Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 20:41     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

The reality is, it’s not very realistic to think that a kid playing on a team with players in a lower grade will be viewed exactly the same as one playing with kids in their own grade. People say college coaches don’t pay attention to that, but common sense tells you it probably matters at least a little. It’s hard not to think those statements are partly meant to ease everyone’s anxiety about the changes.

That being said, this isn’t about telling anyone their kid should play up. The age groups are what they are, and every player has the right to play in their correct age group. And yes, there will still be opportunities to play in college. It just might not always be at the exact level some families are hoping for—and that’s the honest part of the conversation
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Post 02/13/2026 18:31     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:Heres my family situation. My high flyer female with a decmber birthday and a potential in playing in college will age down for maximum visibility. My August boy who plays hg dev will stay with his age to be an older for the time ever. No aspirations other than playing good soccer and translating his level of travel to the hs game. Both win

I dont know if "age down" is the correct terminology although I get what you're saying. In BY your December birthday player was forced to play up a grade. Now since we're switching back to SY again they'll be grouped with players their grade in school which should be fun for them. This was/is the whole intent of switching back from BY to SY.

General fyi but did you know the reason BY works for other countries is because school cutoff for a certain grade is 1/1. However school start dates are usually around Aug Sept. When you think about it this makes it easier because all you need to do is ask a kid what year they were born and that tells you their grade in school. In America we combine school start date with cutoff date this is why BY doesnt work and SY better aligns all players to a specific grade here.


My December kid is in MLS Next and committed to a D1 school

I can't recall us having any discussions about school grade

Be obtuse if you want.

I guarantee at some point graduating year aka grade in school was discussed or your kids college coach wouldn't know what year to expect to see them on campus.


They of course knew his graduating year.

We provided that when we reached out and they also knew it before we gave them.

My point is that for his soccer development journey, school grade being different than his teammates was never an issue.


The situation is different now. Birth year created a situation where players in a specific grade had to play with kids in a higher grade because they missed the school cutoff. No one minded this because playing with kids in a higher grade feels more challenging and acceptable (of course depends on the players themselves being good, but just generally, a 9th grader playing with 10th graders was fine) College scouts looking at 10th graders might also see the 9th grader and just keep them in mind for the next recruiting year. All good there.

Now, you have a few months of kids who could potentially have to play with a team that is primarily a lower grade. So in this scenario, you have a 10th grader playing on a team full of 9th graders. College scouts aren't looking at 9th graders and probably aren't going to make a special trip over to a field full of 9th graders just to see the 1 or 2 10th graders.

It doesn't change the fact that most recruiting is done by the player/parents, with outreach and direct attendance at ID camps where coaches are - where of course you are aligned by graduation year. But the scenario above isn't really helping player development or recruiting - just clubs who potentially want to win more games. For younger grades, it's fine because maybe some smaller kids need more time in 7v7, 9v9 etc. But by high school, kids should be aligned with grad year if at all possible.


You do know the colleges are only looking at a few people to fill the small amount of available freshman spaces on their roster?

They aren't trawling the ocean


You are correct - it is such a small number that a kid playing with a younger grade will literally never end up playing college soccer. Hence the reason that even to have a remote chance, you have to play with your grad year.


The 10th grader with the skills, potential and attitude the college recruiter wants will get recruited if they are on a team with some 9th graders

Because the college recruiter is a soccer person, not guidance counselor

Why only play down in soccer?

Just hold your Aug birthday back in school and they'll be aligned and everything works. Why would you want to be s square peg trying to fit in a round hole.


Why do my child a disservice by holding them back in school while kids their age are a year advanced academically and in maturity?
Also, they can only play with their age group or up. So what's gained?
No one can play down

RAE says that being the oldest will give them an academic advantage over all the other students.

Or ore you one of those selective RAE people that only uses it to get what you want?


Wow, to brazenly flaunt ignorance and stupidity with such pride

So, my kid being the oldest in 9th grade learning Economics 1 while kids her age are doing Economics 2/3 in 10th grade is a win for her?

RAE says that oldest is always better. Its science.

You just dont like it when you cant use RAE to get what you want.

If I was a club owner I say sure your August birthday can play down a grade. You just need to hold them back.


Say you've never actually read a study on relative age effect without saying you've never actually read a study on relative age effect.

Dear D Student,
It's called RAE and not AE for a reason.

For your homework, lookup biological age vs calendar age to start.
For extra credit, lookup early maturation and early bloomers.

* not a single RAE study says all older kids have an advantage or gets selected primarily


I would think most studies don't speak in absolutes. Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage. It's not really something to debate.

Regardless, what everyone is talking about here are the pros and cons that apply to a very small number of kids. What those kids decide to do will be up to them and the clubs. I think what most will agree with, is that most clubs won't force kids to play up. If they want to, and it makes sense, etc., then they can. Otherwise, it is up to the parents and the player to decide what they want to do and to weigh the pros and cons (that have been talked about ad nauseum here) and make a decision.


Being oldest is not an automatic proven advantage in soccer or academics.

Many younger players and students outperform older peers.
Stop saying silly stuff to score points


Who said "automatic" you silly goose?


"Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage"


It is not automatic. Sorry for the confusion. It is not a true statement to say that if you're the oldest in a cohort, you will be the smarts, strongest, silliest, in the cohort. But when compared against their peers, the ones that are the smarts, strongest, and silliest usually (not always, its not automatic) tend to be the oldest. There are younger kids in that cohort that will be some of the ones that have all the S's, of course, but the SCieNce shows there is an advantage to being the oldest.

Good finally admitting your nonsense beliefs about rae arent soccer exclusive.

So this means if you're going to play your Aug birthday down a grade because of rae you're also going to hold your kid back in school because of rae.

Problem solved because they're playing on the correct grade in school team thats aligned with their school grade.


To be fair - I just jumped in this convo and it only took me one comment to course-correct. I wasn't the one who first started talking about RAE.

And I agree that is one way to solve the problem. Just hold the Aug. kid back. Might be a hard sell for someone already in HS, but if younger, it makes sense. It won't be for everyone, but it's a viable option.


Admitting you cant parent your kid to success so you gotta mess up their head by having all the kids in their neighborhood their age one grade ahead


Yup. You're right. Parents love messing up their kid's heads.


Right of passage

But some go way above and beyond

Its going to be interesting to see what happens with all the Aug-Dec players that were forced to play up a level/grade in BY. But this fall will be playing "down" on their grade in school team.

I expect them to dominate for 6 months. But after that clubs will get their claws into them forcing players to be the same as everyone else their grade.


My November kid will now be one of the oldest instead of the youngest and I can guarantee he won't be dominating anything

His talents won't magically miraculously change
He will be relatively better than his teammates under SY rather than BY with all else equal.


Older never equates to better in a skill based activity
Older participants, all else equal, are better relative to younger participants in a defined age group where improvements are gained with participants age via an accumulation of experience, physical traits and/or playing ability. Did you expect you son to have more skill switching from BY to SY? Because if you did and are now disappointed that would be on you for the misunderstanding.

This is not what research says. Actual numbers and research are below

https://medium.com/@giacorada/the-fascinating-birth-trend-among-professional-soccer-players-b2a48d015e7d



You just like the graph because it supports your position -- but there are so many holes to the study that even the author acknowledges and some that he doesn't -- like he doesn't discuss/account for how the US had both BY and SY for these players.
I love that graph.

It says August kids have a much better outcome being the oldest rather than the youngest even if a reasonable amount of the period studied was under BY and not all under SY.

I like that graph because it shows that rae doesnt apply in America. The authors option was p2p soccer made players birth month evenly distributed across the year.


If everyone looked at their kids MLS Next team or ECNL team roster right now, none of them would show August birth month as most represented

Go ahead
You do know that soccer is switching from BY to SY, right?


So if you looked Now as requested, are you seeing BY or SY?
Top level rosters over indexed on oldest. Already been established.

