I am a very good looking, well travelled, wealthy DH a and want NO PART of a highly attractive nanny and it has nothing to do with me, as I don’t care about women half my age. As pretty as she could be it would just make no sense. The real reason I want no part is bc of the 20 something moron young men who would start chasing said good looking nanny and potentially attempt to show up at my house or distract my nanny while she was with my kids. No thanks.

Anonymous wrote:The nanny could be a lesbian. Like I was. I was a gorgeous nanny but also a lesbian, would have been very annoyed if I couldn’t get a job because the wife was worried about me and the husband lol

I am also gay and a nanny. I wouldn’t touch these husbands with a 10’ pole.

Anonymous wrote:We’ve got a hot 26 year old nanny. Somehow it doesn’t bother me. Sometimes I joke with DH about hooking up with her. She could be the wife we really need. She’s great with the kids and keeps the house spotless. Even if they WERE hooking up, I’d be reluctant to fire her, she’s so good.

I’m surprised this hasn’t come up yet. In the years we had a nanny, she was so much more helpful than my husband that my friends and I had a running joke about picking our nannies over our husbands.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it depends on your husband. Mine is very handsome with a drive drive. He’s also told me never to hire an attractive nanny because opportunity could result in an affair. We are very honest with each other and I doubt he would cheat but I’d also prefer not to make it easy. I was also an au pair before in another country and I’m very attractive but the husband was 100% respectful.

I feel sorry for you that you think your husband admitting he's a trashbag is an admirable quality.

Oh please, he's much better because he's honest and knows not to put himself in situations that he may cheat. Because most men would sleep with the hot nanny if he could and get away with it. Including your DH, I promise you

I know you need to believe that to cope with the fact you married and had kids with a trashbag.

We’ve got a hot 26 year old nanny. Somehow it doesn’t bother me. Sometimes I joke with DH about hooking up with her. She could be the wife we really need. She’s great with the kids and keeps the house spotless. Even if they WERE hooking up, I’d be reluctant to fire her, she’s so good.

Dude, no. Absolutely not. Nope. Why would you bring a beautiful woman to come live with you???

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Anonymous wrote:Don't flatter yourself.

There's no way the nanny will be anything but disgusted by the thought of your dadbod husband.

As a mid 40s dad with a but if a dad bod but otherwise conventionally attractive, I can promise you that there are lots of mid20s women who disagree with you.

Another delusional one.

The nanny doesn't have much to lose, but the husband does. I mean if it happened to Jennifer garner it could happen to anyone

Anonymous wrote:I was friends with a 20–something gorgeous nanny. She ended up engaged to a guy in finance a couple years older than her and very attractive. Their HHI is in the 7 figures and she’s no longer nearby so we’ve drifted apart. I still think of her and smile whenever I see posts on here about people worried the nanny is going to seduce their middle aged husbands. No offense, but especially if she’s attractive, she has her sights set much higher.

This happens a lot. And it’s nannies that have self esteem issues. Megan King ring a bell? Her nanny wasn’t gorgeous but it still happened.