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Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

I don’t think he love bombed. There was an article about J Lo on her Super Bowl Halftime, Oscars buzz for Hustlers, Inaugurarion performance and her having her peak as an actress and performer at age 50. The journalist asked other celebrities for quotes /stories on Jennifer and Ben provided a complimentary quote. She thanked him via email and then they decided to meet after her breakup in April . That was that.

How does a hookup mean love bombing? They dated a year before he proposed. That isn’t love bombing.

He thought she was finally his equal after the Hustlers buzz but JLo is still not a Hollywood A list actress darling .

Okay i definitely agree with you about him thinking things were going to be different after the hustler's hype. A lot of people thought her career was going to to a new and more respectable direction. But I also think he love bombed her and told her exactly what she wanted to hear without necessarily meaning it. He always told her he wasn't going anywhere and got it engraved on wedding ring.

What fantasy are guys living in? JLo has been A-list for DECADES. Why do you think there was so much hype around Bennifer 20 TWENTY YEARS AGO? Because they were both big back then. Now we are 20 years later. She is worth more than double what he and JGarner are worth. Stop with your fantasies. Stop taking credit away from minority women. You can fawn over "intellectual" Ben Affleck all you want. He is a pseudo-intellectual (maybe more book smart than JLo but that is not saying much) who has been in the business for most of his life. Yes, he absorbed some lessons and produced one good movie. However, the way people are fawning over him is ridiculous. He is an addict.

You are confusing money and fame with success. Yes, it's one kind of success. It's also cheapened when a person is so desperate to prove something to the world that she bares her rear repeatedly during their honeymoon and posts pics of them in bed together in an attempt to verify that theirs is the greatest love story ever. Honestly, it's a sad reflection of JLo's desperation and inner issues.

Aside from her oversharing, the quality of her film work has drastically declined. Nothing but absolute dreck since Hustlers (which was not exactly a great film, just a role that really suited her). If I had her money, I would turn down these terrible scripts. Ben may not deserve fawning over, but he's much higher ranked on The Hollywood totem pole and she knows it. He's more selective about projects than she is, for sure.

She has her incredible singing career, though.

It feels like Ben and JG can be friends, while he and JLo could never exist in that calm state.

Incredible singing career? She hasn’t had a hit song since 2011. She never won a Grammy.

Ben inspired her to return to music. Her last album prior to This is Me.. was 10 years ago (2014).

J Lo is so bad of a singer that it’s recently made news all her past hits from the early 2000s were sang by other singers. Her voice was so bad before Autotune and Pro Tools existed , she had to literally use ghost singers /demo vocals of the songwriter on all recordings . A woman named Natasha Ramos went viral on Tiktok recently . She was the singer of the entire Jenny from the Block song-even the laugh inside the song wasn’t from Jennifer.

Her voice is that weak she’s only 20% in the mix of her own past number 1 songs.

She didn’t get into the music biz off talent. Mariah’s ex husband Tommy Mottola wanted to make Mariah jealous by singing a hot woman to Sony Columbia Records and use payola and ghost singers to make J Lo succeed at her best acting role to date: playing a singer

Did you not get schooling beyond the 3rd grade? Your grammar is AWFUL.

big deal. the analysis is top notch. a lot of interesting info, thanks PP.

it was not top notch. it was crap

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Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

I don’t think he love bombed. There was an article about J Lo on her Super Bowl Halftime, Oscars buzz for Hustlers, Inaugurarion performance and her having her peak as an actress and performer at age 50. The journalist asked other celebrities for quotes /stories on Jennifer and Ben provided a complimentary quote. She thanked him via email and then they decided to meet after her breakup in April . That was that.

How does a hookup mean love bombing? They dated a year before he proposed. That isn’t love bombing.

He thought she was finally his equal after the Hustlers buzz but JLo is still not a Hollywood A list actress darling .