No they're not. In fact nobody "indexes" anything. What a dumb thing to say.

Coaches pick rosters based on ability and who the club wants to highlight
Google if you don't know. ""Over-indexed" generally refers to a situation where a specific segment, attribute, or data point appears with a higher frequency or prominence than the overall average, benchmark, or expectation."
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Post 02/13/2026 17:11     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:Heres my family situation. My high flyer female with a decmber birthday and a potential in playing in college will age down for maximum visibility. My August boy who plays hg dev will stay with his age to be an older for the time ever. No aspirations other than playing good soccer and translating his level of travel to the hs game. Both win

I dont know if "age down" is the correct terminology although I get what you're saying. In BY your December birthday player was forced to play up a grade. Now since we're switching back to SY again they'll be grouped with players their grade in school which should be fun for them. This was/is the whole intent of switching back from BY to SY.

General fyi but did you know the reason BY works for other countries is because school cutoff for a certain grade is 1/1. However school start dates are usually around Aug Sept. When you think about it this makes it easier because all you need to do is ask a kid what year they were born and that tells you their grade in school. In America we combine school start date with cutoff date this is why BY doesnt work and SY better aligns all players to a specific grade here.


My December kid is in MLS Next and committed to a D1 school

I can't recall us having any discussions about school grade

Be obtuse if you want.

I guarantee at some point graduating year aka grade in school was discussed or your kids college coach wouldn't know what year to expect to see them on campus.


They of course knew his graduating year.

We provided that when we reached out and they also knew it before we gave them.

My point is that for his soccer development journey, school grade being different than his teammates was never an issue.


The situation is different now. Birth year created a situation where players in a specific grade had to play with kids in a higher grade because they missed the school cutoff. No one minded this because playing with kids in a higher grade feels more challenging and acceptable (of course depends on the players themselves being good, but just generally, a 9th grader playing with 10th graders was fine) College scouts looking at 10th graders might also see the 9th grader and just keep them in mind for the next recruiting year. All good there.

Now, you have a few months of kids who could potentially have to play with a team that is primarily a lower grade. So in this scenario, you have a 10th grader playing on a team full of 9th graders. College scouts aren't looking at 9th graders and probably aren't going to make a special trip over to a field full of 9th graders just to see the 1 or 2 10th graders.

It doesn't change the fact that most recruiting is done by the player/parents, with outreach and direct attendance at ID camps where coaches are - where of course you are aligned by graduation year. But the scenario above isn't really helping player development or recruiting - just clubs who potentially want to win more games. For younger grades, it's fine because maybe some smaller kids need more time in 7v7, 9v9 etc. But by high school, kids should be aligned with grad year if at all possible.


You do know the colleges are only looking at a few people to fill the small amount of available freshman spaces on their roster?

They aren't trawling the ocean


You are correct - it is such a small number that a kid playing with a younger grade will literally never end up playing college soccer. Hence the reason that even to have a remote chance, you have to play with your grad year.


The 10th grader with the skills, potential and attitude the college recruiter wants will get recruited if they are on a team with some 9th graders

Because the college recruiter is a soccer person, not guidance counselor

Why only play down in soccer?

Just hold your Aug birthday back in school and they'll be aligned and everything works. Why would you want to be s square peg trying to fit in a round hole.


Why do my child a disservice by holding them back in school while kids their age are a year advanced academically and in maturity?
Also, they can only play with their age group or up. So what's gained?
No one can play down

RAE says that being the oldest will give them an academic advantage over all the other students.

Or ore you one of those selective RAE people that only uses it to get what you want?


Wow, to brazenly flaunt ignorance and stupidity with such pride

So, my kid being the oldest in 9th grade learning Economics 1 while kids her age are doing Economics 2/3 in 10th grade is a win for her?

RAE says that oldest is always better. Its science.

You just dont like it when you cant use RAE to get what you want.

If I was a club owner I say sure your August birthday can play down a grade. You just need to hold them back.


Say you've never actually read a study on relative age effect without saying you've never actually read a study on relative age effect.

Dear D Student,
It's called RAE and not AE for a reason.

For your homework, lookup biological age vs calendar age to start.
For extra credit, lookup early maturation and early bloomers.

* not a single RAE study says all older kids have an advantage or gets selected primarily


I would think most studies don't speak in absolutes. Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage. It's not really something to debate.

Regardless, what everyone is talking about here are the pros and cons that apply to a very small number of kids. What those kids decide to do will be up to them and the clubs. I think what most will agree with, is that most clubs won't force kids to play up. If they want to, and it makes sense, etc., then they can. Otherwise, it is up to the parents and the player to decide what they want to do and to weigh the pros and cons (that have been talked about ad nauseum here) and make a decision.


Being oldest is not an automatic proven advantage in soccer or academics.

Many younger players and students outperform older peers.
Stop saying silly stuff to score points


Who said "automatic" you silly goose?


"Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage"


It is not automatic. Sorry for the confusion. It is not a true statement to say that if you're the oldest in a cohort, you will be the smarts, strongest, silliest, in the cohort. But when compared against their peers, the ones that are the smarts, strongest, and silliest usually (not always, its not automatic) tend to be the oldest. There are younger kids in that cohort that will be some of the ones that have all the S's, of course, but the SCieNce shows there is an advantage to being the oldest.

Good finally admitting your nonsense beliefs about rae arent soccer exclusive.

So this means if you're going to play your Aug birthday down a grade because of rae you're also going to hold your kid back in school because of rae.

Problem solved because they're playing on the correct grade in school team thats aligned with their school grade.


To be fair - I just jumped in this convo and it only took me one comment to course-correct. I wasn't the one who first started talking about RAE.

And I agree that is one way to solve the problem. Just hold the Aug. kid back. Might be a hard sell for someone already in HS, but if younger, it makes sense. It won't be for everyone, but it's a viable option.


Admitting you cant parent your kid to success so you gotta mess up their head by having all the kids in their neighborhood their age one grade ahead


Yup. You're right. Parents love messing up their kid's heads.


Right of passage

But some go way above and beyond

Its going to be interesting to see what happens with all the Aug-Dec players that were forced to play up a level/grade in BY. But this fall will be playing "down" on their grade in school team.

I expect them to dominate for 6 months. But after that clubs will get their claws into them forcing players to be the same as everyone else their grade.


My November kid will now be one of the oldest instead of the youngest and I can guarantee he won't be dominating anything

His talents won't magically miraculously change
He will be relatively better than his teammates under SY rather than BY with all else equal.


Older never equates to better in a skill based activity


Do you know what “never” means?
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 17:09     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:After lurking on all the threads on this topic, it seems like the misaligned August/September players are in a dawned if you do, dawned if you don't situation.

Either they "play on grade" where since they'll be the youngest they should be happy with the B team.

Or they "play in their new age bracket" against players a full grade behind them but they'll never amount to much playing against younger players and won't be recruited.

Seems like what most people really want to for August/September kids to go find a different sport to play.

I can tell you that it is not as simple a choice for most misaligned players in that birth range as people on these threads make it seem. Trying to navigate to the best situation coaching wise, development wise, recruiting wise and socially is like trying to solve a rubik's cube that's had the squares switched.
August not dawned at all. They have options.

Be the oldest and become the best player you can be then if desired contact college coaches to get recruited who evaluate players not the age group they play in.

Or play up with friends on a lower level team and if desired hope to get spotted by colleges or just lose interest and stop playing soccer because being on a lower team and on the bench a bunch isn't fun.


A much better deal than the summer kids now trapped.
Summer kids in a bad position. Kind of like November and December were. With coaches in US leaning so much towards bigger stronger faster and not caring over skills, they don't have a great path or options.


