*PSA, not spa

I hated a post someone shared today (not sure if it was recent for Jen). It was a ‘back to school spa’
It talked about the kids living in a frat house and then terribly transitioning back to school. It went on, about bath time, then after bath they’re regulated, and you do pizza and a movie (noo!!!! Do bath time, then skip unregulating them with a movie!! Give them peace and quiet)

The friend of mine who posted said it was relatable. Which I don’t think is true for my friend.

And not for me. I think it’s just her and her kids.

Read it to see what I mean. (My 12yo happened to watch me read it on the computer, and we discussed. She and I agreed that’s not how it has to be)

I’m sorry if this is caddy, but why? Why the cutoffs? Why the two toned hair? Jen has a great body and a pretty face and would look like a showstopper if someone just intervened.

I think this should go back to being a Jen Hatmaker page. If you want to debate the Michael / Toughy situation, I’m sure they have their own page.

As someone that works in the legal field and looks for evidence, the texts he’s sent over the past five years threatening to “out” them for this speak volumes. Texts don’t disappear, especially if the people you sent them to did not delete them. He’s out of money, has a book deal and needed some publicity. You obviously bought into it. And that’s sad.

Seriously! The Tuoghys took him into their home, treated him like one of their own children, provided for his every need and probably every want, too, then sent him to college and provided him with the necessary support system of tutors and coaches to get him into the NFL, where he had a pretty successful career, and then treated his girlfriend like family and accepted his kids as their own grandchildren.
I wish the Tuoghys would adopt me.

Ok this wreaks of savior mentality. First off, that movie is not the exact story and Michael has always said that and been bummed about being portrayed as stupid and helpless. Michael was already this star player destined for a football scholarship, not some struggling student like they show in the movie. And the Touhys were all about riding his success wave to get famous because, let's be real, they're super into football and appearances. To them, his main deal was being awesome at football and attaching themselves to that, and attaching him to their alma mater.

Sure, they let him crash at their place for about a year before college, but then they manipulated him into this conservatorship thing, which is just bonkers. That kind of deal is meant for folks who can't really make their own decisions due to serious disabilities, and that wasn't him at all. And then they worked out this arrangement to pay themselves and their own bio kids for the movie rights, but they just conveniently left Michael out of the deal. Oh, and by the way, they never even officially adopted him! I mean, they totally could've done that at any point, but nope, never happened.

Honestly, I think Michael has every right to be ticked off. Saying he should just be grateful is messed up.

Who is telling her the hair looks good and she keep going with it??? Her stylist? She should sue for malpractice. I am so snarky about this because she is an attractive woman but she really diminishes that with her brassy look.

The hair is a huge mystery. Why? Seriously. Why?! It has to somehow be wrapped in her competitiveness versus Texas Barbie. Oh you think you’re blonde? Check this out! It’ll really show off my beet red face.

That’s the only thing that makes sense.

You guys, the hair... It was bad enough when it was blond but now it's almost platinum. It looks terrible. Especially, with the darker brown underneath.

For the love, go back to chestnut brown with highlights!!!!

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Anonymous wrote:Seriously! The Tuoghys took him into their home, treated him like one of their own children, provided for his every need and probably every want, too, then sent him to college and provided him with the necessary support system of tutors and coaches to get him into the NFL, where he had a pretty successful career, and then treated his girlfriend like family and accepted his kids as their own grandchildren.
I wish the Tuoghys would adopt me.

Since they never adopted him, Oher is probably wishing the same thing….

I think what the pp was trying to point out is that the Tuoghys literally pulled Oher out of the projects and gave him tremendous opportunities with every resource they could provide.

That's just nonsense. He was already a student at their kids' private school and was a 5 star football recruit. They definitely helped him along with tutoring, etc but they did not "literally" "pull him out of the projects." Yuck.

From his Wikipedia page:

He was placed in foster care at age seven, and alternated between living in various foster homes and periods of homelessness.

(Then in high school
Before that season and for his prior 20 months at Briarcrest, Oher had been living with several foster families. In 2004, Leigh Anne and Sean Tuohy, a couple with a daughter and son attending Briarcrest, allowed Oher to live with them.