Okay i definitely agree with you about him thinking things were going to be different after the hustler's hype. A lot of people thought her career was going to to a new and more respectable direction. But I also think he love bombed her and told her exactly what she wanted to hear without necessarily meaning it. He always told her he wasn't going anywhere and got it engraved on wedding ring.

What fantasy are guys living in? JLo has been A-list for DECADES. Why do you think there was so much hype around Bennifer 20 TWENTY YEARS AGO? Because they were both big back then. Now we are 20 years later. She is worth more than double what he and JGarner are worth. Stop with your fantasies. Stop taking credit away from minority women. You can fawn over "intellectual" Ben Affleck all you want. He is a pseudo-intellectual (maybe more book smart than JLo but that is not saying much) who has been in the business for most of his life. Yes, he absorbed some lessons and produced one good movie. However, the way people are fawning over him is ridiculous. He is an addict.

You are confusing money and fame with success. Yes, it's one kind of success. It's also cheapened when a person is so desperate to prove something to the world that she bares her rear repeatedly during their honeymoon and posts pics of them in bed together in an attempt to verify that theirs is the greatest love story ever. Honestly, it's a sad reflection of JLo's desperation and inner issues.

Aside from her oversharing, the quality of her film work has drastically declined. Nothing but absolute dreck since Hustlers (which was not exactly a great film, just a role that really suited her). If I had her money, I would turn down these terrible scripts. Ben may not deserve fawning over, but he's much higher ranked on The Hollywood totem pole and she knows it. He's more selective about projects than she is, for sure.

She has her incredible singing career, though.

It feels like Ben and JG can be friends, while he and JLo could never exist in that calm state.

Incredible singing career? She hasn’t had a hit song since 2011. She never won a Grammy.

Ben inspired her to return to music. Her last album prior to This is Me.. was 10 years ago (2014).

J Lo is so bad of a singer that it’s recently made news all her past hits from the early 2000s were sang by other singers. Her voice was so bad before Autotune and Pro Tools existed , she had to literally use ghost singers /demo vocals of the songwriter on all recordings . A woman named Natasha Ramos went viral on Tiktok recently . She was the singer of the entire Jenny from the Block song-even the laugh inside the song wasn’t from Jennifer.

Her voice is that weak she’s only 20% in the mix of her own past number 1 songs.

She didn’t get into the music biz off talent. Mariah’s ex husband Tommy Mottola wanted to make Mariah jealous by singing a hot woman to Sony Columbia Records and use payola and ghost singers to make J Lo succeed at her best acting role to date: playing a singer

Did you not get schooling beyond the 3rd grade? Your grammar is AWFUL.

big deal. the analysis is top notch. a lot of interesting info, thanks PP.

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Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

I don’t think he love bombed. There was an article about J Lo on her Super Bowl Halftime, Oscars buzz for Hustlers, Inaugurarion performance and her having her peak as an actress and performer at age 50. The journalist asked other celebrities for quotes /stories on Jennifer and Ben provided a complimentary quote. She thanked him via email and then they decided to meet after her breakup in April . That was that.

How does a hookup mean love bombing? They dated a year before he proposed. That isn’t love bombing.

He thought she was finally his equal after the Hustlers buzz but JLo is still not a Hollywood A list actress darling .

Okay i definitely agree with you about him thinking things were going to be different after the hustler's hype. A lot of people thought her career was going to to a new and more respectable direction. But I also think he love bombed her and told her exactly what she wanted to hear without necessarily meaning it. He always told her he wasn't going anywhere and got it engraved on wedding ring.

What fantasy are guys living in? JLo has been A-list for DECADES. Why do you think there was so much hype around Bennifer 20 TWENTY YEARS AGO? Because they were both big back then. Now we are 20 years later. She is worth more than double what he and JGarner are worth. Stop with your fantasies. Stop taking credit away from minority women. You can fawn over "intellectual" Ben Affleck all you want. He is a pseudo-intellectual (maybe more book smart than JLo but that is not saying much) who has been in the business for most of his life. Yes, he absorbed some lessons and produced one good movie. However, the way people are fawning over him is ridiculous. He is an addict.