Yep, what will they do with their lives?
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Post 02/13/2026 17:06     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:Heres my family situation. My high flyer female with a decmber birthday and a potential in playing in college will age down for maximum visibility. My August boy who plays hg dev will stay with his age to be an older for the time ever. No aspirations other than playing good soccer and translating his level of travel to the hs game. Both win

I dont know if "age down" is the correct terminology although I get what you're saying. In BY your December birthday player was forced to play up a grade. Now since we're switching back to SY again they'll be grouped with players their grade in school which should be fun for them. This was/is the whole intent of switching back from BY to SY.

General fyi but did you know the reason BY works for other countries is because school cutoff for a certain grade is 1/1. However school start dates are usually around Aug Sept. When you think about it this makes it easier because all you need to do is ask a kid what year they were born and that tells you their grade in school. In America we combine school start date with cutoff date this is why BY doesnt work and SY better aligns all players to a specific grade here.


My December kid is in MLS Next and committed to a D1 school

I can't recall us having any discussions about school grade

Be obtuse if you want.

I guarantee at some point graduating year aka grade in school was discussed or your kids college coach wouldn't know what year to expect to see them on campus.


They of course knew his graduating year.

We provided that when we reached out and they also knew it before we gave them.

My point is that for his soccer development journey, school grade being different than his teammates was never an issue.


The situation is different now. Birth year created a situation where players in a specific grade had to play with kids in a higher grade because they missed the school cutoff. No one minded this because playing with kids in a higher grade feels more challenging and acceptable (of course depends on the players themselves being good, but just generally, a 9th grader playing with 10th graders was fine) College scouts looking at 10th graders might also see the 9th grader and just keep them in mind for the next recruiting year. All good there.

Now, you have a few months of kids who could potentially have to play with a team that is primarily a lower grade. So in this scenario, you have a 10th grader playing on a team full of 9th graders. College scouts aren't looking at 9th graders and probably aren't going to make a special trip over to a field full of 9th graders just to see the 1 or 2 10th graders.

It doesn't change the fact that most recruiting is done by the player/parents, with outreach and direct attendance at ID camps where coaches are - where of course you are aligned by graduation year. But the scenario above isn't really helping player development or recruiting - just clubs who potentially want to win more games. For younger grades, it's fine because maybe some smaller kids need more time in 7v7, 9v9 etc. But by high school, kids should be aligned with grad year if at all possible.


You do know the colleges are only looking at a few people to fill the small amount of available freshman spaces on their roster?

They aren't trawling the ocean


You are correct - it is such a small number that a kid playing with a younger grade will literally never end up playing college soccer. Hence the reason that even to have a remote chance, you have to play with your grad year.


The 10th grader with the skills, potential and attitude the college recruiter wants will get recruited if they are on a team with some 9th graders

Because the college recruiter is a soccer person, not guidance counselor

Why only play down in soccer?

Just hold your Aug birthday back in school and they'll be aligned and everything works. Why would you want to be s square peg trying to fit in a round hole.


Why do my child a disservice by holding them back in school while kids their age are a year advanced academically and in maturity?
Also, they can only play with their age group or up. So what's gained?
No one can play down

RAE says that being the oldest will give them an academic advantage over all the other students.

Or ore you one of those selective RAE people that only uses it to get what you want?


Wow, to brazenly flaunt ignorance and stupidity with such pride

So, my kid being the oldest in 9th grade learning Economics 1 while kids her age are doing Economics 2/3 in 10th grade is a win for her?


Not arguing for or against holding back because its a personal decision, but I'll point out that schools place kids in the class that will challenge them the most. Just because they would be a 9th grader, doesn't mean they don't take 10-12th grade level classes. And that's even more so in private school. If you're taking advanced classes earlier in your HS career, that will lead to more college level courses before you actually get to college.


Oh Poppycock!

Nice attempt at recovery Congressman

So, hold back my kid then have them take advance courses if they can to do what kids their age a grade ahead is doing.
Makes sense


Why thank you, good sir. *tip of the hat* (btw -poppycock is way underused. let's bring it back)

Just think about it for a second - it's the advantage of time. And there is no right or wrong answer (unless you're holding back a kid who is say a Jan - May birthday, that might get dicey. But for summer kids, it can make sense in certain situations). Kind of like this whole debate about playing on age or down a grade. There are pros and cons to each.

Its not you although I do believe rae is garbage. Age guy just wants kids to play down and is trying to encourage parents that being misaligned is no big deal for college recruiting when it's a HUGE issue for college recruiting.


Misalignment doesn't exist.

The few college prospects being looked at already have their graduating year known to interested colleges

Saying RAE is garbage is like saying vaccines for measles is garbage

Just give your opinion against proven facts

Don't make me bring out the research paper that clearly shows RAE is garbage in America because of pay to play soccer.


I once read a stat that said 65% of all stats are made up. Just saying...


Can make them tell any story you want.

Including this tall tale that all of you are liars and you don't see coaches in America picking big kids on teams


Yes, some kids are big?
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 16:04     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:Heres my family situation. My high flyer female with a decmber birthday and a potential in playing in college will age down for maximum visibility. My August boy who plays hg dev will stay with his age to be an older for the time ever. No aspirations other than playing good soccer and translating his level of travel to the hs game. Both win

I dont know if "age down" is the correct terminology although I get what you're saying. In BY your December birthday player was forced to play up a grade. Now since we're switching back to SY again they'll be grouped with players their grade in school which should be fun for them. This was/is the whole intent of switching back from BY to SY.

General fyi but did you know the reason BY works for other countries is because school cutoff for a certain grade is 1/1. However school start dates are usually around Aug Sept. When you think about it this makes it easier because all you need to do is ask a kid what year they were born and that tells you their grade in school. In America we combine school start date with cutoff date this is why BY doesnt work and SY better aligns all players to a specific grade here.


My December kid is in MLS Next and committed to a D1 school

I can't recall us having any discussions about school grade

Be obtuse if you want.

I guarantee at some point graduating year aka grade in school was discussed or your kids college coach wouldn't know what year to expect to see them on campus.


They of course knew his graduating year.

We provided that when we reached out and they also knew it before we gave them.

My point is that for his soccer development journey, school grade being different than his teammates was never an issue.


The situation is different now. Birth year created a situation where players in a specific grade had to play with kids in a higher grade because they missed the school cutoff. No one minded this because playing with kids in a higher grade feels more challenging and acceptable (of course depends on the players themselves being good, but just generally, a 9th grader playing with 10th graders was fine) College scouts looking at 10th graders might also see the 9th grader and just keep them in mind for the next recruiting year. All good there.

Now, you have a few months of kids who could potentially have to play with a team that is primarily a lower grade. So in this scenario, you have a 10th grader playing on a team full of 9th graders. College scouts aren't looking at 9th graders and probably aren't going to make a special trip over to a field full of 9th graders just to see the 1 or 2 10th graders.

It doesn't change the fact that most recruiting is done by the player/parents, with outreach and direct attendance at ID camps where coaches are - where of course you are aligned by graduation year. But the scenario above isn't really helping player development or recruiting - just clubs who potentially want to win more games. For younger grades, it's fine because maybe some smaller kids need more time in 7v7, 9v9 etc. But by high school, kids should be aligned with grad year if at all possible.


You do know the colleges are only looking at a few people to fill the small amount of available freshman spaces on their roster?

They aren't trawling the ocean


You are correct - it is such a small number that a kid playing with a younger grade will literally never end up playing college soccer. Hence the reason that even to have a remote chance, you have to play with your grad year.


The 10th grader with the skills, potential and attitude the college recruiter wants will get recruited if they are on a team with some 9th graders

Because the college recruiter is a soccer person, not guidance counselor

Why only play down in soccer?

Just hold your Aug birthday back in school and they'll be aligned and everything works. Why would you want to be s square peg trying to fit in a round hole.


Why do my child a disservice by holding them back in school while kids their age are a year advanced academically and in maturity?
Also, they can only play with their age group or up. So what's gained?
No one can play down

RAE says that being the oldest will give them an academic advantage over all the other students.