So what is your point? He was in foster care. So not in some ghetto like you seem to think.

Are you joking? He was living with “several” foster families and was homeless at times. Implying that they simply “helped him with tutoring” isn’t accurate.

(And I’m not even the original poster that said “pulled him out of the projects”. I just thought your response was wrong, so I looked it up. Lol.)

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Anonymous wrote:Seriously! The Tuoghys took him into their home, treated him like one of their own children, provided for his every need and probably every want, too, then sent him to college and provided him with the necessary support system of tutors and coaches to get him into the NFL, where he had a pretty successful career, and then treated his girlfriend like family and accepted his kids as their own grandchildren.
I wish the Tuoghys would adopt me.

Since they never adopted him, Oher is probably wishing the same thing….

I think what the pp was trying to point out is that the Tuoghys literally pulled Oher out of the projects and gave him tremendous opportunities with every resource they could provide.

That's just nonsense. He was already a student at their kids' private school and was a 5 star football recruit. They definitely helped him along with tutoring, etc but they did not "literally" "pull him out of the projects." Yuck.

From his Wikipedia page:

He was placed in foster care at age seven, and alternated between living in various foster homes and periods of homelessness.

(Then in high school
Before that season and for his prior 20 months at Briarcrest, Oher had been living with several foster families. In 2004, Leigh Anne and Sean Tuohy, a couple with a daughter and son attending Briarcrest, allowed Oher to live with them.

So what is your point? He was in foster care. So not in some ghetto like you seem to think.

For a particularly vain women it’s a mystery to me why she continues to insist on such a harsh, unflattering look. She used to look normal. The warm brunette look with light streaks looked fantastic on her. This current look is hard to look at.

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Anonymous wrote:Seriously! The Tuoghys took him into their home, treated him like one of their own children, provided for his every need and probably every want, too, then sent him to college and provided him with the necessary support system of tutors and coaches to get him into the NFL, where he had a pretty successful career, and then treated his girlfriend like family and accepted his kids as their own grandchildren.
I wish the Tuoghys would adopt me.

Since they never adopted him, Oher is probably wishing the same thing….

I think what the pp was trying to point out is that the Tuoghys literally pulled Oher out of the projects and gave him tremendous opportunities with every resource they could provide.

That's just nonsense. He was already a student at their kids' private school and was a 5 star football recruit. They definitely helped him along with tutoring, etc but they did not "literally" "pull him out of the projects." Yuck.

From his Wikipedia page:

He was placed in foster care at age seven, and alternated between living in various foster homes and periods of homelessness.

(Then in high school
Before that season and for his prior 20 months at Briarcrest, Oher had been living with several foster families. In 2004, Leigh Anne and Sean Tuohy, a couple with a daughter and son attending Briarcrest, allowed Oher to live with them.

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Anonymous wrote:Seriously! The Tuoghys took him into their home, treated him like one of their own children, provided for his every need and probably every want, too, then sent him to college and provided him with the necessary support system of tutors and coaches to get him into the NFL, where he had a pretty successful career, and then treated his girlfriend like family and accepted his kids as their own grandchildren.
I wish the Tuoghys would adopt me.

Since they never adopted him, Oher is probably wishing the same thing….

I think what the pp was trying to point out is that the Tuoghys literally pulled Oher out of the projects and gave him tremendous opportunities with every resource they could provide.

That's just nonsense. He was already a student at their kids' private school and was a 5 star football recruit. They definitely helped him along with tutoring, etc but they did not "literally" "pull him out of the projects." Yuck.

Jen in the gummy video looks so bad. I know it’s tacky to say so but something is definitely wrong with her.

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Anonymous wrote:Seriously! The Tuoghys took him into their home, treated him like one of their own children, provided for his every need and probably every want, too, then sent him to college and provided him with the necessary support system of tutors and coaches to get him into the NFL, where he had a pretty successful career, and then treated his girlfriend like family and accepted his kids as their own grandchildren.
I wish the Tuoghys would adopt me.

Since they never adopted him, Oher is probably wishing the same thing….

I think what the pp was trying to point out is that the Tuoghys literally pulled Oher out of the projects and gave him tremendous opportunities with every resource they could provide.