintly when you spread your legs, you know. I hate this sanctimonious, puritan view about sex being so special when it's happening in a legal marriage.

Pp, I’m with you. There’s no reasoning with people like this (the sanctimonious, judgmental PPs). Just carry on, know there are other people out there who wholly sympathize with you

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

It's different. Sorry you think all there is to sex is getting it in.

Nope, it's absolutely not - poster here married for decades. Having a letter-sized certificate someplace in a file cabinet doesn't make you more saintly when you spread your legs, you know. I hate this sanctimonious, puritan view about sex being so special when it's happening in a legal marriage.

You against millennia of human history I guess. So edgy!

Do some research about marriage - it has always been nothing more than a contract agreement to combine and distribute wealth. In America, the obsession with marriage as a superior moral choice is just a sham to cover and continue the double dipping of the non-working spouse in the social security funds. It's nothing more than greed.

It’s fake

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

It's different. Sorry you think all there is to sex is getting it in.

Nope, it's absolutely not - poster here married for decades. Having a letter-sized certificate someplace in a file cabinet doesn't make you more saintly when you spread your legs, you know. I hate this sanctimonious, puritan view about sex being so special when it's happening in a legal marriage.

You against millennia of human history I guess. So edgy!

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

It's different. Sorry you think all there is to sex is getting it in.

Nope, it's absolutely not - poster here married for decades. Having a letter-sized certificate someplace in a file cabinet doesn't make you more saintly when you spread your legs, you know. I hate this sanctimonious, puritan view about sex being so special when it's happening in a legal marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:I had sex 2 weeks postpartum with my husband.
The baby was right next to us and I think made a noisy dirty diaper while we were doing it. I was bleeding and leaking milk. Not sure what kind of new boyfriend would’ve been interested in that….
Also, we used a condom! Im not taking any chances with pregnancy. I don’t care that it was only 2 weeks postpartum and chance of ovulation was basically zero.

Your husband was interested in it

Because he’s my husband and we’ve been together 15 years! Are you a moron? I don’t understand why you are trying so hard to prove that sex with a new guy when you have a newborn is a totally normal thing.

I think that poster is trolling.

No, I wasn’t trolling. If her husband is into it why wouldn’t other men be? A lot of men are really into lactation and don’t care about blood.