Or ore you one of those selective RAE people that only uses it to get what you want?


Wow, to brazenly flaunt ignorance and stupidity with such pride

So, my kid being the oldest in 9th grade learning Economics 1 while kids her age are doing Economics 2/3 in 10th grade is a win for her?

RAE says that oldest is always better. Its science.

You just dont like it when you cant use RAE to get what you want.

If I was a club owner I say sure your August birthday can play down a grade. You just need to hold them back.


Say you've never actually read a study on relative age effect without saying you've never actually read a study on relative age effect.

Dear D Student,
It's called RAE and not AE for a reason.

For your homework, lookup biological age vs calendar age to start.
For extra credit, lookup early maturation and early bloomers.

* not a single RAE study says all older kids have an advantage or gets selected primarily


I would think most studies don't speak in absolutes. Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage. It's not really something to debate.

Regardless, what everyone is talking about here are the pros and cons that apply to a very small number of kids. What those kids decide to do will be up to them and the clubs. I think what most will agree with, is that most clubs won't force kids to play up. If they want to, and it makes sense, etc., then they can. Otherwise, it is up to the parents and the player to decide what they want to do and to weigh the pros and cons (that have been talked about ad nauseum here) and make a decision.


Being oldest is not an automatic proven advantage in soccer or academics.

Many younger players and students outperform older peers.
Stop saying silly stuff to score points


Who said "automatic" you silly goose?


"Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage"


It is not automatic. Sorry for the confusion. It is not a true statement to say that if you're the oldest in a cohort, you will be the smarts, strongest, silliest, in the cohort. But when compared against their peers, the ones that are the smarts, strongest, and silliest usually (not always, its not automatic) tend to be the oldest. There are younger kids in that cohort that will be some of the ones that have all the S's, of course, but the SCieNce shows there is an advantage to being the oldest.

Good finally admitting your nonsense beliefs about rae arent soccer exclusive.

So this means if you're going to play your Aug birthday down a grade because of rae you're also going to hold your kid back in school because of rae.

Problem solved because they're playing on the correct grade in school team thats aligned with their school grade.


To be fair - I just jumped in this convo and it only took me one comment to course-correct. I wasn't the one who first started talking about RAE.

And I agree that is one way to solve the problem. Just hold the Aug. kid back. Might be a hard sell for someone already in HS, but if younger, it makes sense. It won't be for everyone, but it's a viable option.


Admitting you cant parent your kid to success so you gotta mess up their head by having all the kids in their neighborhood their age one grade ahead


Yup. You're right. Parents love messing up their kid's heads.


Right of passage

But some go way above and beyond

Its going to be interesting to see what happens with all the Aug-Dec players that were forced to play up a level/grade in BY. But this fall will be playing "down" on their grade in school team.

I expect them to dominate for 6 months. But after that clubs will get their claws into them forcing players to be the same as everyone else their grade.


My November kid will now be one of the oldest instead of the youngest and I can guarantee he won't be dominating anything

His talents won't magically miraculously change
He will be relatively better than his teammates under SY rather than BY with all else equal.


Older never equates to better in a skill based activity
Older participants, all else equal, are better relative to younger participants in a defined age group where improvements are gained with participants age via an accumulation of experience, physical traits and/or playing ability. Did you expect you son to have more skill switching from BY to SY? Because if you did and are now disappointed that would be on you for the misunderstanding.

This is not what research says. Actual numbers and research are below

https://medium.com/@giacorada/the-fascinating-birth-trend-among-professional-soccer-players-b2a48d015e7d



You just like the graph because it supports your position -- but there are so many holes to the study that even the author acknowledges and some that he doesn't -- like he doesn't discuss/account for how the US had both BY and SY for these players.
I love that graph.

It says August kids have a much better outcome being the oldest rather than the youngest even if a reasonable amount of the period studied was under BY and not all under SY.

I like that graph because it shows that rae doesnt apply in America. The authors option was p2p soccer made players birth month evenly distributed across the year.


If everyone looked at their kids MLS Next team or ECNL team roster right now, none of them would show August birth month as most represented

Go ahead
You do know that soccer is switching from BY to SY, right?


So if you looked Now as requested, are you seeing BY or SY?
Top level rosters over indexed on oldest. Already been established.

No they're not. In fact nobody "indexes" anything. What a dumb thing to say.

Coaches pick rosters based on ability and who the club wants to highlight


This is a really silly response and misunderstands -- either intentionally or not -- the whole issue.
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Post 02/13/2026 15:58     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:Heres my family situation. My high flyer female with a decmber birthday and a potential in playing in college will age down for maximum visibility. My August boy who plays hg dev will stay with his age to be an older for the time ever. No aspirations other than playing good soccer and translating his level of travel to the hs game. Both win

I dont know if "age down" is the correct terminology although I get what you're saying. In BY your December birthday player was forced to play up a grade. Now since we're switching back to SY again they'll be grouped with players their grade in school which should be fun for them. This was/is the whole intent of switching back from BY to SY.

General fyi but did you know the reason BY works for other countries is because school cutoff for a certain grade is 1/1. However school start dates are usually around Aug Sept. When you think about it this makes it easier because all you need to do is ask a kid what year they were born and that tells you their grade in school. In America we combine school start date with cutoff date this is why BY doesnt work and SY better aligns all players to a specific grade here.


My December kid is in MLS Next and committed to a D1 school

I can't recall us having any discussions about school grade

Be obtuse if you want.

I guarantee at some point graduating year aka grade in school was discussed or your kids college coach wouldn't know what year to expect to see them on campus.


They of course knew his graduating year.

We provided that when we reached out and they also knew it before we gave them.

My point is that for his soccer development journey, school grade being different than his teammates was never an issue.


The situation is different now. Birth year created a situation where players in a specific grade had to play with kids in a higher grade because they missed the school cutoff. No one minded this because playing with kids in a higher grade feels more challenging and acceptable (of course depends on the players themselves being good, but just generally, a 9th grader playing with 10th graders was fine) College scouts looking at 10th graders might also see the 9th grader and just keep them in mind for the next recruiting year. All good there.

Now, you have a few months of kids who could potentially have to play with a team that is primarily a lower grade. So in this scenario, you have a 10th grader playing on a team full of 9th graders. College scouts aren't looking at 9th graders and probably aren't going to make a special trip over to a field full of 9th graders just to see the 1 or 2 10th graders.

It doesn't change the fact that most recruiting is done by the player/parents, with outreach and direct attendance at ID camps where coaches are - where of course you are aligned by graduation year. But the scenario above isn't really helping player development or recruiting - just clubs who potentially want to win more games. For younger grades, it's fine because maybe some smaller kids need more time in 7v7, 9v9 etc. But by high school, kids should be aligned with grad year if at all possible.


You do know the colleges are only looking at a few people to fill the small amount of available freshman spaces on their roster?

They aren't trawling the ocean


You are correct - it is such a small number that a kid playing with a younger grade will literally never end up playing college soccer. Hence the reason that even to have a remote chance, you have to play with your grad year.


The 10th grader with the skills, potential and attitude the college recruiter wants will get recruited if they are on a team with some 9th graders

Because the college recruiter is a soccer person, not guidance counselor

Why only play down in soccer?

Just hold your Aug birthday back in school and they'll be aligned and everything works. Why would you want to be s square peg trying to fit in a round hole.


Why do my child a disservice by holding them back in school while kids their age are a year advanced academically and in maturity?
Also, they can only play with their age group or up. So what's gained?
No one can play down

RAE says that being the oldest will give them an academic advantage over all the other students.

Or ore you one of those selective RAE people that only uses it to get what you want?


Wow, to brazenly flaunt ignorance and stupidity with such pride

So, my kid being the oldest in 9th grade learning Economics 1 while kids her age are doing Economics 2/3 in 10th grade is a win for her?

