Anonymous
07/21/2021 18:57
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think Jennifer Garner is annoyed he went back with his ex. I would not be happy if DH went back to his ex after we divorced. I would wonder if he always wanted her.
Am I nuts?
No. She’s the one he decided to marry and have babies with.
Anonymous
07/21/2021 18:05
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think Jennifer Garner is annoyed he went back with his ex. I would not be happy if DH went back to his ex after we divorced. I would wonder if he always wanted her.
Am I nuts?
It may sting a little but I bet her larger feeling is relief that he's someone else's problem for now, and that JLo is not known as a partier at all.
+1. I bet it does sting. But Garner knows JLo will be a sober influence on him, and, as long as JLo is around, Garner won’t have to be the one to arrange and take him to his rehabs.
Anonymous
07/21/2021 17:57
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
This relationship is fake, fake, fake.
Anonymous
07/21/2021 17:46
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think Jennifer Garner is annoyed he went back with his ex. I would not be happy if DH went back to his ex after we divorced. I would wonder if he always wanted her.
Am I nuts?
It may sting a little but I bet her larger feeling is relief that he's someone else's problem for now, and that JLo is not known as a partier at all.
Anonymous
07/21/2021 17:43
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Does anyone think Jennifer Garner is annoyed he went back with his ex. I would not be happy if DH went back to his ex after we divorced. I would wonder if he always wanted her.
Am I nuts?
No but I suspect it will be awkward between them given she is the one who "got in the way" last time round...
Anonymous
07/21/2021 17:36
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Does anyone think Jennifer Garner is annoyed he went back with his ex. I would not be happy if DH went back to his ex after we divorced. I would wonder if he always wanted her.
Am I nuts?
Am I nuts?
Anonymous
07/11/2021 17:56
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Ben is a stupid dipshit.
Anonymous
07/11/2021 16:17
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
She is clinging onto him in every pic. I see him “needing his space” in 3…2…1.
Anonymous
07/11/2021 16:11
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Poor J Lo’s kids.
It was only like six mos. ago they were spending the holidays w/ARod and his kids and everyone got along well.
They were the unicorn blended family.
And now here they are attending amusement parks together w/Ben’s kids.
They must be so confused at the instability of their mother’s love life.
It won’t work out long term for Bennifer.
Ben dumped J Lo shortly after they were to be married.
Remember he said publicly how he felt “gross” in his relationship w/her and how he had “no business being engaged??”
He will likely turn on her again.
If she doesn’t leave him due to his addictions first.
I think "confused" would capture it if maybe they were much younger. As adolescents i think they they might be feeling a lot of possible things, like angry, embarrassed, depressed, judgmental, worried, who knows? This is how I know j lo is all about spin, because teenagers (healthy ones at least) want to mostly be with their friends and truly, it's about them and their drama, they don't want their parents to have the drama...they want their parents in the background, like a plant.
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Anonymous
07/11/2021 12:46
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Jen says hays she's happy in this new Elle interview.
“I’m good,” she said. “I love my life right now. I love what I’m doing. I love where I’m at. I love the person that I am continually kind of evolving into and becoming. And that kind of joy, that kind of happiness, that kind of love always inspires me. I think some people really get inspired when they’re heartbroken.”
https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/a36931874/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-opens-up-relationship/
I’m glad she’s happy. The look of contentment that has radiated from her this whole relationship has been inspiring.
I think the relationship is fake. But even if it isn’t, being “inspired” but this is whack.
Anonymous
07/10/2021 10:32
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Poor J Lo’s kids.
It was only like six mos. ago they were spending the holidays w/ARod and his kids and everyone got along well.
They were the unicorn blended family.
And now here they are attending amusement parks together w/Ben’s kids.
They must be so confused at the instability of their mother’s love life.
It won’t work out long term for Bennifer.
Ben dumped J Lo shortly after they were to be married.
Remember he said publicly how he felt “gross” in his relationship w/her and how he had “no business being engaged??”
