Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you could, would you rather be a SAHM/D? Conversely, if you are a SAHP, would you rather have a career, but maybe feel like that ship has sailed?

God no! What a waste of a life.

Would just LOVE to know what your job is. Like, your real job, not whatever you'll actually reply here.

Even if you have a great job. You are replaceable and your position will be filled in a hot minute if you left. As important as you think your role is...it isn't. No one will even remember you or care what you are up to after a week gone.

Only if I was independently wealthy. I’m sure I could fill my days with joy, but I’d HATE being dependent on someone for my financial security. That will never happen.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you could, would you rather be a SAHM/D? Conversely, if you are a SAHP, would you rather have a career, but maybe feel like that ship has sailed?

God no! What a waste of a life.

Would just LOVE to know what your job is. Like, your real job, not whatever you'll actually reply here.

Nope

I did both, not by design, but it worked out that way. I'm happy for having had each phase of my life. I'm now looking forward to the next phase.

Yes but I would want the money to still get a break and not take a lifestyle cut.