RAE says that oldest is always better. Its science.

You just dont like it when you cant use RAE to get what you want.

If I was a club owner I say sure your August birthday can play down a grade. You just need to hold them back.


Say you've never actually read a study on relative age effect without saying you've never actually read a study on relative age effect.

Dear D Student,
It's called RAE and not AE for a reason.

For your homework, lookup biological age vs calendar age to start.
For extra credit, lookup early maturation and early bloomers.

* not a single RAE study says all older kids have an advantage or gets selected primarily


I would think most studies don't speak in absolutes. Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage. It's not really something to debate.

Regardless, what everyone is talking about here are the pros and cons that apply to a very small number of kids. What those kids decide to do will be up to them and the clubs. I think what most will agree with, is that most clubs won't force kids to play up. If they want to, and it makes sense, etc., then they can. Otherwise, it is up to the parents and the player to decide what they want to do and to weigh the pros and cons (that have been talked about ad nauseum here) and make a decision.


Being oldest is not an automatic proven advantage in soccer or academics.

Many younger players and students outperform older peers.
Stop saying silly stuff to score points


Who said "automatic" you silly goose?


"Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage"


It is not automatic. Sorry for the confusion. It is not a true statement to say that if you're the oldest in a cohort, you will be the smarts, strongest, silliest, in the cohort. But when compared against their peers, the ones that are the smarts, strongest, and silliest usually (not always, its not automatic) tend to be the oldest. There are younger kids in that cohort that will be some of the ones that have all the S's, of course, but the SCieNce shows there is an advantage to being the oldest.

Good finally admitting your nonsense beliefs about rae arent soccer exclusive.

So this means if you're going to play your Aug birthday down a grade because of rae you're also going to hold your kid back in school because of rae.

Problem solved because they're playing on the correct grade in school team thats aligned with their school grade.


To be fair - I just jumped in this convo and it only took me one comment to course-correct. I wasn't the one who first started talking about RAE.

And I agree that is one way to solve the problem. Just hold the Aug. kid back. Might be a hard sell for someone already in HS, but if younger, it makes sense. It won't be for everyone, but it's a viable option.


Admitting you cant parent your kid to success so you gotta mess up their head by having all the kids in their neighborhood their age one grade ahead


Yup. You're right. Parents love messing up their kid's heads.


Right of passage

But some go way above and beyond

Its going to be interesting to see what happens with all the Aug-Dec players that were forced to play up a level/grade in BY. But this fall will be playing "down" on their grade in school team.

I expect them to dominate for 6 months. But after that clubs will get their claws into them forcing players to be the same as everyone else their grade.


My November kid will now be one of the oldest instead of the youngest and I can guarantee he won't be dominating anything

His talents won't magically miraculously change
He will be relatively better than his teammates under SY rather than BY with all else equal.


Older never equates to better in a skill based activity
Older participants, all else equal, are better relative to younger participants in a defined age group where improvements are gained with participants age via an accumulation of experience, physical traits and/or playing ability. Did you expect you son to have more skill switching from BY to SY? Because if you did and are now disappointed that would be on you for the misunderstanding.

This is not what research says. Actual numbers and research are below

https://medium.com/@giacorada/the-fascinating-birth-trend-among-professional-soccer-players-b2a48d015e7d



You just like the graph because it supports your position -- but there are so many holes to the study that even the author acknowledges and some that he doesn't -- like he doesn't discuss/account for how the US had both BY and SY for these players.
I love that graph.

It says August kids have a much better outcome being the oldest rather than the youngest even if a reasonable amount of the period studied was under BY and not all under SY.

I like that graph because it shows that rae doesnt apply in America. The authors option was p2p soccer made players birth month evenly distributed across the year.


If everyone looked at their kids MLS Next team or ECNL team roster right now, none of them would show August birth month as most represented

Go ahead
You do know that soccer is switching from BY to SY, right?


So if you looked Now as requested, are you seeing BY or SY?
Top level rosters over indexed on oldest. Already been established.

No they're not. In fact nobody "indexes" anything. What a dumb thing to say.

Coaches pick rosters based on ability and who the club wants to highlight
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Post 02/13/2026 15:56     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:Heres my family situation. My high flyer female with a decmber birthday and a potential in playing in college will age down for maximum visibility. My August boy who plays hg dev will stay with his age to be an older for the time ever. No aspirations other than playing good soccer and translating his level of travel to the hs game. Both win

I dont know if "age down" is the correct terminology although I get what you're saying. In BY your December birthday player was forced to play up a grade. Now since we're switching back to SY again they'll be grouped with players their grade in school which should be fun for them. This was/is the whole intent of switching back from BY to SY.

General fyi but did you know the reason BY works for other countries is because school cutoff for a certain grade is 1/1. However school start dates are usually around Aug Sept. When you think about it this makes it easier because all you need to do is ask a kid what year they were born and that tells you their grade in school. In America we combine school start date with cutoff date this is why BY doesnt work and SY better aligns all players to a specific grade here.


My December kid is in MLS Next and committed to a D1 school

I can't recall us having any discussions about school grade

Be obtuse if you want.

I guarantee at some point graduating year aka grade in school was discussed or your kids college coach wouldn't know what year to expect to see them on campus.


They of course knew his graduating year.

We provided that when we reached out and they also knew it before we gave them.

My point is that for his soccer development journey, school grade being different than his teammates was never an issue.


The situation is different now. Birth year created a situation where players in a specific grade had to play with kids in a higher grade because they missed the school cutoff. No one minded this because playing with kids in a higher grade feels more challenging and acceptable (of course depends on the players themselves being good, but just generally, a 9th grader playing with 10th graders was fine) College scouts looking at 10th graders might also see the 9th grader and just keep them in mind for the next recruiting year. All good there.

Now, you have a few months of kids who could potentially have to play with a team that is primarily a lower grade. So in this scenario, you have a 10th grader playing on a team full of 9th graders. College scouts aren't looking at 9th graders and probably aren't going to make a special trip over to a field full of 9th graders just to see the 1 or 2 10th graders.

It doesn't change the fact that most recruiting is done by the player/parents, with outreach and direct attendance at ID camps where coaches are - where of course you are aligned by graduation year. But the scenario above isn't really helping player development or recruiting - just clubs who potentially want to win more games. For younger grades, it's fine because maybe some smaller kids need more time in 7v7, 9v9 etc. But by high school, kids should be aligned with grad year if at all possible.


You do know the colleges are only looking at a few people to fill the small amount of available freshman spaces on their roster?

They aren't trawling the ocean


You are correct - it is such a small number that a kid playing with a younger grade will literally never end up playing college soccer. Hence the reason that even to have a remote chance, you have to play with your grad year.


The 10th grader with the skills, potential and attitude the college recruiter wants will get recruited if they are on a team with some 9th graders

Because the college recruiter is a soccer person, not guidance counselor

Why only play down in soccer?

Just hold your Aug birthday back in school and they'll be aligned and everything works. Why would you want to be s square peg trying to fit in a round hole.


Why do my child a disservice by holding them back in school while kids their age are a year advanced academically and in maturity?
Also, they can only play with their age group or up. So what's gained?
No one can play down

RAE says that being the oldest will give them an academic advantage over all the other students.

Or ore you one of those selective RAE people that only uses it to get what you want?


Wow, to brazenly flaunt ignorance and stupidity with such pride

So, my kid being the oldest in 9th grade learning Economics 1 while kids her age are doing Economics 2/3 in 10th grade is a win for her?

RAE says that oldest is always better. Its science.

You just dont like it when you cant use RAE to get what you want.

If I was a club owner I say sure your August birthday can play down a grade. You just need to hold them back.


Say you've never actually read a study on relative age effect without saying you've never actually read a study on relative age effect.

Dear D Student,
It's called RAE and not AE for a reason.