You are confusing money and fame with success. Yes, it's one kind of success. It's also cheapened when a person is so desperate to prove something to the world that she bares her rear repeatedly during their honeymoon and posts pics of them in bed together in an attempt to verify that theirs is the greatest love story ever. Honestly, it's a sad reflection of JLo's desperation and inner issues.

Aside from her oversharing, the quality of her film work has drastically declined. Nothing but absolute dreck since Hustlers (which was not exactly a great film, just a role that really suited her). If I had her money, I would turn down these terrible scripts. Ben may not deserve fawning over, but he's much higher ranked on The Hollywood totem pole and she knows it. He's more selective about projects than she is, for sure.

She has her incredible singing career, though.

It feels like Ben and JG can be friends, while he and JLo could never exist in that calm state.

Incredible singing career? She hasn’t had a hit song since 2011. She never won a Grammy.

Ben inspired her to return to music. Her last album prior to This is Me.. was 10 years ago (2014).

J Lo is so bad of a singer that it’s recently made news all her past hits from the early 2000s were sang by other singers. Her voice was so bad before Autotune and Pro Tools existed , she had to literally use ghost singers /demo vocals of the songwriter on all recordings . A woman named Natasha Ramos went viral on Tiktok recently . She was the singer of the entire Jenny from the Block song-even the laugh inside the song wasn’t from Jennifer.

Her voice is that weak she’s only 20% in the mix of her own past number 1 songs.

She didn’t get into the music biz off talent. Mariah’s ex husband Tommy Mottola wanted to make Mariah jealous by singing a hot woman to Sony Columbia Records and use payola and ghost singers to make J Lo succeed at her best acting role to date: playing a singer

Did you not get schooling beyond the 3rd grade? Your grammar is AWFUL.

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Anonymous wrote:It probably stings that Ben had three kids with JG and none with JLo.

She actually is crazy enough to try to have 3 kids with him now at 55. I actually wouldn’t be surprised if that’s what scared Ben away and caused this divorce talk.

Prior to all this divorce chatter, the rumor was J Lo was highly considering surrogacy.

Ben definitely made it clear even with Garner who said she wouldn’t mind having more, that three was enough for him

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I didn't watch her documentary but saw this clip on twitter/tiktok. Ben says there's not enough attention for Jlo. Basically what these articles are echoing. He was well aware of her issues and seemed sympathic in the clip. On the other hand these articles are pretty harsh.

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Anonymous wrote:People magazine has broken the news that things are sour.

https://people.com/ben-affleck-jennifer-lopez-marriage-not-in-best-place-exclusive-8651551

Ridiculous how they make it sound like their relationship has spanned decades. That’s offensive to people who have actually been together for two decades! LOL

“ One thing is certain: Though they have problems, Affleck and Lopez also share a deep bond that spans two decades. Says the music source, “There have always been clashes in their styles and how they handle issues, but nothing has stopped their love over the years.”

"Nothing has stopped their love over the years." Cue eyeroll....what fifty something person talks and thinks like this? It's so over the top and idealized. I say this as someone who still loves her husband of 25 years. She's lives in a fantasy world but It must serve an important purpose and function for her. It gets her through.

That idealization is cute when your in your 20s. Not in your 50s with kids.

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Anonymous wrote:People magazine has broken the news that things are sour.

https://people.com/ben-affleck-jennifer-lopez-marriage-not-in-best-place-exclusive-8651551

Ridiculous how they make it sound like their relationship has spanned decades. That’s offensive to people who have actually been together for two decades! LOL

“ One thing is certain: Though they have problems, Affleck and Lopez also share a deep bond that spans two decades. Says the music source, “There have always been clashes in their styles and how they handle issues, but nothing has stopped their love over the years.”

