Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:“It was the early morning of my 10th birthday the first time that I was raped by my father. It would not be the last. The shock was so severe that I temporarily went blind before I began the fifth grade a few weeks later. By the time the school year began, my father had taken me to see a battery of doctors — a medical explanation would paper over the fact that the trauma caused by his sexual violence had caused my body to shut down.
At age 12, I was pregnant by my father, and I had an abortion. Before we got to the doctor’s office, I had no idea that I was pregnant. My father lied about my age and the circumstance of my pregnancy, informing the doctor that I was 15 and that I had been reckless with a boyfriend. My father shook his head, explaining to the doctor that he was doing all that he could as a single parent — my parents had divorced by this time — but that I was out of control. Both men seemed to convey contempt toward me. For many years, the shame of my father’s lie lingered with me.
My shame was never about the abortion. I will forever be grateful that my pregnancy was terminated. I am fortunate that my body was spared an additional trauma imposed by my father — one that today would be forced by some state legislatures and courts. No child should be pressured or expected to carry a pregnancy and give birth, or to feel remorse, guilt, doubt or unease about an abortion under any circumstances, let alone rape or incest.”
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/30/opinion/abortion-texas-mississippi-rape.html?smid=tw-share
That is horrific.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Yes therein lies the bigger problem! And frankly women should control their bodies to not be in that position. Opt out of having sex with men, or get fixed.
Are you implying that if an elementary school aged child gets pregnant, it’s her fault for not controlling her body? Because if not, that’s some sloppy posting.
No! That's why I wrote "women".
I would say the parents are accountable obviously.
Are you insane?! A pregnant 9 year old very likely got that way because of a close family member...far too often her own father.
Here, read this: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/30/opinion/abortion-texas-mississippi-rape.html
Exactly what difference would it make to hold her parents accountable? Her father was the one who scheduled her abortion?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Yes therein lies the bigger problem! And frankly women should control their bodies to not be in that position. Opt out of having sex with men, or get fixed.
Are you implying that if an elementary school aged child gets pregnant, it’s her fault for not controlling her body? Because if not, that’s some sloppy posting.
No! That's why I wrote "women".
I would say the parents are accountable obviously.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Yes therein lies the bigger problem! And frankly women should control their bodies to not be in that position. Opt out of having sex with men, or get fixed.
Anonymous wrote:“It was the early morning of my 10th birthday the first time that I was raped by my father. It would not be the last. The shock was so severe that I temporarily went blind before I began the fifth grade a few weeks later. By the time the school year began, my father had taken me to see a battery of doctors — a medical explanation would paper over the fact that the trauma caused by his sexual violence had caused my body to shut down.
At age 12, I was pregnant by my father, and I had an abortion. Before we got to the doctor’s office, I had no idea that I was pregnant. My father lied about my age and the circumstance of my pregnancy, informing the doctor that I was 15 and that I had been reckless with a boyfriend. My father shook his head, explaining to the doctor that he was doing all that he could as a single parent — my parents had divorced by this time — but that I was out of control. Both men seemed to convey contempt toward me. For many years, the shame of my father’s lie lingered with me.
My shame was never about the abortion. I will forever be grateful that my pregnancy was terminated. I am fortunate that my body was spared an additional trauma imposed by my father — one that today would be forced by some state legislatures and courts. No child should be pressured or expected to carry a pregnancy and give birth, or to feel remorse, guilt, doubt or unease about an abortion under any circumstances, let alone rape or incest.”
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/30/opinion/abortion-texas-mississippi-rape.html?smid=tw-share
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Yes therein lies the bigger problem! And frankly women should control their bodies to not be in that position. Opt out of having sex with men, or get fixed.
You’ve inadvertently hit the nail on the head: the cruelty toward women and girls is the point, the punishment is the point. It’s the same reason that rape still isn’t treated seriously. These freakish forced birthers want women to experience the full weight of “Eve’s curse.” Even when the “women” in question are children.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Yes therein lies the bigger problem! And frankly women should control their bodies to not be in that position. Opt out of having sex with men, or get fixed.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Yes therein lies the bigger problem! And frankly women should control their bodies to not be in that position. Opt out of having sex with men, or get fixed.
Are you implying that if an elementary school aged child gets pregnant, it’s her fault for not controlling her body? Because if not, that’s some sloppy posting.
No! That's why I wrote "women".
I would say the parents are accountable obviously.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Yes therein lies the bigger problem! And frankly women should control their bodies to not be in that position. Opt out of having sex with men, or get fixed.
Are you implying that if an elementary school aged child gets pregnant, it’s her fault for not controlling her body? Because if not, that’s some sloppy posting.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Yes therein lies the bigger problem! And frankly women should control their bodies to not be in that position. Opt out of having sex with men, or get fixed.
Anonymous wrote:Can we focus on 9 and 10 year old girls not getting pregnant in the first place?
Anonymous wrote:Only someone with a cold, dead heart would put a fetus above the life of a 9 year old child, and think it's better to force a child to carry a pregnancy to term than to terminate. And yet here we are today. This kind of extremist, barbaric thinking is spreading throughout the anti-abortion movement.
I'm sure there are some anti-abortionists who will claim they are more moderate and would not want children to be forced to go through labor and delivery. But I am skeptical they will ever fight against this part of their movement as long as it means they get to rob adult women of their bodily autonomy.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/26/health/texas-abortion-law-risky-pregnancy.html
Dr. Ingrid Skop, an obstetrician in San Antonio who belongs to the American Association of Pro-Life Obstetricians and Gynecologists, said that even a girl as young as 9 or 10, impregnated by a father or a brother, could carry a baby to term without health risks.
“If she is developed enough to be menstruating and become pregnant, and reached sexual maturity, she can safely give birth to a baby,” Dr. Skop said.
Anonymous wrote:I guess I’m just astonished that no one from the party that spent months complaining about masks for school kids, used QAnon’s “save the children” (from pedophiles) as a rallying cry, and is willing and happy to burn books from a high school library because of reasons is willing to stand up and say, “this is too far.” Really, NONE of you “pro lifers” has any reservations about forcing a 4th grader to carry her rapist’s baby to term, even if it breaks her body and spirit? This is all good with you?