For your homework, lookup biological age vs calendar age to start.
For extra credit, lookup early maturation and early bloomers.

* not a single RAE study says all older kids have an advantage or gets selected primarily


I would think most studies don't speak in absolutes. Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage. It's not really something to debate.

Regardless, what everyone is talking about here are the pros and cons that apply to a very small number of kids. What those kids decide to do will be up to them and the clubs. I think what most will agree with, is that most clubs won't force kids to play up. If they want to, and it makes sense, etc., then they can. Otherwise, it is up to the parents and the player to decide what they want to do and to weigh the pros and cons (that have been talked about ad nauseum here) and make a decision.


Being oldest is not an automatic proven advantage in soccer or academics.

Many younger players and students outperform older peers.
Stop saying silly stuff to score points


Who said "automatic" you silly goose?


"Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage"


It is not automatic. Sorry for the confusion. It is not a true statement to say that if you're the oldest in a cohort, you will be the smarts, strongest, silliest, in the cohort. But when compared against their peers, the ones that are the smarts, strongest, and silliest usually (not always, its not automatic) tend to be the oldest. There are younger kids in that cohort that will be some of the ones that have all the S's, of course, but the SCieNce shows there is an advantage to being the oldest.

Good finally admitting your nonsense beliefs about rae arent soccer exclusive.

So this means if you're going to play your Aug birthday down a grade because of rae you're also going to hold your kid back in school because of rae.

Problem solved because they're playing on the correct grade in school team thats aligned with their school grade.


To be fair - I just jumped in this convo and it only took me one comment to course-correct. I wasn't the one who first started talking about RAE.

And I agree that is one way to solve the problem. Just hold the Aug. kid back. Might be a hard sell for someone already in HS, but if younger, it makes sense. It won't be for everyone, but it's a viable option.


Admitting you cant parent your kid to success so you gotta mess up their head by having all the kids in their neighborhood their age one grade ahead


Yup. You're right. Parents love messing up their kid's heads.


Right of passage

But some go way above and beyond

Its going to be interesting to see what happens with all the Aug-Dec players that were forced to play up a level/grade in BY. But this fall will be playing "down" on their grade in school team.

I expect them to dominate for 6 months. But after that clubs will get their claws into them forcing players to be the same as everyone else their grade.


My November kid will now be one of the oldest instead of the youngest and I can guarantee he won't be dominating anything

His talents won't magically miraculously change
He will be relatively better than his teammates under SY rather than BY with all else equal.


Older never equates to better in a skill based activity
Older participants, all else equal, are better relative to younger participants in a defined age group where improvements are gained with participants age via an accumulation of experience, physical traits and/or playing ability. Did you expect you son to have more skill switching from BY to SY? Because if you did and are now disappointed that would be on you for the misunderstanding.

This is not what research says. Actual numbers and research are below

https://medium.com/@giacorada/the-fascinating-birth-trend-among-professional-soccer-players-b2a48d015e7d



You just like the graph because it supports your position -- but there are so many holes to the study that even the author acknowledges and some that he doesn't -- like he doesn't discuss/account for how the US had both BY and SY for these players.
I love that graph.

It says August kids have a much better outcome being the oldest rather than the youngest even if a reasonable amount of the period studied was under BY and not all under SY.

I like that graph because it shows that rae doesnt apply in America. The authors option was p2p soccer made players birth month evenly distributed across the year.


If everyone looked at their kids MLS Next team or ECNL team roster right now, none of them would show August birth month as most represented

Go ahead
You do know that soccer is switching from BY to SY, right?


So if you looked Now as requested, are you seeing BY or SY?
Top level rosters over indexed on oldest. Already been established.
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Post 02/13/2026 15:24     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:Heres my family situation. My high flyer female with a decmber birthday and a potential in playing in college will age down for maximum visibility. My August boy who plays hg dev will stay with his age to be an older for the time ever. No aspirations other than playing good soccer and translating his level of travel to the hs game. Both win

I dont know if "age down" is the correct terminology although I get what you're saying. In BY your December birthday player was forced to play up a grade. Now since we're switching back to SY again they'll be grouped with players their grade in school which should be fun for them. This was/is the whole intent of switching back from BY to SY.

General fyi but did you know the reason BY works for other countries is because school cutoff for a certain grade is 1/1. However school start dates are usually around Aug Sept. When you think about it this makes it easier because all you need to do is ask a kid what year they were born and that tells you their grade in school. In America we combine school start date with cutoff date this is why BY doesnt work and SY better aligns all players to a specific grade here.


My December kid is in MLS Next and committed to a D1 school

I can't recall us having any discussions about school grade

Be obtuse if you want.

I guarantee at some point graduating year aka grade in school was discussed or your kids college coach wouldn't know what year to expect to see them on campus.


They of course knew his graduating year.

We provided that when we reached out and they also knew it before we gave them.

My point is that for his soccer development journey, school grade being different than his teammates was never an issue.


The situation is different now. Birth year created a situation where players in a specific grade had to play with kids in a higher grade because they missed the school cutoff. No one minded this because playing with kids in a higher grade feels more challenging and acceptable (of course depends on the players themselves being good, but just generally, a 9th grader playing with 10th graders was fine) College scouts looking at 10th graders might also see the 9th grader and just keep them in mind for the next recruiting year. All good there.

Now, you have a few months of kids who could potentially have to play with a team that is primarily a lower grade. So in this scenario, you have a 10th grader playing on a team full of 9th graders. College scouts aren't looking at 9th graders and probably aren't going to make a special trip over to a field full of 9th graders just to see the 1 or 2 10th graders.

It doesn't change the fact that most recruiting is done by the player/parents, with outreach and direct attendance at ID camps where coaches are - where of course you are aligned by graduation year. But the scenario above isn't really helping player development or recruiting - just clubs who potentially want to win more games. For younger grades, it's fine because maybe some smaller kids need more time in 7v7, 9v9 etc. But by high school, kids should be aligned with grad year if at all possible.


You do know the colleges are only looking at a few people to fill the small amount of available freshman spaces on their roster?

They aren't trawling the ocean


You are correct - it is such a small number that a kid playing with a younger grade will literally never end up playing college soccer. Hence the reason that even to have a remote chance, you have to play with your grad year.


The 10th grader with the skills, potential and attitude the college recruiter wants will get recruited if they are on a team with some 9th graders

Because the college recruiter is a soccer person, not guidance counselor

Why only play down in soccer?

Just hold your Aug birthday back in school and they'll be aligned and everything works. Why would you want to be s square peg trying to fit in a round hole.


Why do my child a disservice by holding them back in school while kids their age are a year advanced academically and in maturity?
Also, they can only play with their age group or up. So what's gained?
No one can play down

RAE says that being the oldest will give them an academic advantage over all the other students.

Or ore you one of those selective RAE people that only uses it to get what you want?


Wow, to brazenly flaunt ignorance and stupidity with such pride

So, my kid being the oldest in 9th grade learning Economics 1 while kids her age are doing Economics 2/3 in 10th grade is a win for her?

RAE says that oldest is always better. Its science.

You just dont like it when you cant use RAE to get what you want.

If I was a club owner I say sure your August birthday can play down a grade. You just need to hold them back.


Say you've never actually read a study on relative age effect without saying you've never actually read a study on relative age effect.

Dear D Student,
It's called RAE and not AE for a reason.

For your homework, lookup biological age vs calendar age to start.
For extra credit, lookup early maturation and early bloomers.

* not a single RAE study says all older kids have an advantage or gets selected primarily


I would think most studies don't speak in absolutes. Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage. It's not really something to debate.

Regardless, what everyone is talking about here are the pros and cons that apply to a very small number of kids. What those kids decide to do will be up to them and the clubs. I think what most will agree with, is that most clubs won't force kids to play up. If they want to, and it makes sense, etc., then they can. Otherwise, it is up to the parents and the player to decide what they want to do and to weigh the pros and cons (that have been talked about ad nauseum here) and make a decision.