"Nothing has stopped their love over the years." Cue eyeroll....what fifty something person talks and thinks like this? It's so over the top and idealized. I say this as someone who still loves her husband of 25 years. She's lives in a fantasy world but It must serve an important purpose and function for her. It gets her through.

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Anonymous wrote:People magazine has broken the news that things are sour.

https://people.com/ben-affleck-jennifer-lopez-marriage-not-in-best-place-exclusive-8651551

Ridiculous how they make it sound like their relationship has spanned decades. That’s offensive to people who have actually been together for two decades! LOL

“ One thing is certain: Though they have problems, Affleck and Lopez also share a deep bond that spans two decades. Says the music source, “There have always been clashes in their styles and how they handle issues, but nothing has stopped their love over the years.”

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Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

I don’t think he love bombed. There was an article about J Lo on her Super Bowl Halftime, Oscars buzz for Hustlers, Inaugurarion performance and her having her peak as an actress and performer at age 50. The journalist asked other celebrities for quotes /stories on Jennifer and Ben provided a complimentary quote. She thanked him via email and then they decided to meet after her breakup in April . That was that.

How does a hookup mean love bombing? They dated a year before he proposed. That isn’t love bombing.

He thought she was finally his equal after the Hustlers buzz but JLo is still not a Hollywood A list actress darling .

Okay i definitely agree with you about him thinking things were going to be different after the hustler's hype. A lot of people thought her career was going to to a new and more respectable direction. But I also think he love bombed her and told her exactly what she wanted to hear without necessarily meaning it. He always told her he wasn't going anywhere and got it engraved on wedding ring.

What fantasy are guys living in? JLo has been A-list for DECADES. Why do you think there was so much hype around Bennifer 20 TWENTY YEARS AGO? Because they were both big back then. Now we are 20 years later. She is worth more than double what he and JGarner are worth. Stop with your fantasies. Stop taking credit away from minority women. You can fawn over "intellectual" Ben Affleck all you want. He is a pseudo-intellectual (maybe more book smart than JLo but that is not saying much) who has been in the business for most of his life. Yes, he absorbed some lessons and produced one good movie. However, the way people are fawning over him is ridiculous. He is an addict.

You are confusing money and fame with success. Yes, it's one kind of success. It's also cheapened when a person is so desperate to prove something to the world that she bares her rear repeatedly during their honeymoon and posts pics of them in bed together in an attempt to verify that theirs is the greatest love story ever. Honestly, it's a sad reflection of JLo's desperation and inner issues.

Aside from her oversharing, the quality of her film work has drastically declined. Nothing but absolute dreck since Hustlers (which was not exactly a great film, just a role that really suited her). If I had her money, I would turn down these terrible scripts. Ben may not deserve fawning over, but he's much higher ranked on The Hollywood totem pole and she knows it. He's more selective about projects than she is, for sure.

She has her incredible singing career, though.

It feels like Ben and JG can be friends, while he and JLo could never exist in that calm state.

Incredible singing career? She hasn’t had a hit song since 2011. She never won a Grammy.

Ben inspired her to return to music. Her last album prior to This is Me.. was 10 years ago (2014).

J Lo is so bad of a singer that it’s recently made news all her past hits from the early 2000s were sang by other singers. Her voice was so bad before Autotune and Pro Tools existed , she had to literally use ghost singers /demo vocals of the songwriter on all recordings . A woman named Natasha Ramos went viral on Tiktok recently . She was the singer of the entire Jenny from the Block song-even the laugh inside the song wasn’t from Jennifer.

Her voice is that weak she’s only 20% in the mix of her own past number 1 songs.

She didn’t get into the music biz off talent. Mariah’s ex husband Tommy Mottola wanted to make Mariah jealous by singing a hot woman to Sony Columbia Records and use payola and ghost singers to make J Lo succeed at her best acting role to date: playing a singer