He will likely turn on her again.
If she doesn’t leave him due to his addictions first.
It was only like six mos. ago they were spending the holidays w/ARod and his kids and everyone got along well.
They were the unicorn blended family.
And now here they are attending amusement parks together w/Ben’s kids.
They must be so confused at the instability of their mother’s love life.
It won’t work out long term for Bennifer.
Ben dumped J Lo shortly after they were to be married.
Remember he said publicly how he felt “gross” in his relationship w/her and how he had “no business being engaged??”
He will likely turn on her again.
If she doesn’t leave him due to his addictions first.
Anonymous
07/09/2021 10:52
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Jen says hays she's happy in this new Elle interview.
“I’m good,” she said. “I love my life right now. I love what I’m doing. I love where I’m at. I love the person that I am continually kind of evolving into and becoming. And that kind of joy, that kind of happiness, that kind of love always inspires me. I think some people really get inspired when they’re heartbroken.”
https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/a36931874/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-opens-up-relationship/
I’m glad she’s happy. The look of contentment that has radiated from her this whole relationship has been inspiring.
This is Textbook J-Lo.
Every new relationship is 'the love of her life'. Even the back-up dancer. It's why she has been married/engaged so many times.
She has an addiction to the early stages of relationships, never gets past the limerence when things get real and has AN AWFUL picker.
I feel incredibly awful for the kids on both sides. Dad is blowing through women and so is mom. Not healthy role models...and bringing the kids around partners so soon..yikes.
+100 very sad and not inspiring or worthy of admiration.
I admire her because she is a hard working person and has done a lot of things. However, this behavior is so trashy/crazy that now I think she has some mental health issues. Btw, I think worst of Ben.
Anonymous
07/09/2021 10:45
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Jen says hays she's happy in this new Elle interview.
“I’m good,” she said. “I love my life right now. I love what I’m doing. I love where I’m at. I love the person that I am continually kind of evolving into and becoming. And that kind of joy, that kind of happiness, that kind of love always inspires me. I think some people really get inspired when they’re heartbroken.”
https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/a36931874/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-opens-up-relationship/
I’m glad she’s happy. The look of contentment that has radiated from her this whole relationship has been inspiring.
This is Textbook J-Lo.
Every new relationship is 'the love of her life'. Even the back-up dancer. It's why she has been married/engaged so many times.
She has an addiction to the early stages of relationships, never gets past the limerence when things get real and has AN AWFUL picker.
I feel incredibly awful for the kids on both sides. Dad is blowing through women and so is mom. Not healthy role models...and bringing the kids around partners so soon..yikes.
+100 very sad and not inspiring or worthy of admiration.
Anonymous
07/08/2021 20:35
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Actually, I wouldn’t be surprised if he was still hung up over Ana. He was totally obsessed and infatuated with her, and she dumped him pretty suddenly. He started pursuing jlo almost immediately, but I don’t think you can get over someone that quickly. This jlo situation is a bandaid/rebound for him and I fear that she will end up getting hurt.
+1
Jlo's definitely "all in" but I'm not sure he is in the same place. He looks vaguely harrowed still, and not actually happy.
That’s how he looked the first time around. It’s how he always kind of looks. He goes through phases- like Jennifer Garner put it when she said his warmth can be like the sun shining on you when things are good, but it’s awfully lonely place when it’s not. He seems to have very strong highs and terrible lows, which impacts all his relationships. It’s not the women, it’s him.
Anonymous
07/08/2021 16:58
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Actually, I wouldn’t be surprised if he was still hung up over Ana. He was totally obsessed and infatuated with her, and she dumped him pretty suddenly. He started pursuing jlo almost immediately, but I don’t think you can get over someone that quickly. This jlo situation is a bandaid/rebound for him and I fear that she will end up getting hurt.
+100
Agree, also he seemed like the dump-ee with Ana, the reverse with JLo. Always a much different dynamic (in terms of pining
).
-T.