Being oldest is not an automatic proven advantage in soccer or academics.

Many younger players and students outperform older peers.
Stop saying silly stuff to score points


Who said "automatic" you silly goose?


"Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage"


It is not automatic. Sorry for the confusion. It is not a true statement to say that if you're the oldest in a cohort, you will be the smarts, strongest, silliest, in the cohort. But when compared against their peers, the ones that are the smarts, strongest, and silliest usually (not always, its not automatic) tend to be the oldest. There are younger kids in that cohort that will be some of the ones that have all the S's, of course, but the SCieNce shows there is an advantage to being the oldest.

Good finally admitting your nonsense beliefs about rae arent soccer exclusive.

So this means if you're going to play your Aug birthday down a grade because of rae you're also going to hold your kid back in school because of rae.

Problem solved because they're playing on the correct grade in school team thats aligned with their school grade.


To be fair - I just jumped in this convo and it only took me one comment to course-correct. I wasn't the one who first started talking about RAE.

And I agree that is one way to solve the problem. Just hold the Aug. kid back. Might be a hard sell for someone already in HS, but if younger, it makes sense. It won't be for everyone, but it's a viable option.


Admitting you cant parent your kid to success so you gotta mess up their head by having all the kids in their neighborhood their age one grade ahead


Yup. You're right. Parents love messing up their kid's heads.


Right of passage

But some go way above and beyond

Its going to be interesting to see what happens with all the Aug-Dec players that were forced to play up a level/grade in BY. But this fall will be playing "down" on their grade in school team.

I expect them to dominate for 6 months. But after that clubs will get their claws into them forcing players to be the same as everyone else their grade.


My November kid will now be one of the oldest instead of the youngest and I can guarantee he won't be dominating anything

His talents won't magically miraculously change
He will be relatively better than his teammates under SY rather than BY with all else equal.


Older never equates to better in a skill based activity
Older participants, all else equal, are better relative to younger participants in a defined age group where improvements are gained with participants age via an accumulation of experience, physical traits and/or playing ability. Did you expect you son to have more skill switching from BY to SY? Because if you did and are now disappointed that would be on you for the misunderstanding.

This is not what research says. Actual numbers and research are below

https://medium.com/@giacorada/the-fascinating-birth-trend-among-professional-soccer-players-b2a48d015e7d



You just like the graph because it supports your position -- but there are so many holes to the study that even the author acknowledges and some that he doesn't -- like he doesn't discuss/account for how the US had both BY and SY for these players.
I love that graph.

It says August kids have a much better outcome being the oldest rather than the youngest even if a reasonable amount of the period studied was under BY and not all under SY.

I like that graph because it shows that rae doesnt apply in America. The authors option was p2p soccer made players birth month evenly distributed across the year.


If everyone looked at their kids MLS Next team or ECNL team roster right now, none of them would show August birth month as most represented

Go ahead
You do know that soccer is switching from BY to SY, right?


So if you looked Now as requested, are you seeing BY or SY?
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 15:22     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

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Anonymous wrote:After lurking on all the threads on this topic, it seems like the misaligned August/September players are in a dawned if you do, dawned if you don't situation.

Either they "play on grade" where since they'll be the youngest they should be happy with the B team.

Or they "play in their new age bracket" against players a full grade behind them but they'll never amount to much playing against younger players and won't be recruited.

Seems like what most people really want to for August/September kids to go find a different sport to play.

I can tell you that it is not as simple a choice for most misaligned players in that birth range as people on these threads make it seem. Trying to navigate to the best situation coaching wise, development wise, recruiting wise and socially is like trying to solve a rubik's cube that's had the squares switched.

Which is why leagues should have stepped up and taken the decision out of clubs/parents hands by saying that they recommend Aug/Sept players play on their grade in school team.

Weasels can still play down because there's no rule against it. But the direction would be clear and that is Aug/Sept birthdays play on their grade in school team.

But this is soccer if there wasnt drama and ambiguity it wouldnt be so appealing to play.
Shoulda could woulda.

Leagues picked August to July as an a group and aren't allowing playing down (other than MLSN1). Grade was not under discussion based on released deliberations. Teams in DMV aren't forcing kids to play on grade and are limiting playing up. Around here, the discussion is over.


We're the educated demographic
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 15:20     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:After lurking on all the threads on this topic, it seems like the misaligned August/September players are in a dawned if you do, dawned if you don't situation.

Either they "play on grade" where since they'll be the youngest they should be happy with the B team.

Or they "play in their new age bracket" against players a full grade behind them but they'll never amount to much playing against younger players and won't be recruited.

Seems like what most people really want to for August/September kids to go find a different sport to play.

I can tell you that it is not as simple a choice for most misaligned players in that birth range as people on these threads make it seem. Trying to navigate to the best situation coaching wise, development wise, recruiting wise and socially is like trying to solve a rubik's cube that's had the squares switched.

Which is why leagues should have stepped up and taken the decision out of clubs/parents hands by saying that they recommend Aug/Sept players play on their grade in school team.

Weasels can still play down because there's no rule against it. But the direction would be clear and that is Aug/Sept birthdays play on their grade in school team.

But this is soccer if there wasnt drama and ambiguity it wouldnt be so appealing to play.
Shoulda could woulda.

Leagues picked August to July as an a group and aren't allowing playing down (other than MLSN1). Grade was not under discussion based on released deliberations. Teams in DMV aren't forcing kids to play on grade and are limiting playing up. Around here, the discussion is over.

Internally ECNL leadership has been telling DOCs to play Aug birthdays on their grade in school team. Instead of being sneaky control freaks they should communicate this externally so parents can plan accordingly.
Well if true (and it isn't) clubs in DC area not listening. They are following the more public ECNL advice saying playing up should only be for those that could dominate an age group up.

It is true whether you choose to believe it or not.


Even if true, they'll still be misaligned players from other months. You can never truly fix it unless you do GY.
And weird for them to target August births but ignore September and October. Just not believable especially when there isn't an accepted way to collect and verify grades across the country and certain ECNL teams would be at a disadvantage based on their school cutoffs. Explains why no proof has been given. Seems like a I heard from a guy who wanted rather than a thing that actually occurred.

August birthdays is a colloquialism used for all players that are a grade up in school but an grade down in the SY eligibility window of 8/1-7/31. You cant go through every possible configuration every time when discussing August birthdays.
No, August kids are kids born in August, grade doesn't matter. Just like playing down means playing below your assigned age group based on your birthday.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 15:17     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:After lurking on all the threads on this topic, it seems like the misaligned August/September players are in a dawned if you do, dawned if you don't situation.

Either they "play on grade" where since they'll be the youngest they should be happy with the B team.

Or they "play in their new age bracket" against players a full grade behind them but they'll never amount to much playing against younger players and won't be recruited.

Seems like what most people really want to for August/September kids to go find a different sport to play.

I can tell you that it is not as simple a choice for most misaligned players in that birth range as people on these threads make it seem. Trying to navigate to the best situation coaching wise, development wise, recruiting wise and socially is like trying to solve a rubik's cube that's had the squares switched.

Which is why leagues should have stepped up and taken the decision out of clubs/parents hands by saying that they recommend Aug/Sept players play on their grade in school team.

Weasels can still play down because there's no rule against it. But the direction would be clear and that is Aug/Sept birthdays play on their grade in school team.

But this is soccer if there wasnt drama and ambiguity it wouldnt be so appealing to play.
Shoulda could woulda.

Leagues picked August to July as an a group and aren't allowing playing down (other than MLSN1). Grade was not under discussion based on released deliberations. Teams in DMV aren't forcing kids to play on grade and are limiting playing up. Around here, the discussion is over.

