Anonymous
10/05/2025 06:28
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.
Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.
I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.
People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!
You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.
Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?
We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.
Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.
We empty, scrub clean, and put the chemicals in ours regularly. Why wouldn't you?
We use our hot tub as a fully clothed family, only - very rarely do guests want to use it - but if they do - swimsuits only!
What in the world is going on at your house?
To answer your question, we are living life outside the comfort zone of our neighbors and many people on DCUM.
Our hot tub is drained regularly and cleaned. Our water treatment protocols are stringent and documented. Just cause we prefer to hot tub naked is our preference - our home, our rules.
Do you have a privacy fence?
No fence needed. Hot tub is shielded from prying eyes or the curious.
Anonymous
10/09/2023 19:06
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:I like country music
Me, too!
Anonymous
10/09/2023 16:10
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I dropped out of college halfway through due to $$ problems. Graduated from Penn State online in my 30s.
I’m fat.
I grew up in poverty- public housing, food stamps, etc.
I put ice in my red wine if it’s served to me at room temperature.
That's actually how you're supposed to drink red wine, slightly cooled, rather than room temp. You're ahead of the game, baby!
It's true. Most people drink their red wine too warm and their white wine too cold.
but putting ice in the wine isn't really the best way to chill it down
But no judgement from me; I do it regularly too
Anonymous
10/09/2023 16:08
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:I dropped out of college halfway through due to $$ problems. Graduated from Penn State online in my 30s.
I’m fat.
I grew up in poverty- public housing, food stamps, etc.
I put ice in my red wine if it’s served to me at room temperature.
That's actually how you're supposed to drink red wine, slightly cooled, rather than room temp. You're ahead of the game, baby!
Anonymous
10/09/2023 15:37
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:I don't hire black women from PG. Never have, never will.
well at least you know you are trash
Anonymous
10/09/2023 15:09
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
I dropped out of college halfway through due to $$ problems. Graduated from Penn State online in my 30s.
I’m fat.
I grew up in poverty- public housing, food stamps, etc.
I put ice in my red wine if it’s served to me at room temperature.
I’m fat.
I grew up in poverty- public housing, food stamps, etc.
I put ice in my red wine if it’s served to me at room temperature.
Anonymous
10/09/2023 14:37
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
My car is always disgusting.
Anonymous
10/09/2023 14:13
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
I don't hire black women from PG. Never have, never will.
Anonymous
10/09/2023 13:53
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m 37 and in the best shape of my life. I enjoy the attention that I get. I don’t dress revealing on a regular basis but if dh and I are on vacation together I’ll wear cheeky/small bikinis.
Guy here and I do the same. I get so many looks from married women. It's awesome knowing I could hook up with them if I wanted and the husband has no power to do anything about it.
Well...I don't know if this is actually true. I doubt you're that irresistible.
Yep. If the husband has a dad bod and is wealthy then you don’t stand a chance and the wife is not looking your way.
DP here. There are some spouses that look for attention because they have issues - they are still a hurt little child and need attention of any kind, positive or negative - any attention is considered good, because they are so in need of attention they never received as a child. This is not healthy, and they really need professional help.
In any case I usually can hook up with a married woman once they seem me at the pool or beach or somewhere where I’m shirtless
You win the thread for being the trashiest.
Anonymous
10/09/2023 12:53
Subject: Re:In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:I am on DCUM.
Me too.
And sometimes I lick my plate when I am on my own. Haha
Anonymous
10/09/2023 12:21
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
I wrote a perfectly acceptable response to this thread about swearing and having tattoos. I got deleted. Crazy days.
Anonymous
10/09/2023 02:03
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
I like to wear a swimsuit from Buc-ees and float in my pool while listening to country songs like Sun Daze and Chicken Fried.
My dream job is writing scripts for Lifetime Movie Network.
I have attained the highest loyalty status at Chick fil A.
I go to a major theme park so often they send me requests to focus group new attraction concepts.
I enjoy buying clothes with trashy logos like Coors, and trucker hats with camo print.
I'm a bean enthusiast. I make my own pinto, black beans, etc from dry, flavor with things like pork belly and jalapeños, and serve them to my family with rice.
I can sing Wagon Wheel from heart for karaoke.
I unironically wear cut offs with wife beaters.
My favorite summer foods are watermelon, BLTs, corn on the cob, and homemade pickels. In the summer, I make my own suntea several times per week.
When people seem very precious about table manners, I assume they are middle class.
My dream job is writing scripts for Lifetime Movie Network.
I have attained the highest loyalty status at Chick fil A.
I go to a major theme park so often they send me requests to focus group new attraction concepts.
I enjoy buying clothes with trashy logos like Coors, and trucker hats with camo print.
I'm a bean enthusiast. I make my own pinto, black beans, etc from dry, flavor with things like pork belly and jalapeños, and serve them to my family with rice.
I can sing Wagon Wheel from heart for karaoke.
I unironically wear cut offs with wife beaters.
My favorite summer foods are watermelon, BLTs, corn on the cob, and homemade pickels. In the summer, I make my own suntea several times per week.
When people seem very precious about table manners, I assume they are middle class.
Anonymous
10/09/2023 00:53
Subject: Re:In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it trashier to pack all your road trips foods, or to eat fast food on road trips?
DH: in a day of driving will eat Mcdonald's twice, Starbucks frappe, KFC or a burger, plus snacks like chips or candy
Me: I'm up the night before boiling eggs, packing a cooler - nut butter / jam sandwiches, alternative ingredient no-sugar cookies, cut vegetables, fruit, yogurt cups, bottles of water... We also have a young kid so I'm not excited about him eating an Egg McMuffin for breakfast, chicken nuggets for lunch, and random processed snacks all day.
Omg fast food is ALWAYS trashy. You’re not trashy.
Here is what car food was when I was a kid--shared around the car while driving:
Package of cold wieners
Package of storebought cinnamon rolls (not bakery type, the flattened ones where you can often peel the frosting right off in one piece)
Apples
Quart of chocolate milk
Sometimes to spice things up my parents would get cereal snackpacks
Anonymous
10/09/2023 00:46
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:I bite my nails. I’m trying to stop, but it’s really difficult.
The trick is stop biting one nail at a time, and keep an emery board handly so if you feel a little scraggly piece of nail or like it sticks out to far one one side or another you can go at it with the emery. I always rub the nail edhe on a hard surface after using the emery board so I'm not tempted by the bit of roughness afterwards (I don't wear nail polish, let alone fake nails btw). I have very thin nails that break easily, so I relapse from time to time but this has worked for me for years.
Anonymous
10/04/2023 23:47
Subject: In what ways would you be considered trashy?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m 37 and in the best shape of my life. I enjoy the attention that I get. I don’t dress revealing on a regular basis but if dh and I are on vacation together I’ll wear cheeky/small bikinis.
Guy here and I do the same. I get so many looks from married women. It's awesome knowing I could hook up with them if I wanted and the husband has no power to do anything about it.
Well...I don't know if this is actually true. I doubt you're that irresistible.
Yep. If the husband has a dad bod and is wealthy then you don’t stand a chance and the wife is not looking your way.
DP here. There are some spouses that look for attention because they have issues - they are still a hurt little child and need attention of any kind, positive or negative - any attention is considered good, because they are so in need of attention they never received as a child. This is not healthy, and they really need professional help.
In any case I usually can hook up with a married woman once they seem me at the pool or beach or somewhere where I’m shirtless