Internally ECNL leadership has been telling DOCs to play Aug birthdays on their grade in school team. Instead of being sneaky control freaks they should communicate this externally so parents can plan accordingly.
Well if true (and it isn't) clubs in DC area not listening. They are following the more public ECNL advice saying playing up should only be for those that could dominate an age group up.

It is true whether you choose to believe it or not.


Even if true, they'll still be misaligned players from other months. You can never truly fix it unless you do GY.
And weird for them to target August births but ignore September and October. Just not believable especially when there isn't an accepted way to collect and verify grades across the country and certain ECNL teams would be at a disadvantage based on their school cutoffs. Explains why no proof has been given. Seems like a I heard from a guy who wanted rather than a thing that actually occurred.

August birthdays is a colloquialism used for all players that are a grade up in school but an grade down in the SY eligibility window of 8/1-7/31. You cant go through every possible configuration every time when discussing August birthdays.
Nobody in their right mind refers to August births as anything other than those born in August.

Everyone involved with youth soccer clubs and the BY to SY change does.


More trust me, bro! How about trust the parents if that's the policy? Or, at least say it loud and proud on the podcast. No, instead they talked about case-by-case. That episode was dissected here.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 15:15     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:After lurking on all the threads on this topic, it seems like the misaligned August/September players are in a dawned if you do, dawned if you don't situation.

Either they "play on grade" where since they'll be the youngest they should be happy with the B team.

Or they "play in their new age bracket" against players a full grade behind them but they'll never amount to much playing against younger players and won't be recruited.

Seems like what most people really want to for August/September kids to go find a different sport to play.

I can tell you that it is not as simple a choice for most misaligned players in that birth range as people on these threads make it seem. Trying to navigate to the best situation coaching wise, development wise, recruiting wise and socially is like trying to solve a rubik's cube that's had the squares switched.

Which is why leagues should have stepped up and taken the decision out of clubs/parents hands by saying that they recommend Aug/Sept players play on their grade in school team.

Weasels can still play down because there's no rule against it. But the direction would be clear and that is Aug/Sept birthdays play on their grade in school team.

But this is soccer if there wasnt drama and ambiguity it wouldnt be so appealing to play.
Shoulda could woulda.

Leagues picked August to July as an a group and aren't allowing playing down (other than MLSN1). Grade was not under discussion based on released deliberations. Teams in DMV aren't forcing kids to play on grade and are limiting playing up. Around here, the discussion is over.

Internally ECNL leadership has been telling DOCs to play Aug birthdays on their grade in school team. Instead of being sneaky control freaks they should communicate this externally so parents can plan accordingly.
Well if true (and it isn't) clubs in DC area not listening. They are following the more public ECNL advice saying playing up should only be for those that could dominate an age group up.

It is true whether you choose to believe it or not.


Even if true, they'll still be misaligned players from other months. You can never truly fix it unless you do GY.
And weird for them to target August births but ignore September and October. Just not believable especially when there isn't an accepted way to collect and verify grades across the country and certain ECNL teams would be at a disadvantage based on their school cutoffs. Explains why no proof has been given. Seems like a I heard from a guy who wanted rather than a thing that actually occurred.

August birthdays is a colloquialism used for all players that are a grade up in school but an grade down in the SY eligibility window of 8/1-7/31. You cant go through every possible configuration every time when discussing August birthdays.


Which is why it's case-by-case. A top Oct misaligned player may not fit on a Aug-July team for a host of reasons. (And yes, they do exist.) And poor Connecticut until recently had a Jan. 1 cutoff!
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 15:05     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:After lurking on all the threads on this topic, it seems like the misaligned August/September players are in a dawned if you do, dawned if you don't situation.

Either they "play on grade" where since they'll be the youngest they should be happy with the B team.

Or they "play in their new age bracket" against players a full grade behind them but they'll never amount to much playing against younger players and won't be recruited.

Seems like what most people really want to for August/September kids to go find a different sport to play.

I can tell you that it is not as simple a choice for most misaligned players in that birth range as people on these threads make it seem. Trying to navigate to the best situation coaching wise, development wise, recruiting wise and socially is like trying to solve a rubik's cube that's had the squares switched.

Which is why leagues should have stepped up and taken the decision out of clubs/parents hands by saying that they recommend Aug/Sept players play on their grade in school team.

Weasels can still play down because there's no rule against it. But the direction would be clear and that is Aug/Sept birthdays play on their grade in school team.

But this is soccer if there wasnt drama and ambiguity it wouldnt be so appealing to play.
Shoulda could woulda.

Leagues picked August to July as an a group and aren't allowing playing down (other than MLSN1). Grade was not under discussion based on released deliberations. Teams in DMV aren't forcing kids to play on grade and are limiting playing up. Around here, the discussion is over.

Internally ECNL leadership has been telling DOCs to play Aug birthdays on their grade in school team. Instead of being sneaky control freaks they should communicate this externally so parents can plan accordingly.
Well if true (and it isn't) clubs in DC area not listening. They are following the more public ECNL advice saying playing up should only be for those that could dominate an age group up.

It is true whether you choose to believe it or not.


Even if true, they'll still be misaligned players from other months. You can never truly fix it unless you do GY.
And weird for them to target August births but ignore September and October. Just not believable especially when there isn't an accepted way to collect and verify grades across the country and certain ECNL teams would be at a disadvantage based on their school cutoffs. Explains why no proof has been given. Seems like a I heard from a guy who wanted rather than a thing that actually occurred.

August birthdays is a colloquialism used for all players that are a grade up in school but an grade down in the SY eligibility window of 8/1-7/31. You cant go through every possible configuration every time when discussing August birthdays.
Nobody in their right mind refers to August births as anything other than those born in August.

Everyone involved with youth soccer clubs and the BY to SY change does.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2026 14:57     Subject: ECNL moving to school year part 2

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:After lurking on all the threads on this topic, it seems like the misaligned August/September players are in a dawned if you do, dawned if you don't situation.

Either they "play on grade" where since they'll be the youngest they should be happy with the B team.

Or they "play in their new age bracket" against players a full grade behind them but they'll never amount to much playing against younger players and won't be recruited.

Seems like what most people really want to for August/September kids to go find a different sport to play.

I can tell you that it is not as simple a choice for most misaligned players in that birth range as people on these threads make it seem. Trying to navigate to the best situation coaching wise, development wise, recruiting wise and socially is like trying to solve a rubik's cube that's had the squares switched.

Which is why leagues should have stepped up and taken the decision out of clubs/parents hands by saying that they recommend Aug/Sept players play on their grade in school team.

Weasels can still play down because there's no rule against it. But the direction would be clear and that is Aug/Sept birthdays play on their grade in school team.

But this is soccer if there wasnt drama and ambiguity it wouldnt be so appealing to play.
Shoulda could woulda.

Leagues picked August to July as an a group and aren't allowing playing down (other than MLSN1). Grade was not under discussion based on released deliberations. Teams in DMV aren't forcing kids to play on grade and are limiting playing up. Around here, the discussion is over.

Internally ECNL leadership has been telling DOCs to play Aug birthdays on their grade in school team. Instead of being sneaky control freaks they should communicate this externally so parents can plan accordingly.
Well if true (and it isn't) clubs in DC area not listening. They are following the more public ECNL advice saying playing up should only be for those that could dominate an age group up.

It is true whether you choose to believe it or not.


Even if true, they'll still be misaligned players from other months. You can never truly fix it unless you do GY.
And weird for them to target August births but ignore September and October. Just not believable especially when there isn't an accepted way to collect and verify grades across the country and certain ECNL teams would be at a disadvantage based on their school cutoffs. Explains why no proof has been given. Seems like a I heard from a guy who wanted rather than a thing that actually occurred.

August birthdays is a colloquialism used for all players that are a grade up in school but an grade down in the SY eligibility window of 8/1-7/31. You cant go through every possible configuration every time when discussing August birthdays.
Nobody in their right mind refers to August births as anything other than those born in August.